Should I even bother giving my ex-Sag the time of day?

I'm CaptainCap from before but I had to delete my account cause it wouldn't let me log in. Anyway, I broke up with my Sag a month ago because how she felt towards me I felt changed, she seemed distracted, it was a long distance relationship, she rushed it and it started extremely fast. We talked two weeks ago and she was being rude for no reason. Then during our conversation, I saw her and guy best friend laid up on the beach together in his avi on twitter and I thought that was a little too much so I brought it up, she called me fucking crazy, said yea let's be done, block me, so I did that and blocked her. She emailed me 2 weeks after that saying she misses me, wants to see my new apartment, said she was calling me crazy because she would never see her guy best friend like that. I haven't been texting her back because I just don't know what to say. We have deep feelings for each other but something tells me she's either dishonest and hiding something behind my back or just has odd intentions. She's just all over the place and it's hard for me to read her.

I do tell her about my feelings. She calls out my insecurities and I always feel like she's doing something behind my back. I do talk about things and I let her know how I feel but she doesn't make much effort to respond correctly. She kinda just goes with whatever will make me happy it seems. I've been trying to get the truth for a long time and it leads to nothing but an argument. It's to the point where if she actually was doing something behind my back, she would look extremely manipulative because there's been many times she said she was tired of me being paranoid, insecure, whatever you wanna call it.

When I say she's all over the place, one minute she seem like she don't care at all like how she was rude when we talked 2 weeks ago and next minute she's giving me all of this I miss you, I wanna see you stuff? By the time she emailed me a month after we broke up, I was already comfortable with letting her go a month ago, so I'm kinda looking at her like why the hell are you emailing on this lovey dovey stuff when you had the total opposite energy 2 weeks ago. My first reply to her emailing me was "are you pregnant?" because how she been acting towards me, that's the only reason I felt she would even hit me up. I'm gonna be blunt. She straight up seem like a lying, dishonest, person and I wanna know what's really going on because I got no evidence at all but something feels off which is why I broke up with her in the first place. Feels like communication does nothing. Trying to figure things out with her kinda like talking to a brick wall.

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Pisces women is the only sign who wouldn't or least likely to cheat on Capricorn.



Sag women, they are not bad, it is expected for Capricorn men to get cheated on regardless of what sign their women is.



Anyway Sag and Capricorn have different moral compass, no one is better.

Yea I've heard that and yea we do end up in a lot of third party situations. Even when I don't have a girlfriend, I'm usually messing with other people's girls'...

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Pisces women is the only sign who wouldn't or least likely to cheat on Capricorn.



Sag women, they are not bad, it is expected for Capricorn men to get cheated on regardless of what sign their women is.



Anyway Sag and Capricorn have different moral compass, no one is better.

Yea I've heard that and yea we do end up in a lot of third party situations. Even when I don't have a girlfriend, I'm usually messing with other people's girls'... click to expand

I'm not brave enough to risking my heart on Sag women, so I just ignore them



https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/sagittarius/sagittarius-ratatouille-10673685/



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It really does feel like a risk lol. I ignore her on and off

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Posted by TheCapCaptain
I do tell her about my feelings. She calls out my insecurities and I always feel like she's doing something behind my back. I do talk about things and I let her know how I feel but she doesn't make much effort to respond correctly. She kinda just goes with whatever will make me happy it seems. I've been trying to get the truth for a long time and it leads to nothing but an argument. It's to the point where if she actually was doing something behind my back, she would look extremely manipulative because there's been many times she said she was tired of me being paranoid, insecure, whatever you wanna call it.



When I say she's all over the place, one minute she seem like she don't care at all like how she was rude when we talked 2 weeks ago and next minute she's giving me all of this I miss you, I wanna see you stuff? By the time she emailed me a month after we broke up, I was already comfortable with letting her go a month ago, so I'm kinda looking at her like why the hell are you emailing on this lovey dovey stuff when you had the total opposite energy 2 weeks ago. My first reply to her emailing me was "are you pregnant?" because how she been acting towards me, that's the only reason I felt she would even hit me up. I'm gonna be blunt. She straight up seem like a lying, dishonest, person and I wanna know what's really going on because I got no evidence at all but something feels off which is why I broke up with her in the first place. Feels like communication does nothing. Trying to figure things out with her kinda like talking to a brick wall.

Well without communication it won’t work. The insecurities make it hard. Maybe she was not happy with you for some reason? But, sometimes you don’t know you really care until you almost lose something. Could explain the email. Or who knows maybe your instincts are right. Actions & words must be in line. If they aren’t then perhaps you’re better off walking away. click to expand

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She did say she wasn't happy with how I would be distant and not text her back for a few hours, and she didn't like how it felt like I was trying to "pry something out of her" as in trying to find out what she's doing behind my back. I did somewhat make the relationship more stressful but that was only because I felt something was off and she was trying to hide it. I definitely feel like she didn't realize she cared until later on, which is why when I first broke up with her a month ago and let her know you need to look within and spend some time thinking about what you want, what's going on, etc and you can find a way to contact me when you're ready. Something told me she needed time to figure out what she really wanted. We did have a talk on FaceTime last night. We talked about how I've felt about her, she said she hasn't been talking to anyone and she's been alone, I got straight to the point and told her she seems dishonest but she still didn't budge to confess anything. She's still sticking with her I'm loyal story. Maybe it's true, maybe it ain't