Swingers (Page 2)

Rule 1. Get tested before entering this group of strangers or partners.

Rule 2. Communication, honesty, and respect yourselves and your partner.

Rule 3. I urge get tested after each partner STD and pregnancy.. Don't forget. Unless you know for sure you had a condom on or used.

Rule 4. Love your partner 100 percent afterwards. Continue or end it afterwards.

Rule 5. Make sure your partner is worth it to you.

Rule 6. If it fails never try again. And you learned a valuable lesson. And can teach other people the UPS and downs if swinging..

Polygamist are the exactly like swingers? and swingers can be open to 3 different wives or husbands with multiple kids...there is no difference. Right?

Lol you are dark.

I mean Polygamist are exactly like swingers..

Damn ok you proved your point, since he was a fixed sign. And I am not assuming anything just an observation in the forum.

Well I have never done it before, but have been pretty close to that environment. I dated two women who I think would have done something like that based on their hints. One fun outgoing gal I dated went out drinking with me and a work friend one night when he was in town. The three of us went out for drinks, and then later went back to her house. We were newly dating, and were in her room when my buddy came in the room acting lost and tipsy and I told him to get out, but that was me being crabby and I liked the woman. She kind of gave me a look like, oh cmon lets have fun tonight. Pretty sure she wanted to be in between us all night. The next day I pretty much ended it because I liked her, and her wanting to be shared hurt my ego. I was not open about it with her.

Then a couple years ago I was seeing someone, but not really serious. We were very like minded and enjoyed hanging out, but there was just something I couldnt pin down to where I knew long term we wouldnt work out. So we had a off and on physical relationship which was pretty good. Towards the end of our time one night when we hung out at my place she told me sometimes she liked to watch porn and get all worked up. I asked her what website, and she told me which was the same one I knew of. Then I asked her what kinds of videos she liked and she said threesomes (straight) with two men. Something she had always fantasized about doing one time. She really got excited talking about how she wanted to go down on me while one of my friends was behind her. It got me worked up enough to seriously consider it. One of those role play things where a friend comes over randomly and the night goes from there. So, that night after she told me these things we watched a threesome video together while having pretty good sex, and while talking dirty to each other about her being F'd by another man while she goes down on me, and of course her having me behind her.

We never ended up going through with it. We started not to keep in touch as much. It was a very casual deal, which I myself am not really into. One of those rare things. It wasnt an interest in the swinger lifestyle. What she wanted was kind of a deal where say once a year on new years eve you live out some sexual fantasy. She also wasnt into some large group thing, the furthest she wanted was to be taken by me and two of my friends at once. That was another issue I was torn between. Asking a friend to join in, or asking a stranger.

That kind of stuff is normally not my thing and not something I expect out of say a future wife. However in that one casual situation it was a very appealing thing. Especially how erotic she wanted to get with it. I think for me what turned me on about her fantasy was knowing I would watch her be pleased in ways she secretly desired, while pleasing me at the same time. I knew how much that would bring her to ecstasy.

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Posted by tiziani
Mostly actually I think I've seen more women be empowered by being submissive. It's mostly the mental side of it.

Submission is far more powerful than people realise tho.

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yes its is.

Thanks Exo for bumpin this thread, was a good read 😉

I just realized this was not a new thread and was started a year ago lol.

@TheCardinalClaw- Yeah I was interested in it.. I had met a guy that was really into it. It's very expensive monthly that I couldn't just throw money on it. And @Tiz did a great job on the insight to this & everyone else who wanted to share their stories or experience..

I hope people now understand the meaning to swinging. Because this topic was new to me. Thanks for sharing @TheCardinalClaw.. I like that screen name.

I don't object to sex or anyone doing it. Or demonizing it to portray I am superior to anything. Cause I am not just not so much open minded to swinging.. I however believe you must be completely open minded to this and be okay with it and not so many emotions into it.

@tizani- did you move forward with this? Is it more than a 100 woman now, any males involved?

You are all insane.

Wait so you tried a threesome, what were their signs, haha..

I actually never did a threesome the only thing was watch porno with my ex bff.. I also did a thread about S & M, that was interesting too because that's not as bad than I think about swinging. Which is weird.

@GuardianAnu- Which part exactly? Haha lmao.. over the year I've been here I have seen alot more crazy insane topics and comments. My topic so vanilla compared to others.

Hell to the no. I've known a few single couples and it caused problems in the relationship.

The most extreme case was a former fr iends parents. They use to swing with the nighbors and following the neighbors divorce my buddies mom got drunk one night and slept with the guy who still lived next door. The husband got drunk one night and kicked the door in and beat him to a pulp.

Now the husband has been trying desperately for years to screw the neighbors ex only to be shut down every time, but he keeps trying.

Marriage is full of arguments and the children of both families ended up either being serial cheaters or over-sexed. Then again my buddies parents are redneck hippies.


The other two couples ended up giving swinging up due to jealousy and ego coming into play and screwing up the marriage.

Few swinger couples*

I'm thoroughly convinced folks who believe having multiple relationships be it the real deal or purely sexual have some kind of delusional mental disorder.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TheCardinalClaw- Yeah I was interested in it.. I had met a guy that was really into it. It's very expensive monthly that I couldn't just throw money on it. And @Tiz did a great job on the insight to this & everyone else who wanted to share their stories or experience..

I hope people now understand the meaning to swinging. Because this topic was new to me. Thanks for sharing @TheCardinalClaw.. I like that screen name.

I don't object to sex or anyone doing it. Or demonizing it to portray I am superior to anything. Cause I am not just not so much open minded to swinging.. I however believe you must be completely open minded to this and be okay with it and not so many emotions into it.

@tizani- did you move forward with this? Is it more than a 100 woman now, any males involved?

thanks taurus woman!

Gotta agree with promiscuity not being empowering to woman. The same ones who are promisicous complain that men treat women like they only exist for sexual gratification and spitting out babies, all the while showing them through their actions that's exactly why they exist.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@GuardianAnu- Which part exactly? Haha lmao.. over the year I've been here I have seen alot more crazy insane topics and comments. My topic so vanilla compared to others.

I meant that in the best way possible, when I wrote this I was quite drunk. Lots of interesting characters on this site, I laugh quite hard reading certain posts.

I am really quite vanilla myself, in the true taurus fashion, probably kind of traditional and boring. LOL. Plus I don't share and the idea of that makes me quite sick to my stomach. MINE.

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Posted by GuardianAnu
You are all insane.

I missed this place!

You ain't seen nothing yet!

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I've seen Rabbit's nipple, though.

Haha...

@GuardianAnu- What's one of your best threads over the time spent here on dxp?

@Tiziani- Oh ok ...That's cool.. So what are you into now?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@GuardianAnu- What's one of your best threads over the time spent here on dxp?

I'm not sure. I have done a lot of lurking before ever posting, I think over a year or maybe two? Seems like a long time anyway, and the Scorpio board was always the most popular and I would spend some nights in bed reading threads laughing at the awesome comments, so I would say that those threads were most likely in the Scorpio board. Sorry I couldn't be more accurate, I am still getting a feel for things, you know how slowly we Tauruses can move. Plus with my Cancer ascending and Moon, I am slowed down even moreso, probably. LOL.