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makes for someone who disregards the socio-economic status of a potential partner?
venus in the 11th?
I have Venus in 11th and I can confirm this.
I dgaf about my partner's profession, as long as she can be financially responsible.
Can confirm Aqua. No Aqua I know ever cared about their partners socio-economic status, yes that includes all those with Cap Venus. Those are even the ones who tend to have the biggest gaps.
Where it becomes tricky for Aqua stuff is intelligence and ideology.
You probably might want to take gender into account as men traditionally don't really care about a females money class. That's still more a women thing.
Hmm. I have an Aqua friend who actually cares very much about status of her partners. She seems to always pick partners who are well-off and can afford to pamper her. She's not very financially responsible herself.
The relationship always reaches its end when her partners start complaining about how much money they have to spend on her.
Can confirm Aqua. No Aqua I know ever cared about their partners socio-economic status, yes that includes all those with Cap Venus. Those are even the ones who tend to have the biggest gaps.
Where it becomes tricky for Aqua stuff is intelligence and ideology.
You probably might want to take gender into account as men traditionally don't really care about a females money class. That's still more a women thing.
Hmm. I have an Aqua friend who actually cares very much about status of her partners. She seems to always pick partners who are well-off and can afford to pamper her. She's not very financially responsible herself.
The relationship always reaches its end when her partners start complaining about how much money they have to spend on her.
It's certainly possible. I just never see this with any of the Aquas I know.
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Seems like most of the Aquas I know in real life are like this...my Aqua granduncle married up, to an older woman, because he wanted to retire early and she was earning a lot more than him as a school vice-principal (she's a Taurus). An Aqua grandaunt used to give expired food to her neighbours and cheat kids at card games during family events (yes, I was one of her victims lol). Just to name a few more.
my aqua cousin is the breadwinner in her marriage and married a dude who's good looking but makes much less than her, but I've definitely seen the materialistic side of her. It shows through her dealings with everyone else, but not with him.
Neptune/Pisces strong in the chart
Self sacrificing .... I’ve a Pisces friend who has been with broke men and given them money and not got it back
i have venus in 11th & i am neither materialistic nor do i care about the wealth associated w/ my dates.
ive dated dudes ive met at supermarkets, bus stops, libraries, etc.
as long as you are a good person, i dont care if you are a 40 yo pizza delivery person.
i am venus & jupiter in 11th, aqua mars & rising.
my venus in the 11th too
i have venus in 11th & i am neither materialistic nor do i care about the wealth associated w/ my dates.
ive dated dudes ive met at supermarkets, bus stops, libraries, etc.
as long as you are a good person, i dont care if you are a 40 yo pizza delivery person.
i am venus & jupiter in 11th, aqua mars & rising.
my venus in the 11th too
i think the difference between us is you are fixated on status & i am not.
you make alotta threads associated w/ status & money.
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i make a lot of threads about a lot of things
i have venus in 11th & i am neither materialistic nor do i care about the wealth associated w/ my dates.
ive dated dudes ive met at supermarkets, bus stops, libraries, etc.
as long as you are a good person, i dont care if you are a 40 yo pizza delivery person.
i am venus & jupiter in 11th, aqua mars & rising.
my venus in the 11th too
i think the difference between us is you are fixated on status & i am not.
you make alotta threads associated w/ status & money.
i make a lot of threads about a lot of things
and a lot of them have to do with status & money
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uhh no it doesn't
that's not the majority of my threads
i've only ever made are sag moons cheap and depressed and this one
Im kinda like that. Idk if its the aqua or virgo placements but i respect "lower class work" as much of not more than higher positions
I also find myself turning down money and higher positions. Not only for humility but because many of those positions are fake and unfulfilling
you took yourself out when you refer to it as "lower class work." Lol J's...
The comment in the op did no such thing. She stayed true and sincere in her sentiments by only stating their position in the hospital with zero connotation.
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yeah do you think maybe they're together now
maybe they are coz she doesn't care
Im kinda like that. Idk if its the aqua or virgo placements but i respect "lower class work" as much of not more than higher positions
I also find myself turning down money and higher positions. Not only for humility but because many of those positions are fake and unfulfilling
you took yourself out when you refer to it as "lower class work." Lol J's...
The comment in the op did no such thing. She stayed true and sincere in her sentiments by only stating their position in the hospital with zero connotation.
yeah do you think maybe they're together now
maybe they are coz she doesn't care
I hope so! This post put me in feels yo. On a Sunday morning. Where did you find this?
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i got it from quora
just sometimes i think it's unfair that men think women just care about their resources
I'm starting to think it's more a Venus in 11th thing than an Aqua thing. So you can be Venus Taurus in 11th house, and have these traits.
i have venus in 11th & i am neither materialistic nor do i care about the wealth associated w/ my dates.
ive dated dudes ive met at supermarkets, bus stops, libraries, etc.
as long as you are a good person, i dont care if you are a 40 yo pizza delivery person.
i am venus & jupiter in 11th, aqua mars & rising.
but you leave bubu at people's door steps tho!
lol whats that got to do with materialism in romance?
idk. But I doubt this doctor has ever done that. These things leave Clue's.
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people in the comments asked her if she's concerned about introducing him to people she knows (friends and family)
but i think people forget that what if he gets uncomfortable?
she's not the only one who has to deal with judgement
though i guess if she's strong she can try to protect him from that
Im kinda like that. Idk if its the aqua or virgo placements but i respect "lower class work" as much of not more than higher positions
I also find myself turning down money and higher positions. Not only for humility but because many of those positions are fake and unfulfilling
you took yourself out when you refer to it as "lower class work." Lol J's...
The comment in the op did no such thing. She stayed true and sincere in her sentiments by only stating their position in the hospital with zero connotation.
yeah do you think maybe they're together now
maybe they are coz she doesn't care
I hope so! This post put me in feels yo. On a Sunday morning. Where did you find this?
i got it from quora
just sometimes i think it's unfair that men think women just care about their resources
dang. That means it'll be hard to find the source.
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yeah she might've only posted once and was never seen again
but i like to think they got together
i have venus in 11th & i am neither materialistic nor do i care about the wealth associated w/ my dates.
ive dated dudes ive met at supermarkets, bus stops, libraries, etc.
as long as you are a good person, i dont care if you are a 40 yo pizza delivery person.
i am venus & jupiter in 11th, aqua mars & rising.
but you leave bubu at people's door steps tho!
lol whats that got to do with materialism in romance?
idk. But I doubt this doctor has ever done that. These things leave Clue's.
people in the comments asked her if she's concerned about introducing him to people she knows (friends and family)
but i think people forget that what if he gets uncomfortable?
she's not the only one who has to deal with judgement
though i guess if she's strong she can try to protect him from that
they'll both have to be equally mature and have thick skin for it to work. Intense/ unconditional love for each other will protect them from the world too.
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maybe she'd even have to avoid her family for a while
people say very hurtful things, sometimes even directly to the person
imagine if she introduces him to family and they say crap in front of him
it's going to be hard
Im kinda like that. Idk if its the aqua or virgo placements but i respect "lower class work" as much of not more than higher positions
I also find myself turning down money and higher positions. Not only for humility but because many of those positions are fake and unfulfilling
you took yourself out when you refer to it as "lower class work." Lol J's...
The comment in the op did no such thing. She stayed true and sincere in her sentiments by only stating their position in the hospital with zero connotation.
yeah do you think maybe they're together now
maybe they are coz she doesn't care
I hope so! This post put me in feels yo. On a Sunday morning. Where did you find this?
i got it from quora
just sometimes i think it's unfair that men think women just care about their resources
dang. That means it'll be hard to find the source.
yeah she might've only posted once and was never seen again
but i like to think they got together
let's just say they got together. They both quit their jobs and moved to Aruba where she starts her own clinic that they both run. They 3 children and live happily ever after.
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gosh i love this ❤️
i bet a lot more other people have concerns similar to this too
i hope they stay strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️
idk but not Aqua.
Any and all placements.
definitely not Capricorn
idk my cap is in venus & i still dont really care about status
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the house i'm starting to think is more important
idk but not Aqua.
Any and all placements.
definitely not Capricorn
idk my cap is in venus & i still dont really care about status
the house i'm starting to think is more important
i agree, in this case.
my sun is 9th house, mars is in 12th prob adds to me liking bums
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my sun is in the 12th
my venus in the 11th
my mars in the 1st
I’m going to ask what house their Venus is in.
Will update later.
we'd love to know if it's in the 11th
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
No, just in general, I watch rich people more closely than non-rich people. lol
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i don't get it but i think you've mentioned this before
wouldn't the less fortunate have more reason to be cruel though
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
No, just in general, I watch rich people more closely than non-rich people. lol
i don't get it but i think you've mentioned this before
wouldn't the less fortunate have more reason to be cruel
The less fortunate have more reason to be desperate. Some people become cruel because of that, but they're usually obvious on sight, while cruel rich people rule the world and get their asses kissed.
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wtf
what if you're born there fanta
would you hate yourself
i've seen more examples of desperation turning to cruelty
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
No, just in general, I watch rich people more closely than non-rich people. lol
i don't get it but i think you've mentioned this before
wouldn't the less fortunate have more reason to be cruel
The less fortunate have more reason to be desperate. Some people become cruel because of that, but they're usually obvious on sight, while cruel rich people rule the world and get their asses kissed.
wtf
what if you're born there fanta
would you hate yourself
i've seen more examples of desperation turning to cruelty
I don't hate individuals. As I said, I have a tendency to keep an eye on them. My experience is if you hang around long enough they'll start saying things about the peasants that piss me off, since I am a peasant. And I'll always be a peasant on the inside, even if I were to somehow become super rich.
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i've heard talk like that before but it's mostly the elders
there's a lightness and generosity often in people who are more fortunate or content with their lives
but it's just more admirable to see in people who have less
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
I think it can go both ways. Even if both sides are genuine it will be hard for either side to navigate the seas of distrust and insecurity.
I don't think the example she gives is that extreme though, a doctor (a working individual at the top of the service career echelon) and a janitor (a working individual at the bottom of said echelon.) A more scary and unequal pairing would be someone so rich they don't work plucking a person out of the gutter.
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i think another concern that people raise when it comes to these things is intellect
i've read a lot of stories on reddit
one of them was a woman who regrets letting go of an uneducated farmer coz back then she felt like he couldn't keep up with her intellectually
but she regrets leaving him coz she never found anyone else she can really emotionally invest in
this why i personally never include intellect in connecting with someone
i just care about the vibe
If I waited around to find a man that made more money than me, I would surely die before that transpired.
I'd have better luck finding a woman, actually.
I dont think this is placement specific. Sometimes it is just the way it is in this reality.
Let us 11th housers live in our delusion please.
If I waited around to find a man that made more money than me, I would surely die before that transpired.
I'd have better luck finding a woman, actually.
I dont think this is placement specific. Sometimes it is just the way it is in this reality.
Let us 11th housers live in our delusion please.
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omg yassss
it's 11th house CONFIRMED
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
No, just in general, I watch rich people more closely than non-rich people. lol
i don't get it but i think you've mentioned this before
wouldn't the less fortunate have more reason to be cruel
The less fortunate have more reason to be desperate. Some people become cruel because of that, but they're usually obvious on sight, while cruel rich people rule the world and get their asses kissed.
wtf
what if you're born there fanta
would you hate yourself
i've seen more examples of desperation turning to cruelty
I don't hate individuals. As I said, I have a tendency to keep an eye on them. My experience is if you hang around long enough they'll start saying things about the peasants that piss me off, since I am a peasant. And I'll always be a peasant on the inside, even if I were to somehow become super rich.
i've heard talk like that before but it's mostly the elders
there's a lightness and generosity often in people who are more fortunate or content with their lives
but it's just more admirable to see in people who have less
There are studies that show that people become increasingly happy the more money they make up to a certain, relatively low, income level, and after that, they become increasingly unhappy. We're supposed to have enough to feel provided for and able to be generous. I don't think we've evolved to deal with crazy amounts of wealth, and so it brings out peculiar and often antisocial behaviors.
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hmm i've never thought about that
not saying i agree but it's worth studying
What about Venus Conjunct Uranus?
must be too
what have you observed from people with that aspect
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
why?
suspicious of the doctor?
i think she's sincere
No, just in general, I watch rich people more closely than non-rich people. lol
i don't get it but i think you've mentioned this before
wouldn't the less fortunate have more reason to be cruel
The less fortunate have more reason to be desperate. Some people become cruel because of that, but they're usually obvious on sight, while cruel rich people rule the world and get their asses kissed.
wtf
what if you're born there fanta
would you hate yourself
i've seen more examples of desperation turning to cruelty
I don't hate individuals. As I said, I have a tendency to keep an eye on them. My experience is if you hang around long enough they'll start saying things about the peasants that piss me off, since I am a peasant. And I'll always be a peasant on the inside, even if I were to somehow become super rich.
i've heard talk like that before but it's mostly the elders
there's a lightness and generosity often in people who are more fortunate or content with their lives
but it's just more admirable to see in people who have less
There are studies that show that people become increasingly happy the more money they make up to a certain, relatively low, income level, and after that, they become increasingly unhappy. We're supposed to have enough to feel provided for and able to be generous. I don't think we've evolved to deal with crazy amounts of wealth, and so it brings out peculiar and often antisocial behaviors.
hmm i've never thought about that
not saying i agree but it's worth studying
It seems obvious to me, but yeah, I'd like to see it studied if it hasn't been. If you have more to protect than you can see with your own two eyes, how can you not become paranoid?
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that's interesting
i've always believed in not investing too deeply on too many people
only what your hands can hold, all ten fingers you can count
so at the most, i 'd invest around that number
I'm going to be honest here and then split because 12th house venus...
I've never had a relationship with someone who had a steady career path. Every single one of my relationships....they all had issues with this.
I never cared unless it adversely affected me (financially)....then it became a problem.
Kind of like the guy who stole your lunch money? If I give you lunch money temporarily to help you get on your feet.....and then you transition to feeling entitled to it. I will emotionally drop kick you into your next life.
I have Venus Conjunct Uranus
yeah that's what happened
it was alright for me to give him money at first
coz some people have a bad day financially, maybe a week or month. maybe it's just a bad spot for that whole year who knows?
i can even tell you that i can CONTINUE to give him money
if only he didn't start DEMANDING it from me
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
I think it can go both ways. Even if both sides are genuine it will be hard for either side to navigate the seas of distrust and insecurity.
I don't think the example she gives is that extreme though, a doctor (a working individual at the top of the service career echelon) and a janitor (a working individual at the bottom of said echelon.) A more scary and unequal pairing would be someone so rich they don't work plucking a person out of the gutter.
i think another concern that people raise when it comes to these things is intellect
i've read a lot of stories on reddit
one of them was a woman who regrets letting go of an uneducated farmer coz back then she felt like he couldn't keep up with her intellectually
but she regrets leaving him coz she never found anyone else she can really emotionally invest in
this why i personally never include intellect in connecting with someone
i just care about the vibe
I couldn't date someone a lot dumber than me. I'm an elitist in that way. I have to feel like they're as smart as I am or potentially smarter. So, if I were the doctor in this scenario, he'd have to be a really smart janitor. Formal education is a different matter. I respect it, so I like it when people respect it, but I also admire personally acquired education. In some ways, I admire it more when someone has become really well versed in anything through personal study.
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you can't escape that gemini intellect
but sometimes don't you feel that if you're so emotionally connected with someone that maybe you won't care so much about that?
I'm going to be honest here and then split because 12th house venus...
I've never had a relationship with someone who had a steady career path. Every single one of my relationships....they all had issues with this.
I never cared unless it adversely affected me (financially)....then it became a problem.
Kind of like the guy who stole your lunch money? If I give you lunch money temporarily to help you get on your feet.....and then you transition to feeling entitled to it. I will emotionally drop kick you into your next life.
I have Venus Conjunct Uranus
yeah that's what happened
it was alright for me to give him money at first
coz some people have a bad day financially, maybe a week or month. maybe it's just a bad spot for that whole year who knows?
i can even tell you that i can CONTINUE to give him money
if only he didn't start DEMANDING it from me
Yeah, unfortunately I can be like this too.
It's hard to find that balance of a person who doesn't merge into an entitled asshat demanding your kindness.
That's a real romance buzzkiller for me.
It's almost as if you just shouldn't even bother because it just turns into a dramatic hotmess.
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i'm just going to avoid libra moons
this guy and amber heard's not really doing it for me
that kind of rent seeking makes you question if they even LIKE you
how can you take advantage of me if you like me
also makes you question your looks
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
I think it can go both ways. Even if both sides are genuine it will be hard for either side to navigate the seas of distrust and insecurity.
I don't think the example she gives is that extreme though, a doctor (a working individual at the top of the service career echelon) and a janitor (a working individual at the bottom of said echelon.) A more scary and unequal pairing would be someone so rich they don't work plucking a person out of the gutter.
Yet, even that love might be as genuine as the one between two trailer trash children who have known each other since the age of 5. The struggle of couple of such extreme differences seems to be that the illusion of the genuine and authentic doesn't work here. In a way it could be argued that a love without such help is potentially more authentic due to the struggle it has to go through. Or it is even more of an illusion.
We probably will never know.
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sounds beautiful
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
I think it can go both ways. Even if both sides are genuine it will be hard for either side to navigate the seas of distrust and insecurity.
I don't think the example she gives is that extreme though, a doctor (a working individual at the top of the service career echelon) and a janitor (a working individual at the bottom of said echelon.) A more scary and unequal pairing would be someone so rich they don't work plucking a person out of the gutter.
Yet, even that love might be as genuine as the one between two trailer trash children who have known each other since the age of 5. The struggle of couple of such extreme differences seems to be that the illusion of the genuine and authentic doesn't work here. In a way it could be argued that a love without such help is potentially more authentic due to the struggle it has to go through. Or it is even more of an illusion.
We probably will never know.
sounds beautiful
What part?
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"In a way it could be argued that a love without such help is potentially more authentic due to the struggle it has to go through."
I'm going to be honest here and then split because 12th house venus...
I've never had a relationship with someone who had a steady career path. Every single one of my relationships....they all had issues with this.
I never cared unless it adversely affected me (financially)....then it became a problem.
Kind of like the guy who stole your lunch money? If I give you lunch money temporarily to help you get on your feet.....and then you transition to feeling entitled to it. I will emotionally drop kick you into your next life.
I have Venus Conjunct Uranus
yeah that's what happened
it was alright for me to give him money at first
coz some people have a bad day financially, maybe a week or month. maybe it's just a bad spot for that whole year who knows?
i can even tell you that i can CONTINUE to give him money
if only he didn't start DEMANDING it from me
Yeah, unfortunately I can be like this too.
It's hard to find that balance of a person who doesn't merge into an entitled asshat demanding your kindness.
That's a real romance buzzkiller for me.
It's almost as if you just shouldn't even bother because it just turns into a dramatic hotmess.
i'm just going to avoid libra moons
this guy and amber heard's not really doing it for me
that kind of rent seeking makes you question if they even LIKE you
how can you take advantage of me if you like me
also makes you question your looks
All this except the moon part....they come in all moons. My experience with libra moon has been different.
My husband is a Libra moon. Sometimes I think he would give away everything we have if someone needed it. I've seen him give away big things, like his beloved bass guitar because someone he liked wanted to learn to play. He's so Pisces dominant, though.
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i didn't have a good experience with pisces sun/libra moon
but i've seen very sweet people of that combo
I never cared in one direction. I'm suspicious of rich people.
I think it can go both ways. Even if both sides are genuine it will be hard for either side to navigate the seas of distrust and insecurity.
I don't think the example she gives is that extreme though, a doctor (a working individual at the top of the service career echelon) and a janitor (a working individual at the bottom of said echelon.) A more scary and unequal pairing would be someone so rich they don't work plucking a person out of the gutter.
Yet, even that love might be as genuine as the one between two trailer trash children who have known each other since the age of 5. The struggle of couple of such extreme differences seems to be that the illusion of the genuine and authentic doesn't work here. In a way it could be argued that a love without such help is potentially more authentic due to the struggle it has to go through. Or it is even more of an illusion.
We probably will never know.
sounds beautiful
What part?
"In a way it could be argued that a love without such help is potentially more authentic due to the struggle it has to go through."
Right, you also read the part that it might as well be even more fake than the other version and that we, most likely, will never know what of those two things is the true one?
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yes i get it
there's no one road to this
I would concur with Aquarius placements and that gender plays a role as most women don't consider relationships where their living conditions would potentially be worse. My mother, who got me into astrology, thinks I'm more of an Aquarius than a Cap with Rising, Venus, Mercury, Lilith, and Cusper in Aqua.
I live in the same house I did before I met my ex-Scorpio. Because she was more comfortable being in Portland, Oregon, I had a Range Rover at the time and drove from Colorado to Oregon nonstop overnight (1100 miles) and got there at 6 in the morning. When I got to the place, it was nothing like I pictured beautiful Oregon to be. I had gone from a ~2.5 -3 million dollar 4 bedroom house with amazing views to a roach motel on a the street in Portland that's known as the area where you pick up prostitutes. There was no air conditioning (one of the hottest summers on record that year) and the place had actual cockroaches all over the kitchen. On literally my second night, there was a loud thump on the door. I opened the door and there was a Hispanic woman crying with a child in her arms as some drunken guy was kicking her. I grabbed her arm and pulled her inside the apartment and almost had to fight the guy who wanted to come in. Ah, the things you do for love 🙂
On the other end of the spectrum, I was with a Libra for 4 years as well. She came from a very wealthy family. Parents had homes in San Diego, Cape Cod, and various rental properties and real estate. They treated me like garbage because I grew up in a poor family and wasn't from Country Club stock. Her mother would say things to me like, 'Oh wow, did you get new sunglasses?' (aka those are cheap lower class sunglasses). They even told her that it was unacceptable for her to be with someone that wasn't making $ 90k minimum. I was just out of college and making $ 350 at a printing company at the time lol. I meet that criteria now but I remember thinking 'no matter how good of a guy I am, this is never going to work.' Libra is retired at 35 due to her inheritance but that still wouldn't be worth it to me.
I would concur with Aquarius placements and that gender plays a role as most women don't consider relationships where their living conditions would potentially be worse. My mother, who got me into astrology, thinks I'm more of an Aquarius than a Cap with Rising, Venus, Mercury, Lilith, and Cusper in Aqua.
I live in the same house I did before I met my ex-Scorpio. Because she was more comfortable being in Portland, Oregon, I had a Range Rover at the time and drove from Colorado to Oregon nonstop overnight (1100 miles) and got there at 6 in the morning. When I got to the place, it was nothing like I pictured beautiful Oregon to be. I had gone from a ~2.5 -3 million dollar 4 bedroom house with amazing views to a roach motel on a the street in Portland that's known as the area where you pick up prostitutes. There was no air conditioning (one of the hottest summers on record that year) and the place had actual cockroaches all over the kitchen. On literally my second night, there was a loud thump on the door. I opened the door and there was a Hispanic woman crying with a child in her arms as some drunken guy was kicking her. I grabbed her arm and pulled her inside the apartment and almost had to fight the guy who wanted to come in. Ah, the things you do for love 🙂
On the other end of the spectrum, I was with a Libra for 4 years as well. She came from a very wealthy family. Parents had homes in San Diego, Cape Cod, and various rental properties and real estate. They treated me like garbage because I grew up in a poor family and wasn't from Country Club stock. Her mother would say things to me like, 'Oh wow, did you get new sunglasses?' (aka those are cheap lower class sunglasses). They even told her that it was unacceptable for her to be with someone that wasn't making $ 90k minimum. I was just out of college and making $ 350 at a printing company at the time lol. I meet that criteria now but I remember thinking 'no matter how good of a guy I am, this is never going to work.' Libra is retired at 35 due to her inheritance but that still wouldn't be worth it to me.
that sucks
you'd have been really compatible with her
with that aries moon
seems like sag, aqua, and pisces placements care the least.
i have sag venus in 12th house, never cared for social status or materialism in a relationship despite my scorpio and cap bits. as long as he is stable enough, has his shit together, and is working towards his own goals and dreams then i support him.
i want real life stories right now please
makes you really blunt in expressing interest for someone?
and what placement/sign energy will think this is a turn off/lowers your 'value?'
Aries Mars
do you think a mars in the first and a first house stellium would make for someone really blunt and impatient? also maybe a little bratty?
Allow me to display my bias.
It's not a sign. People who know their worth aren't put off when someone else expresses they see it too.
but some people like to take their time apparently
Allow me to display my bias.
It's not a sign. People who know their worth aren't put off when someone else expresses they see it too.
but some people like to take their time apparently
That's a different matter than it lowering the other person's value. If you see someone's value lowered because they like you, it follows to me that you think you're not that great so wonder what's wrong with them.
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exactly
that always seemed partly like insecurity to me
Aries Mars
do you think a mars in the first and a first house stellium would make for someone really blunt and impatient? also maybe a little bratty?
The Pisces has Gemini Mars in the first and he’s still not very proactive. But he can be blunt and impatient.
Doesn’t really have to do with the topic in this thread though does it?
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it's useful
Sag Mars.
Takes me a while to get there and decide for it, but once that is done it can be very direct.
yeah capricorn i'm with has sag mars
very blunt thank god
Allow me to display my bias.
It's not a sign. People who know their worth aren't put off when someone else expresses they see it too.
but some people like to take their time apparently
That's a different matter than it lowering the other person's value. If you see someone's value lowered because they like you, it follows to me that you think you're not that great so wonder what's wrong with them.
I was so confused by that question so I avoided it.
Is she asking if people who are on the receiving end feel like the telling person is lower value or
Is she asking if people who are told are lowering their own value?
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sorry if a little confusing
first question is about someone who is really blunt
second question is about someone who might not like that
Leo Mars/ Sag mercury. I will be up front in the beginning but for some reason because I don't consistently keep saying it throughout the dating process, it seems to not be taken seriously.
Allow me to display my bias.
It's not a sign. People who know their worth aren't put off when someone else expresses they see it too.
I agree. If someone can only maintain interest in you if you seem disinterested then they aren't really into you, they are into the conquest.
Allow me to display my bias.
It's not a sign. People who know their worth aren't put off when someone else expresses they see it too.
but some people like to take their time apparently
That's a different matter than it lowering the other person's value. If you see someone's value lowered because they like you, it follows to me that you think you're not that great so wonder what's wrong with them.
I was so confused by that question so I avoided it.
Is she asking if people who are on the receiving end feel like the telling person is lower value or
Is she asking if people who are told are lowering their own value?
I took her to mean the former. I've seen a lot of people express similar opinions. I think that's what the having options thing is all about...trying to appear cool, uninterested. I see all of that as insecure people playing children's games.
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that sounds annoying
plus i take things way too literally sometimes
i'd just be like: "ohh well i tried ktnxbye."
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