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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
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Sorry I meant not really interested.

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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.

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Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


Is he kinda weird?
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in what way do you mean. personality he is funny and weird.
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??

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I love him.

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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.

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What are his placements ?
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
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http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
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I'm confused, I thought that was your chart
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.

I'm confused, I thought that was your chart

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Sorry see the labels. I labeled them.
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If by astrology alone, it's Sun square Pluto, double whammy,

also Venus conj Uranus- if you're the Venus, it's a strong infatuation on your side
what is double whammy again? thank you. we have sun square pluto not sure if its double whammy and m the venus in conjunct with his uranus.
It's when the aspect doubles in both charts, your Sun square his Pluto and his Sun square your Pluto in your case.

Yeah, so you got the sudden hardcore attraction, and he's the Uranus, who might be pulling away bc of feeling overwhelmed.
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Yes we have that cx Thank you Nara. yeah ;-;
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


You are attracted to him because:

You Vs Him

Self-Ego Intense Self-Grow

Self-Emotion Intense Self-Ego

Self-Grow Intense Self-Emotion

But

Self-Ego Opposite Self-Ego

Self-Emotion Opposite Self-Grow

Self-Grow Opposite Self-Best

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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
I have that Cancer rising, 7th Capricorn and 5th house Scorpio, and air moon. Water and earth elements and I can just wait and see how it goes or move on to something that holds my attention span....usually fun, humour people, people that have common interests as I do, and a spark if attraction. Its Simple really..
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Maybe you have a lot of Pluto aspects in your synastry and composite charts.
synastry

sun square pluto

jupiter opposition pluto

pluto square sun

pluto square mercury

pluto conjunction pluto

these?
Yup! Who's the Pluto person and who's the planet person here?
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1. double whammy

2. me

3. double whammy

4. double whammy

5. double whammy
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



You mean low sex drive ?

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Not that but emotionally.
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
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Ohh thank you c:
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I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


Astrologically speaking... think Cancer rising, makes one very slow... we open up and desire attraction as time passes, 4 months is just too soon... and.. we need time and get better with time, it's that 7th house Cappy and 5th house Scorpio. Added, to that he is Virgo sun/Cap moon.
I have that Cancer rising, 7th Capricorn and 5th house Scorpio, and air moon. Water and earth elements and I can just wait and see how it goes or move on to something that holds my attention span....usually fun, humour people, people that have common interests as I do, and a spark if attraction. Its Simple really..
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Wow, I asked him what do you look for in a girl he said the same thing: funny and same interests.
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.
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Your venus and his mars as well as his venus and your mars

are opposites.



Your sun and his sun are also opposites as well .

Opposing signs in primary placements

such as the sun moon venus and mars usually, account for crazy magnetism.

The fact that you too have the same moon sign is the cherry on top the sundae.

Good for you!!

I hope I can meet someone that would have this kind of synastry with me.

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Posted by tear
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*I love him*



Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?


What do you mean?
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Are you prepared to carry on with your feelings in the hope he will change his feelings towards you?

I have heard so many women say *oh but i love him* ~ women that have been shunned, ignored, degraded, cheated on etc

The only relationship we need to carry on loving someone regardless of their behaviour is children

Please don't waste your life with your love for someone that may never be interested...it is such a waste of a life

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I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:

Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.

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Wow. Your interpretation is so true. I didn't fit in when I was younger too. The lock in damn. Btw is it maybe we are fixed signs once we fixed we can't be moved and we don't give up easily? How's your experience with your Libra Venus?

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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.


Your venus and his mars as well as his venus and your mars

are opposites.



Your sun and his sun are also opposites as well .

Opposing signs in primary placements

such as the sun moon venus and mars usually, account for crazy magnetism.

The fact that you too have the same moon sign is the cherry on top the sundae.

Good for you!!

I hope I can meet someone that would have this kind of synastry with me.



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c: thank you. best wishes.
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*I love him*



Does that mean you will accept any kind of treatment/behaviour from him?


What do you mean?
Are you prepared to carry on with your feelings in the hope he will change his feelings towards you?

I have heard so many women say *oh but i love him* ~ women that have been shunned, ignored, degraded, cheated on etc

The only relationship we need to carry on loving someone regardless of their behaviour is children

Please don't waste your life with your love for someone that may never be interested...it is such a waste of a life

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Love has no restriction so yes. Thank you I will take your thoughts.
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Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.

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How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.

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Lol pisces I swear I sound like u I think from my experience it's lust luv or sum freak-ish
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.



Oh ok , why would u be with someone that doesn't seem that interested ??


I love him.


What are his placements ?
http://imgur.com/a/bg27K these.

I'm confused, I thought that was your chart


Sorry see the labels. I labeled them.

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Virgo trait lol
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I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:

Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.

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Wow my Scorpio has a venus in sag ?
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I'm an aqua venus and i dated a libra venus. There energy is very light and not flashy. Is he there a lot? If so he's interested. He is also a cap moon, not very emotive. I see no major water placements in his chart either. It's possible he is feeling it, but not expressing it in a way that is recognizable.
He is there quite a lot. That may be a point thanks c:

Libra venus show their love with quality time. I'm an aqua venus as well. When I was much younger, I didn't know how to receive libra venus love. I was looking for simmering passion. Found that with sag venus, cheating bastards lol. I now appreciate the subtlety of another air venus. And yes, we do get tunnel vision when in love. I feel it's one of our best attributes though, we are focused only on one person at a time, contrary to what astrology says. And once we lock in, oh man.


Wow my Scorpio has a venus in sag ?

Results can vary. ?

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? u have venus in sag?
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Posted by tear
Please answer this question. We have been together for almost four months. He is literally all I think about. He doesn't seem to be really attracted to me. Is it my obsessive chart or I'm attracted to him? And why am I so attracted to him. Thank you everyone c:

http://imgur.com/a/bg27K


U have been together for 4 months & he's not attracted to u ? At all?
Sorry I meant not really interested.


How do you know he's not interested and what's his sun sign....I'm infatuated/obsessed at the moment as well trying not to think of mine
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Well he doesn't look interested and express much. Virgo.
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