Would you leave a relationship because....

you had a bad aspect to someone in your synastry chart?

I was just looking at the sun square Neptune thread, and reading about other 'bad aspects'...

I am not judging, I just want to understand that if you met someone that you really like, and you decide to look at their chart and you see that two really bad aspects pop up..would you actually let that person go?

I can understand the potential of the 'problems' that could pop up...but to just avoid it altogether, to not even try? And we never really hear about people who have 'bad aspects' in their synastry chart and found a way to make it work....couldn't knowing things like that, give you a heads up on what you can do to 'counteract' them?

Just something I've been thinking about.

If it's a real bad aspect with no saving graces, you'll end up leaving anyway.

Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle

... we never really hear about people who have 'bad aspects' in their synastry chart and found a way to make it work....

I would imagine that any two people who are together and making it work, are people working through the bad aspects of their charts ... since it's doubtful that every sucessful couple only only good aspects.

I've experienced a sucessful marriage for nearly 29 years .. and certainly, there must be things in our charts that should have made us run for the hills.

I think that any relationship works, if you want it to .... and that people will find problems if they mean to. So, if a person finds within their partners chart a reason to leave .... then the desire to leave was already there, and they were looking for the excuse to make it a reason.

If two people don't have diversity, don't have issues to hurdle ... then they become bored and the relationship becomes stagnant. Two people NEED to have differences so that their perspective gets challenged, so that they can learn/grow or stand firm, accordingly.