2 Questions..

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by pooface222 on Monday, April 20, 2020 and has 24 replies.

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@pooface222
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Posted by Generous_Libra

Posted by pooface222

If a man said....

"What would you do if I was cheating on you?"

Ladies - What would you think/feel?

Men - Why would you say this to a woman?

I'll start doubting and overthinking, that question can destroy trust and ruin everything.

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Hmm..exactly.

My friend had her guy say this to her. She reolied. "I'd go cold and walk away."

He replied..

Oh yeah I would do the same."

WTF?

Maybe he wants to break up with her?

I dont know!

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@pooface222
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Posted by poeticseraphim

Also if they do ask ...always say ..i would be ok with it eventually if you told me.

THey might believe it and tell you if it ever happens.

Ooh I never thought of that. I love the way you think and the way you answer questions.

My answer would be..

"I would go cold, and Leave!"

What do you think of that for an answer?

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@rayofnight
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Posted by pooface222

If a man said....

"What would you do if I was cheating on you?"

Ladies - What would you think/feel?

Men - Why would you say this to a woman?

Sounds like he wanted you to know without coming right out and telling you - like he wants to ease into the confrontation instead of it blowing up in his face.

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That's a excellent way to start some shit. Short of admitting some strange kind of involuntary cheating and tell your s/o, any other reason is asking for trouble. As a test. It's immature and manipulative. You risk undermining the trust in your relationship bring into question that should never be questionable.

I am totally bias in this because the woman I have dated are usually possessive or something of that nature to begin with. The idea of doing that seriously makes me shiver and cringe at the same time. F that!