Chemistry

When you're in a relationship does connection and chemistry happen right away or is it something that people have to work on together and it only comes after you've spent some time together.

right away

It's an organic thing. It can take a second or a lot more time, but you can't force chemistry or a deep connection.

For me chemistry has been there from the get go. But connection is something that grows over time.

Isn't chemistry what attracts you to someone in the first place?

Posted by Basorexia

Isn't chemistry what attracts you to someone in the first place?

Well just bc you like them doesn't mean theres connection right away no?

Posted by Piscesester

Posted by Basorexia

Isn't chemistry what attracts you to someone in the first place?

Well just bc you like them doesn't mean theres connection right away no?

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You said "when you're in a relationship"

If I'm in a relationship chemistry is there otherwise there would be no relationship. Genuine Romantic relationships anyway.

Posted by Basorexia

Posted by Piscesester

Posted by Basorexia

Isn't chemistry what attracts you to someone in the first place?

Well just bc you like them doesn't mean theres connection right away no?

You said "when you're in a relationship"

If I'm in a relationship chemistry is there otherwise there would be no relationship. Genuine Romantic relationships anyway.

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agreed. chemistry is mandatory if i'm in a relationship. otherwise it's just a friendship with creepy and uncomfortable touching.

I can have chemistry with most decent peeps. That's just how I'm built, lol.

However, that doesn't mean I want a relationship or that I want them as a life partner.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Basorexia

Posted by Piscesester

Posted by Basorexia

Isn't chemistry what attracts you to someone in the first place?

Well just bc you like them doesn't mean theres connection right away no?

You said "when you're in a relationship"

If I'm in a relationship chemistry is there otherwise there would be no relationship. Genuine Romantic relationships anyway.

agreed. chemistry is mandatory if i'm in a relationship. otherwise it's just a friendship with creepy and uncomfortable touching.

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😂😂😂

It’s either there or it’s not

I don’t understand work on together...

I can like you as a person, but it just gets awkward if you try to make it work when it’s just not there. I’m with Jeane 🤷‍♀️

Posted by Piscesester

When you're in a relationship does connection and chemistry happen right away or is it something that people have to work on together and it only comes after you've spent some time together.

Chemistry and connection are equally important. The chemistry initially comes to me straight away and if there is not apparent straight away then I just move on quickly. My bf and I together 5 years and the chemistry and connection was instant. We became best friends before we became lovers. 🥰

I have found it's immediate...