Being Romantic according to you

What does being romantic means to you?

What does it mean when a guy says i am not romantic at all ?

Not being scared of showing love.

Then he's not romantic.

Posted by shinyme
What does being romantic means to you?

Netflix+chill+meatlovers pizza

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Netflix+chill+veggie pizza

Posted by shinyme
What does being romantic means to you?
What does it mean when a guy says i am not romantic at all ?

maybe the guy ment he is not romantic in the pushed on us marketing way what is romantic...

PS. for me is romantic, if somebody loves me secretly and then sleeps in front of my house totally drunk

raw 🙂

Posted by Rambeau91
Passionate in everything you do. Even doing a 💩 next to me.

For me I think it’s the complete opposite of this. It would be showing you still care, and appreciate the other person, that you make effort. Romance is different to passion or love, yes you are comfortable with the person but I don’t think doing a big dump is romantic. It’s probably unromantic tbh.

But you do know where the word ‘romantic’ comes from? I don’t know if you’ve noticed, the word originated in Rome, so for me I think a nice bottle of wine, good food and being chilled, relaxed with the one you love is romantic. Maybe a beach, exotic locations, sunshine, a few slow dances, a snuggle, kisses, connecting with the person and yes being comfortable, no need to rush or be anywhere else or do anything else, just being in the moment completely.

there's actually alot of people who are NOT romantic at all..

and i find them very very attracted to the romantic types. so weird.

to me, romance is writing songs for a loved one, creating something for them out of love,

maybe a poem that describes them in a way that captures their soul...

spending time with them, sharing your hopes and dreams, sharing food, sharing everything, work related and hobbies too.

this is what describes, ROMANCE.... it is the first attachment to a deeper love.

"The intensity of romantic love tends to last somewhere from six months to two years before turning into attachment in most relationships. Romance is where love begins, and it seems to have the most extreme effect on human behavior.

https://theanatomyoflove.com/what-is-love/what-is-love/

Posted by shinyme
What does being romantic means to you?
What does it mean when a guy says i am not romantic at all ?

Being romantic for me is when someone shows same interest consistently. Is kind, caring. Is not bored of you. Genuinely cares about you. Makes you feel he likes you the way you are. Does not give on and off attention to you. Does not make you feel insecure by giving attention to someone else in front of you. Basically consistent. You don't doubt his interest in you and don't have to worry if the interest is temporary. He enjoys being with you.

Romance to me is listening and acting. I don’t need dying flowers or stuffed bears. Give me the little gestures all day everyday over that bs.