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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
lildoll you need to try some things,not just because of this guy,but for yourself because you caps need to relax.do you ever sit or lay in a dark room with soothing music and insense or candles? or the bathtub is even better.but turn all the lights off.
uh, no... I'm relaxed, just think too much about things, how I want it, how it should be, what I expect, what I want and all in all the way it should go because that is simply the way I want it and therefore must be! 🙂
Posted by ianthefish
ya know i can never get any silence
:/
Well when you're 'down there' things shouldn't be silent! 😉
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Well,it's not as much about relaxing,as it is about training your mind to be quiet and the rest of you to feel.feel the hot water,hear it running,smell the candles......but don't think.
You mean like when you're having good sex...
that may be the only time my mind is at bay...
Bella, Ian should be the one giving us a massage!!
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Posted by lildol
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Well,it's not as much about relaxing,as it is about training your mind to be quiet and the rest of you to feel.feel the hot water,hear it running,smell the candles......but don't think.
You mean like when you're having good sex...
oh yeah.just like that.
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Sounds like I just need more good sex then! LOL
Posted by ianthefish
im good with my hands
Really? Is that a Pisces thing? Cause I know a Pisces that is good with his hands too *blushes*
oh... that's not what you meant. LOL
Oh, trust me, I like a man who is good with his hands! 😉
As an aside, from another thread Caps are not supposed to be as sexual as I (or kinky for that matter)... so, for me, where does that come from? My Gemini moon or possibly my Mars in Scorpio?
Mr. Pisces is actually a little taken aback by some things... I told him I want to be tied up but he said he's not into that. Do you know what that man said when I told him I wanted to know one of his fantasies (given the fact I shared one of mine with him), he told me his fantasy was just having him beside him. (*picking petals* "he likes me, he likes me not...")
ah, he said he would rather duct tape me and keep me in his basement... kinda creepy actually.
Posted by lildol
Mr. Pisces is actually a little taken aback by some things... I told him I want to be tied up but he said he's not into that. Do you know what that man said when I told him I wanted to know one of his fantasies (given the fact I shared one of mine with him), he told me his fantasy was just having him beside him. (*picking petals* "he likes me, he likes me not...")
uh, me beside him
*picking petals*
Posted by ianthefish
she likes whips and chains and things..
You talking about Bella? I'm not into whips and chains unless I'm the one holding them...
Not on me... no way, no how... but, I'd be happy to oblige if you would like!
*putting on leather dominatrix outfit*
Submit to me Pisces boy... I am in command! Bend over... (no Shaks is not invited)
Mr. Pisces didn't seem to like the strap on reference either LOL
Wait a sec... they may be attentive lovers, but are Pisces prudes?? (this Cap ain't)
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I was gonna ask if that was a whip in your pocket.
yeah, very thin whip LOL
*screams with delight*
the Gemini moon in me might like that
*blush*
I'm sweet and innocent *looking coy*
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Posted by lildol
the Gemini moon in me might like that
no it's still your pervy mars lol 🙂
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But, I thought it was my Gemini moon twin playing tricks on me...
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Posted by lildol
the Gemini moon in me might like that
no it's still your pervy mars lol 🙂
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Pervy Mars?? like I said, sweet & innocent!
Been fun... especially you tying me up Ian. But, alas, all good things must come to a (temporary) end. I must go to bed, morning comes early!
Posted by Prince_Pisces
just pick the richest one lildol LOL!
That would be the tennis player... nope can't go there, I can't sleep with someone just because they have money (hmmm... he is about 10 yrs older and probably die before me and leave me his fortune... if only I were that type of person).
I want someone who will treat my right and is a good, attentive lover (I need my needs met!). Then again, I can't be 'trying out' all my suitors!
Posted by lildol
Mr. Pisces is actually a little taken aback by some things... I told him I want to be tied up but he said he's not into that. Do you know what that man said when I told him I wanted to know one of his fantasies (given the fact I shared one of mine with him), he told me his fantasy was just having him beside him. (*picking petals* "he likes me, he likes me not...")
LOL!!! Id have to agree with Ian here.... give him time.... he will assuredly tie you up or let you tie him up. My Pisces (ex... but still swimming around the pond) pulled the same crap on me in the beginning..... I just want you beside me... blah blah blah romantic crap... until he felt completely comfy with me.... then the bondage tape came out (you may have to do the shopping but bring it w u cause Im sure it'll get used) hun & thats why he still swims around my pond! Give it time girl.... IMO... Pisces ARE NOT PRUDES in the sack!! It can be some good fun once the trust issues are overcome! But, if you are looking for clarity from the fish.... GOOD LUCK!
As for the topic of this thread... I can relate to you. Im having the same issues. Over abundance of suitors and not sure what to do. I like having someone to spend time with, but honestly... this is the first time in a very long time that I have been completely single and thoroughly enjoying it. I just came out of the relationship with the fish and was heartbroken over it. But, he is back in my pond (long distance though) and been texting everyday wanting to see me again and telling me he misses me. I have a soft spot for him, but I dont want to be hurt again. Got two VirGuys in pursuit and one is starting to grow on me.... so good to me so I'm considering it. A Gem is tryng to get in on some action too and my Ex (Taurus) is wanting to give it another shot.
Just have fun with it, dont commit to anyone until your ready and just be honest about who you are & what you want. They will respect your honesty and if they are really serious.... knowing that you are weighing your options might just make them step up to the plate a little faster. You'll find out which one is truly interested soon enough!
I'll just have to take control (w/ the bondage tape) and see how he likes it! I can handle that... give him a run for his money!! (I'm just one of those boring Caps)
Posted by lildol
I'll just have to take control (w/ the bondage tape) and see how he likes it! I can handle that... give him a run for his money!! (I'm just one of those boring Caps)
Amen girl!! Just do it.... He'll return the favor because he'll love it!
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
it's raining men,halleluja it's raining men! 🙂
Oh Yeah!! Seems to be the forecast! Gotta love it though!
well, if that doesn't work the Cancer cop is already talking about handcuffing me...
Posted by lildol
well, if that doesn't work the Cancer cop is already talking about handcuffing me...
LMAO!!! Hell Yeah!! Just make sure you dont hurt his feelings before he unlocks the cuffs.... could be quite embarrassing if you have to lay in waiting for someone to find you handcuffed and naked!
Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by lildol
well, if that doesn't work the Cancer cop is already talking about handcuffing me...
LMAO!!! Hell Yeah!! Just make sure you dont hurt his feelings before he unlocks the cuffs.... could be quite embarrassing if you have to lay in waiting for someone to find you handcuffed and naked!
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Gotcha... don't criticize his goods 😉
Posted by lildol
I'll just have to take control (w/ the bondage tape) and see how he likes it! I can handle that... give him a run for his money!! (I'm just one of those boring Caps)
He did say he wanted a 'good girl' though... I told him I was good, but when I'm bad I'm even better. I asked if he wanted the bad girl behind closed doors. Said he wants both... so, I may be giving him just what he wants even if he says he's not into such stuff (he won't know until he tries it).
Posted by lildol
well, if that doesn't work the Cancer cop is already talking about handcuffing me...
He could handcuff me to his Harley... that could be interesting... would get my engine humming LOL
Posted by lildol
Posted by lildol
well, if that doesn't work the Cancer cop is already talking about handcuffing me...
He could handcuff me to his Harley... that could be interesting... would get my engine humming LOL
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ROTFLMAO!!!! That could def be interesting. My Pisces has a Harley...... let's just say got my kitty purring!! LOL!!
Posted by lildol
Posted by lildol
I'll just have to take control (w/ the bondage tape) and see how he likes it! I can handle that... give him a run for his money!! (I'm just one of those boring Caps)
He did say he wanted a 'good girl' though... I told him I was good, but when I'm bad I'm even better. I asked if he wanted the bad girl behind closed doors. Said he wants both... so, I may be giving him just what he wants even if he says he's not into such stuff (he won't know until he tries it).
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Trust him when he says he wants both.... cause he does!!!
I'm sure Ian can weigh in on that one!
Posted by ianthefish
lady in the streets... freak in the sheets...
yup
That could describe me...
Oh, LeoLady... they BOTH have Harleys!!
And we know that Mr. Cancer definitely has handcuffs 🙂
Posted by lildol
Posted by ianthefish
lady in the streets... freak in the sheets...
yup
That could describe me...
Oh, LeoLady... they BOTH have Harleys!!
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Ha!!! Too funny! I LOVE me a bad boy with a good heart!
Posted by ianthefish
lady in the streets... freak in the sheets...
yup
Absolutely!
Mr. Cancer Cop just texted me to tell me that he lied and he is actually an aviation inspector. He lied because it made him look better he said. But why be manipulative like that? I crunch numbers for a living, I don't have some glamorous job and I don't ever feel the need to lie about it. Went on to say that he understands if I don't want to see him now, but he still is interested in seeing me (and he'll have handcuffs). I suppose this shouldn't come as a surprise, my last BF was a Cancer and always tried to make himself out to be so very important despite the fact he worked construction (you would think the guy held the fabric of society together by the way he talked) - the low self esteemers of the zodiac! Manipulative creatures!
Posted by lildol
Mr. Cancer Cop just texted me to tell me that he lied and he is actually an aviation inspector. He lied because it made him look better he said. But why be manipulative like that? I crunch numbers for a living, I don't have some glamorous job and I don't ever feel the need to lie about it. Went on to say that he understands if I don't want to see him now, but he still is interested in seeing me (and he'll have handcuffs). I suppose this shouldn't come as a surprise, my last BF was a Cancer and always tried to make himself out to be so very important despite the fact he worked construction (you would think the guy held the fabric of society together by the way he talked) - the low self esteemers of the zodiac! Manipulative creatures!
OMG!!!! Just tell him he's the scum of the earth and listen to him cry about it! That's my opinion!
Posted by ianthefish
you should handcuff him to the bed naked, then leave...
;]
LOL that would teach him!! The nerve! and he keeps texting me asking "well..."
I'm not answering him in a text message, I intend on speaking to him directly (if the pussy will answer his phone)... but, I'm rather gentle and will explain to him why his behavior is unacceptable as one would a child.
Another text - "we could have a lot of fun" - you're gonna lie to me then try to still get in my pants, I don't think so!! *smh*
Posted by ianthefish
you should handcuff him to the bed naked, then leave...
;]
That would be awesome!! I vote for this!
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treat a woman like brail?? 🙂