being single

I don't think I like this single shit... too many suitors. I can't go out anywhere anymore.

got the Pisces business owner who calls me almost daily but isn't asking me out

the Scorpio boiler guy whom I'm supposed to go to lunch with this afternoon (if he even calls)

a Cappy mechanic who wants me to come over and swim in his pool today or go out on his buddy's boat

a cancer state police officer who wants me to take me for a ride on his Harley this afternoon

an international tennis player from Spain (sign unknown) who owns his own business teaching tennis and owns a million dollar home and a Porsche convertible

*sighs*

woe is me... I'm going to have to scratch the cop since he's a Cancer and despite the success of the tennis player, not that interested. I really like the Pisces, but he's not being straight up with me; the Scorp seems to want to jump right in to things; and Mr. Cappy, I'm not sure of just yet (not to mention he's a mechanic... but he owns his home outright, has a large in-ground pool and drives a brand new truck so he must be successful in someway, for all I know he owns the shop).

such a conundrum I'm in...

*sighs* again

ha! for a second there i thought u were a leo girl like me!

i'm going through the same thing! except it's probably not a good idea to go announcing this in this place. when i did it came off as boasting and i caught a lot of flack. like u i was just a little overwhelmed by all of the attention. i normally receive some attention when i go out but this summer has left me with an overflowing abundance that i have a hard time keeping up with!

mine also seems to come in a variety of zodiacal flavors (interestingly enough they are ALL musicians!):

- 2 taurean men that are worlds apart. the super sexy, fun one is coming over after i get off work.
- a cancer that wants me to give him a massage. he is slowly trying to sweep me away by using his great sense of humor and subtly suggestive approach. i'm on to him!
- a pisces that showers me with endless compliments. he'll wax poetic spontaneously via text and openly court me in public.
- a cap that actually opens up to me completely. he bares his soul and lets me know how important i am in his life.
- a timid sag that stares at me constantly. well, that's about it but i know he would like to have a shot. he goes in for a hug every chance he can get!

good luck out there! i hope u get what u want!

Well, much to my relief, the Scorp never called... strikes me as odd as he wanted to have the 'where is our relationship going' discussion.

BUT, Mr. Pisces actually came through. Asked if he could stop by and then took me to lunch. He kept making references about me picking up other guys last night when I was out though and jokingly asked if I cheated on him. Men, sheesh! I do not even consider myself in a relationship with him. Jealousy is a Pisces characteristic though, isn't it? He was getting a little fresh and I told him I didn't want to be somebody's booty call and he asked what I wanted to be to him... I in-turn responded with "what do you want me to be to you?" (not that I want to mold myself to his expectations, but rather feeling things out to figure out where I stand). He said "a friend" (yeah, with benefits!). But, get this, last night on the phone he told me about a previous relationship that he ended because the girl wanted to get married. I asked him today at lunch what was he looking for in a girl, he said that he wanted a friend as that would be the ideal for marriage. Wishy-washy I tell ya. Is he feeling me out for marriage material??

I do really like Mr. Pisces, and, I'm not really sure but he may actually like me. So maybe I should hold off on the cop (but, damn, I like a man in uniform) - although the bike ride would be fun. But, Cancer's and I don't seem to work too well together. I really don't think that Mr. Pisces is going to like it if he thinks I'm seeing other men (regardless of whether I'm intimate with them).

*head spinning in the wishy-washy seas*

Posted by poopsie1
i assume you are looking for a potential hubby

I think deep down we all want someone to grow old with. I have had so many messed up relationships (very abusive). Then I come upon Mr. Pisces who talks about wanting a friend first and foremost (that's a new one on me coming from a man), wants a committed relationship (again, I've never heard a man actually say this), wants someone to grow old with and he is not a selfish lover (don't ask me how I know this *looking sheepishly*). I have shared with him the volatility and instability of my last relationship so I'm not sure if he is saying things I want to hear, or things he wants me to hear.

Hawt Damn Lildol ....you go girl. I say date them all ......set up a schedule ....😛 See which one really gets under your skin ........and go wtih that one. You are the goddess of dating right now gf. 😛

I thought I was jugling in the air .....you have me beat.

I have my Scorpio Teacher whom I have been flirting back and forth with since March ....we are almost finished with class ....see what happens. My brother just sent a virgo client to me this weekend and he has been asking about me since our session. He is going through a divorce though. I don't even want to attempt that one. Plus he is a virgo .....I can already imagine he is angry and bitter. He can still be my client though. 😛 I just reconnected with a gemini from my past ........I feel he might be my best shot at anything. I am really liking the sound of him. He is hawt too ....with great buns. 😛

PD

ooooo yeah and I have a married Capricorn who is trying to be more than I am willing to give. I don't think he really counts because I dont even look at him as potential bedroom escapades. 😛 HE IS MARRIED!!! My gawd he is soooo needy .....he text me like every day at least 4 times a day .....I have stopped texting back coz he is really starting to get on my last nerve. I try to be a supportive friend .....and than he tries to get all lovey dovey with me. WTF—

PD

Posted by Pisces_Dream
ooooo yeah and I have a married Capricorn who is trying to be more than I am willing to give. I don't think he really counts because I dont even look at him as potential bedroom escapades. 😛 HE IS MARRIED!!! My gawd he is soooo needy .....he text me like every day at least 4 times a day .....I have stopped texting back coz he is really starting to get on my last nerve. I try to be a supportive friend .....and than he tries to get all lovey dovey with me. WTF—
PD

I can come across as needy at times, but it is because I need reassurance (feels constant for whatever reason) of where I stand in a given relationship if I do not feel that I am being shown that I am wanted/loved. Given the fact that this Cappy man is married, I would suspect he is not getting enough reassurance from home and is seeking it out elsewhere. I think Caps can be a bit flirtatious at times because of this need.

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Posted by poopsie1
i assume you are looking for a potential hubby

I think deep down we all want someone to grow old with. I have had so many messed up relationships (very abusive). Then I come upon Mr. Pisces who talks about wanting a friend first and foremost (that's a new one on me coming from a man), wants a committed relationship (again, I've never heard a man actually say this), wants someone to grow old with and he is not a selfish lover (don't ask me how I know this *looking sheepishly*). I have shared with him the volatility and instability of my last relationship so I'm not sure if he is saying things I want to hear, or things he wants me to hear.

lildol would you say he is capable of finding someone to fuck?

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Definitely! Aren't all men...

Posted by BellaBulleautiful

Posted by lildol

Posted by poopsie1
i assume you are looking for a potential hubby

I think deep down we all want someone to grow old with. I have had so many messed up relationships (very abusive). Then I come upon Mr. Pisces who talks about wanting a friend first and foremost (that's a new one on me coming from a man), wants a committed relationship (again, I've never heard a man actually say this), wants someone to grow old with and he is not a selfish lover (don't ask me how I know this *looking sheepishly*). I have shared with him the volatility and instability of my last relationship so I'm not sure if he is saying things I want to hear, or things he wants me to hear.

Don't let your last relationship dictate the outcome of this one.you remind me of myself a little bit,and that's a shame 😉

lildoll,you want this fish,we both know it and sounds like from what you just said he said to you,he wants you too.is your venus in aries? we just have to learn to slow the hell down and enjoy the ride.we really do.
we have to force ourselves to ignore the fear and hold our breath and just jump in.
you don't care about those other guys....you care about the pisces.right? 🙂
he sounds to me like he's trying to let you know how he feels,get your mind out of the way and let your heart take over.

man am I preachy today or what?!

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OH, you know I am into the fish... but, maybe it's not yet so much him as a person (I haven't really had a chance to get to know him) but rather his ambition and what he has achieved in life (My Cappy sun taking over there).

I found myself talking to him last night as if he were a 3rd person... was able to get more out of him. Those things he didn't feel necessarily being forthright about he would say that he didn't know 'the guy' that well. He also admitted that it was too early for 'that guy' to know what he really is feeling...

My Venus is in Sagittarius... Gemini moon, Accendent is also in Gemini... no wonder he sometimes thinks he has two different women that he's speaking to! LOL (he has a Sag moon)

Preachy... nah, I don't mind! 😉

Hmmm... being that the moon was in Pisces these past few days (regardless of the fact that his sun is in Pisces) could that have something to do with his renewed interest? Or, maybe, giving more thought to what he wants/looking for?

what's his moon lil?

his moon: I just double checked... thought it was Sag for some strange reason, but it's in Aries.

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Posted by Shaks
I cant imagine this being a venting thread 😛

ohh poor you..lol

^^ exactly .. I want to show off, but I want to look humble at the same time ..

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But it is a venting thread... I don't like all these choices. I am extremely indecisive by nature, I don't like to have options as I tend to analyze too much! (e.g. took me 6 weeks to decide on a damn pair of glasses and a year to pick out my last car... gotta do my research and 'try' things out over and over again - not good if I'm 'trying' out all of these men LOL)

OMG, I was wrong about Aries moon... it is a Sag as I had originally though, I put the yr of his bday in wrong when I double checked. Sag moon it is for Mr. Pisces!

He called again (2nd time today), asked how his girlfriend was doing (yes, sorta 3rd partyish), told him I wasn't aware he had a girlfriend. What's up with that?! Unless, of course, he is not referring to me... *smg* *sigh*

again *head swimming in the wishy-washy seas*

Mr. Cop Cancer want to see me again (and rip my clothes off... NOT, especially given I've got Mr. Pisces apparently as a suitor, oh god if he ever found out!). Ride on the bike would still be fun... and I do like a man in (and out) of uniform. *going crazy*

singing *crazy, crazy for feeling so lonely. I'm crazy for trying, I'm crazy for lying and I'm crazy for loving you...*

Mr. Pisces basic chart

Your Planets & Houses
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Pisces 14.40
Moon Sagittarius 1.36
Mercury Pisces 7.32
Venus Aries 27.22
Mars Pisces 0.59
Jupiter Aries 21.13
Saturn Aquarius 27.52
Uranus Virgo 7.44 R
Neptune Scorpio 17.47 R
Pluto Virgo 12.54 R
Lilith Sagittarius 5.36
Asc node Cancer 9.07

AND Mine

Your Planets & Houses
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 17.51 Ascendant Gemini 14.23
Moon Gemini 15.18 II Cancer 5.42
Mercury Sagittarius 27.50 III Cancer 25.53
Venus Sagittarius 1.35 IV Leo 18.50
Mars Scorpio 20.59 V Virgo 19.07
Jupiter Scorpio 29.02 VI Scorpio 0.21
Saturn Taurus 15.46 R VII Sagittarius 14.23
Uranus Libra 13.31 VIII Capricorn 5.42
Neptune Sagittarius 2.14 IX Capricorn 25.53
Pluto Virgo 29.42 R Midheaven Aquarius 18.50
Lilith Virgo 14.11 XI Pisces 19.07
Asc node Aquarius 24.04 XII Taurus 0.21

Posted by FeistyAquarian
Oy...watch out for those Saggy mooners...they are a pain in the arse! 😛

Please clarify...

Posted by ianthefish
feisty is a pain in the ass is what she was saying..
no feisty?

She is NOT!

Posted by FeistyAquarian

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Posted by FeistyAquarian
Oy...watch out for those Saggy mooners...they are a pain in the arse! 😛

Please clarify...

Buuuut...I will warn you from my own experience, never ever corner or tie down someone with Saggy Moon..It might be a little less bad bc he's a Pisces Sun but people with Sag Moon need to be able to go and explore and just do what they want. I know if I want to go do something, I can either go at it alone or with friends. If my bf is willing, he can come, but with his Taurus moon, he's more of a homebody but he doesn't stifle me.

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Mr. Pisces already made it clear that he needs his space. He headed to OH today (was going yesterday, but put it off and took me to lunch instead). He's already called me twice from the road today and told me what his plans were for this evening... I didn't ask, he may do what he pleases. Not sure why he even told me.

what's up w/ the girlfriend reference that I mentioned previously... I mention that I told him I wasn't aware that he had a girlfriend but also stated that if he does want one then he needs to be clear about it! However, clarity is not going to come from this wishy-washy fishy from what I can tell.

Sorry Ian, IMO not to keen on your new avatar...

I'd like your avatar better if it was female (w/ no shirt)

Oh, did I say that out loud... that's my Gemini moon speaking, sorry *blushing*

Posted by ianthefish
its controversial, kinda like me..
so it matches my personality..
besides i heard pisces men are like girls anyhow..
hate the writers not the characters..
i just play the role..

Uh what? Doesn't look like a girl to me...

Posted by ianthefish

Posted by lildol
I'd like your avatar better if it was female (w/ no shirt)

*confused*
it is a girl

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Maybe not girl enough for me LOL

It's Asian... long hair and skirt means nothing are you sure Shaks wasn't on to something— 😉

Ok... not into girls myself just women... not into boy either but men!

i kno i kno its art n hence my opinion doesnt matter,
but i really like your avatar.

but there are no tits! Hence, I think it's a guy in a skirt...

that's no fun...

Posted by ianthefish
thanks wheel

welcome

Posted by BellaBulleautiful

Posted by lildol
Mr. Pisces basic chart

Your Planets & Houses
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Pisces 14.40
Moon Sagittarius 1.36
Mercury Pisces 7.32
Venus Aries 27.22
Mars Pisces 0.59
Jupiter Aries 21.13
Saturn Aquarius 27.52
Uranus Virgo 7.44 R
Neptune Scorpio 17.47 R
Pluto Virgo 12.54 R
Lilith Sagittarius 5.36
Asc node Cancer 9.07

AND Mine

Your Planets & Houses
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 17.51 Ascendant Gemini 14.23
Moon Gemini 15.18 II Cancer 5.42
Mercury Sagittarius 27.50 III Cancer 25.53
Venus Sagittarius 1.35 IV Leo 18.50
Mars Scorpio 20.59 V Virgo 19.07
Jupiter Scorpio 29.02 VI Scorpio 0.21
Saturn Taurus 15.46 R VII Sagittarius 14.23
Uranus Libra 13.31 VIII Capricorn 5.42
Neptune Sagittarius 2.14 IX Capricorn 25.53
Pluto Virgo 29.42 R Midheaven Aquarius 18.50
Lilith Virgo 14.11 XI Pisces 19.07
Asc node Aquarius 24.04 XII Taurus 0.21

holy crap! your venus and his moon! yay!

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Are you saying that a Sag Venus and a Sag Moon are supposed to be compatible?

He called me again... I'm not used to hearing from him more than once a day (4x today), oh and I could hear his friend in the background - calling me in front of a friend, hmmm... *picking petals off a daisy* "he likes me, he likes me not, he likes me, he likes me not, he likes me..."

or is it the proximity of my Venus (1.36) and his Moon (1.35)?

still *picking petals* "he likes me, he likes me not, he likes me...." Oh hell, I wish he'd just come around and tell me what he wants! I don't want to be strung along, and I don't want to be wasting my time with someone who just wants a booty call! I need to know where I stand! Arrrgh...

I don't want to be trying to read btwn the lines...

I have a lot of air in me... hot air LOL

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Are you saying that's what the other pisces guy is doing ? cuz that's what I think,he just needs reassurance right?
oh I forgot to go check their other stuff.....

Other Pisces guy? Only got one I've been going on about...

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Are you saying that's what the other pisces guy is doing ? cuz that's what I think,he just needs reassurance right?
oh I forgot to go check their other stuff.....

but yeah im sure hes just feeling you out..
kinda like your doing to him..

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I've made myself pretty darn clear though... he's being wishy-washy! I told him that he's impossible!! He knows that he is driving me nuts! Playing games... is that how he's feeling me out?

Ian, how would you 'play' it?

Posted by BellaBulleautiful

I think he just wants to really know the level of your interest.

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He should know my level of interest at this point... but, then again, maybe that's why he keeps hinting at my 'cheating on him' despite the fact we are not in a relationship - i.e. how many others do I have.

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Also us venus in aries kids are not usually aggressive like you would think.we don't like rejection so we we you to persue us if possible.he's prolly trying to bait you a little bit.

He does seem a little concerned that if he does get into something with me that I will break his heart...

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Posted by lildol
Ian, how would you 'play' it?

what are we talking about again?

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We're talking about you honey of course, as always LOL

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
oh crap. tell me about the cancer again.....🙂

The Cancer... don't know much about him other than he's a Cop, rides a Harley and has a bad boy look about him (hubba, hubba... bad boy in uniform, my weakness). I don't play well with Cancers though! Been there, done that (well, not the bad boy cop w/ a bike... oh the things we could do on that bike).

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Posted by lildol
Ian, how would you 'play' it?

what are we talking about again?

We're talking about you honey of course, as always LOL

no seriously.. how would i play what?

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Sorry, that's right, Pisces don't play. I meant the whole run around I *feel* that I'm getting given all my previous posts.

so, I gotta go with the flow and see how it goes...

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you mean you feel like hes doing what you did to him?

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What do you mean by that? I didn't do anything... are you suggesting he is looking out for himself and wants to feel things out in the same way that I tend to do?

can't figure out how to quote without the whole thread present...

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Im going to change my mind here and you are not going to like it,but I gotta be honest.you have no water but an ungodly scorpio mars,and he has a lot of water and no air.you may want each other, but I don't think communication is ever going to work.his merc is pisces which you already are not getting,and yours is sag,which he can relate to because his moon is sag.
I dunno, I just don't.

Hmmm... challenges, challenges, up the mountain this Cappy must go then! Did I ever say I act without considering the consequences of my actions... it's often about the climb, not always about the end results (although I do want happiness).

I think and analyze, that's what I do! I'm trying not to do that so much and get in touch with what I feel to be what's going on. If I didn't think and analyze so much I guess I wouldn't be writing about it!

it's what I do for a living, of course it comes natural in my personal life... or is it the other way around and what comes natural is what I do for a living?