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This topic was created in the Relationships forum by BigD56 on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 and has 35 replies.

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Have you ever had someone who had a raving crush on you and you thought this person was absolutely disgusting— What did you do to evade the wave of terror your nightmarish crush had on you—

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Posted by BigD56
What did you do to evade the wave of terror your nightmarish crush had on you—

i carried a wooden crucifix around my neck and brandished it at them if they came near me, shouting, "GET AWAY DEMON!" worked like a charm.

but seriously though, just tell them you're not interested and ignore them. and if they really scare you that much, get a restraining order. 🙂

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Posted by Prince_Pisces

damn LOL! If someones so ugly that you need a restraining order, that is crazy lmao.

i'm sorry, but your extreme ugliness makes me feel threatened. if you don't stay away from me, i'm gonna hafta go to the cops. (no i'm not saying that to you prince, and i can honestly say i've never met someone who made me feel that way)

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Run— Where can I run— HIDE ME Moon_Eyes don't hold out on me!!!

I am a really nice guy...I understand totally that the faster I dissolve the problem, the better the situation but no hints seem to work...I do want to be friends but when you wait for me to come outside of my house and I never introduced you to my living quarters...quite scary.

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Posted by Prince_Pisces
(no i'm not saying that to you prince, and i can honestly say i've never met someone who made me feel that way)

Maybe you'll re-think that answer now LOL!!!

OMG, make it go away !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's the neck .. I can't take my eyes off of it ... what the hell is the matter with it?

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Posted by BigD56

I am a really nice guy...I understand totally that the faster I dissolve the problem, the better the situation but no hints seem to work...I do want to be friends but ...

If you aren't going to approach this, and just continue to give hints when you know they aren't being recieved .. then what's the point in asking us about it?

Are you looking for us to tell a hint that will work?

Here's the only thing you need to hear .......... take your balls out of your purse and confront.

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Actually P-Angel, I didn't ask for help lol. I wanted 2 know your experiences with someone who had a crush on you that you really thought was disgusting.

Relax, I've been here long enough to know no question will be answered correctly here on dxp 😛

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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Prince_Pisces
(no i'm not saying that to you prince, and i can honestly say i've never met someone who made me feel that way)

Maybe you'll re-think that answer now LOL!!!

OMG, make it go away !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's the neck .. I can't take my eyes off of it ... what the hell is the matter with it?

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It looks like it has small testicles on it :p hahahhaha (look, just below the chin!)....THAT'S what is wrong with it. Eww...

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PA:"Here's the only thing you need to hear .......... take your balls out of your purse and confront."

LMAO! Agreed. Just tell the girl straight up. Be nice and respectable...but tell her the real. good luck. 🙂

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Posted by BigD56
Actually P-Angel, I didn't ask for help lol. I wanted 2 know your experiences with someone who had a crush on you that you really thought was disgusting.

Relax, I've been here long enough to know no question will be answered correctly here on dxp 😛

Relax?

I didn't know I was unrelaxed .. afterall, you are the one who felt compelled to state you have someone helping themselves to your privacy, and then saying you don't want to say anything to her.

Not me .. I don't have that problem .. my balls are fully in tact, so, I'm pretty relaxed 😄

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"You know she may be a female but one has to look back a few millenia to prehistoric humans Neanderthals fit this image."

HAAAAAA!!!!!!!! lol X1000!!!!

I bet she was hot a good 50 years ago lol

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Natural25 "LMAO! Agreed. Just tell the girl straight up. Be nice and respectable...but tell her the real. good luck."

Thanx Natural 25. You look pretty experienced in this category I'm sure u had a couple fanbases that didn't know when to quit lol

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that happen but i don't use them words that would hurt thre feeling, ever heard of karma? that shit will get back to your babys, be nice and tell them your not intresting.

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That's what steriods and plastic surgery and trying to stay young does to you...

Be firm but polite the first time but make sure you are more forceful each other time after that. Obviously this chick doesn't hear what you are saying and you being too nice about it wont help! Sorry, sometimes you have to step up and be a tad bit rude in order to get through to them.

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BIG: "Thanx Natural 25. You look pretty experienced in this category I'm sure u had a couple fanbases that didn't know when to quit lol"

Why do you say that I am experienced in this type of situation? I have had a few guys here and there who were interested in me and the feelings were not mutual. I just told them that I was not looking for a relationship or did not want to date anyone at the time. Always worked like a charm. Lol.

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Lol @ Sweethearts and USC!! You guys are funny. I was not even thinknig about it like that. Well if he was was giving me a compliment....thanks! Lol. 🙂

USC...not to high jack this thread but just wanted to say something realy quick! SDA's do not beleive in wearing wedding rings!?!? Whats up with that??!?!?

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starfish225:'Well for some reason BigD I think you might being enjoying the attention"

I know it's sad to say this but...you may be right.

sweethearts: "that was a come on line...he's telling you he thinks your hot girl! "

AWWW...geez thanx 4 puttin me out there like dat LOL 😛

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Posted by natural25
Lol @ Sweethearts and USC!! You guys are funny. I was not even thinknig about it like that. Well if he was was giving me a compliment....thanks! Lol. 🙂

USC...not to high jack this thread but just wanted to say something realy quick! SDA's do not beleive in wearing wedding rings!?!? Whats up with that??!?!?

Yeah, no jewelry dahling 😉. The very short answer is this: they don't believe in anything that will be seen as too ostentatious and making you immodest in the eyes of God. You are to be modest in your attire and actions; also, there is this whole concept that when you have jewels, are you worshiping them or God? I'll leave it at that!

Anyway, as I said, I don't practice - I am spiritual, not religious and I think all of that stuff is absolutely ridiculous; for the most part. I think that with anything, the times change; therefore, some of those things don't even apply now days (in my opinion). The most important thing I believe people can do is to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. There is some saying (I'm paraphrasing) "Be the change you'd like to see in the world/others" however it goes!

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Posted by BigD56
starfish225:'Well for some reason BigD I think you might being enjoying the attention"

I know it's sad to say this but...you may be right.

sweethearts: "that was a come on line...he's telling you he thinks your hot girl! "

AWWW...geez thanx 4 puttin me out there like dat LOL 😛

*tee hee* I love it! We're not trying to put you on blast BigD - honest 😉 (crosses fingers behind my back).

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Posted by BigD56
Have you ever had someone who had a raving crush on you and you thought this person was absolutely disgusting— What did you do to evade the wave of terror your nightmarish crush had on you—

I'm going to be honest (shame-faced)-

There was this guy who was extremely unattractive - he looks like that man-thing from Tales from the Crypt, an uglier version of Samuel L. Jackson. He had a body that was superb though - a tip drill. My Mom would call him doo-hickey.

At first he was chasing me and I ran like the dickens.

Then the tables were turned somehow and I started chasing him. Get this - he became absolutley beautiful in my eyes.

After we broke up (and at times when he made me angry)- he was hideous again. *shrugs*

PS - Although this guy was unattractive (outside and in) women flocked to him like flies to shit. He was poorer version of Hue Heffner.

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Posted by LibrasRule36!
Posted by BigD56
Have you ever had someone who had a raving crush on you and you thought this person was absolutely disgusting— What did you do to evade the wave of terror your nightmarish crush had on you—

I'm going to be honest (shame-faced)-

There was this guy who was extremely unattractive - he looks like that man-thing from Tales from the Crypt, an uglier version of Samuel L. Jackson. He had a body that was superb though - a tip drill. My Mom would call him doo-hickey.

At first he was chasing me and I ran like the dickens.

Then the tables were turned somehow and I started chasing him. Get this - he became absolutley beautiful in my eyes.

After we broke up (and at times when he made me angry)- he was hideous again. *shrugs*

PS - Although this guy was unattractive (outside and in) women flocked to him like flies to shit. He was poorer version of Hue Heffner.

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Lmao @ "a tip drill."

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Posted by natural25
Posted by LibrasRule36!
Posted by BigD56
Have you ever had someone who had a raving crush on you and you thought this person was absolutely disgusting— What did you do to evade the wave of terror your nightmarish crush had on you—

I'm going to be honest (shame-faced)-

There was this guy who was extremely unattractive - he looks like that man-thing from Tales from the Crypt, an uglier version of Samuel L. Jackson. He had a body that was superb though - a tip drill. My Mom would call him doo-hickey.

At first he was chasing me and I ran like the dickens.

Then the tables were turned somehow and I started chasing him. Get this - he became absolutley beautiful in my eyes.

After we broke up (and at times when he made me angry)- he was hideous again. *shrugs*

PS - Although this guy was unattractive (outside and in) women flocked to him like flies to shit. He was poorer version of Hue Heffner.

Lmao @ "a tip drill."

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Natural, girl, that man had a body that just wouldn't quit. Hotness!

Life is so funny: In the beginning I thought he was so unattractive and then the tables turned! Whenever I see him around I often wonder what in the hell I was thinking about? LOL!

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That's how I get too. ^^^

I've gone out with people who weren't my "type" but they had really good personalities. My Libra ex wasn't someone I would have normally looked twice at but he was very charming. It was attractive so *shrug* I went for it 🙂