Do many mirror in relationships?.

I'd like to delete this topic, bit rubbish I know.... Hindsight's a beautiful thang... So erm, how does one go about deleting a post on a mobile she says kicking rocks?... :0)

You have to, to an extent ..... Virgos mirror everything about their partner, but, all people have to, if they expect to have a respectful relationship.

The old adage: Treat others how you want to be treated yourself .... is extremely selfish, because it means that you won't treat the other how THEY need to be treated, you will only think about yourself and how you want to be treated.

Well, guess what .... that other person isn't you, and the treatment of you is unique for only you. The other person is a different person from you, so therefore, you have to treat them according to how they want to be treated.

This is where mirroring comes in to play .... if you are going to your partner all that they need and want in life, then you have to do their way, you have to adjust yourself to live in sync with them and how they do it.

Now, that doesn't mean you should mirror everything, and certainly, people should be individuals .... but, in some things, yes, people should mirror their partners, so their partner can sense the feeling that you'd care enough to do it their way, instead just your own, as if it's all about you.

Indeed, there is a fine line and finding that balance would equate to what one would hope to be a harmonious exsistence ,with out losing ones self in the process.

If you're still trying to figure the Virgo out, then it becomes obvious why you made this thread .... because the Virgo will mirror everything.

Everything.

If you are on the dance floor, he will mimick they way you dance ... everything.

So, I'm not surprised that this thread appeared ... you're probably dealing with the Virgo copying you.

Truth be told the post had nothing to with the Virgo... That was done and dusted the moment he left.... I accepted it and embraced it and have not been in contact , nor will I...If I've learnt one thing over the years of my dealings with Virgo men is that, as much as I adore them, it's clearly not in the cards for me to be with one. Tis true what they say,we are worlds apart . Lesson learnt...