GRR! ( rant ) Sexual preferences!

We all have them and everyone is different. Something that always bothers me is oral sex. I'm not okay with someone touching my body like that. I'm not

messed up or prude because I don't like that. It does nothing for me and I think it's sick. From men or women. And My past boyfriends would taunt me

about it sometimes which I thought was incredibly sadistic and cruel.

Just cause society says we should/have to enjoy and LIKE every single sexual activity is bullshit! We are all different. I'm tired of the sexual stereotypes. Men

like this, woman like this.

EVERYONES DIFFERENT DAMMIT REPEAT.

People should respect eachothers. And if it really doesn't work for ya than they can go find someone else and I'll find someone else

k end rant lol.

^ LOL gem!

I don't like receiving it!!

Sag I'd like to know more about what your likes in sexual preferences. Hope it wont be just WHAM BAM.

Posted by Sag89
It does nothing for me and I think it's sick.

Wow, judgemental yourself much? lol

I have a small dick so that's all I have to show for 😛

Posted by geminicandle

Posted by enfant_terrible
I have a small dick so that's all I have to show for 😛

Really? Looks good to me on that pic!!

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+1

Just fishing, Gem. And you fell for the bait, lol. Altough if I recall correctly you said a while ago you don't settle for stallions under 20 cm. I know, I know... you say a lot of things 😛

Back to the topic: I wonder how much of it is preference, and how much is some sort of psychological hang-up? I mean how many guys will tell you they don't like bj's? You usually only hear women say they don't like to recieve...

I didn't like oral sex to start with either..because I wasn't comfortable yet in my own skin, not completely. I was young. I also didnt fully trust the guy either not to judge me. "does it look good? Taste good? Smell good" and I was more worried about those things than.. "does it feel good?" Well, you live, you learn.. It's beautiful, and yup..it tastes good (like tangy sex) and if ya keep it clean, well it smells like heaven to most men. They joke about it just to be crude men, but they freakin love it. And so now, it's my favorite thing in the world.
Maybe you'll never like it... Or maybe you havent found the right kinda man yet, who could introduce you to how sensual and intimate it can be to have his mouth all over your most secret place.. Mmm

Posted by PiscesLoves
I didn't like oral sex to start with either..because I wasn't comfortable yet in my own skin, not completely. I was young. I also didnt fully trust the guy either not to judge me. "does it look good? Taste good? Smell good" and I was more worried about those things than.. "does it feel good?" Well, you live, you learn.. It's beautiful, and yup..it tastes good (like tangy sex) and if ya keep it clean, well it smells like heaven to most men. They joke about it just to be crude men, but they freakin love it. And so now, it's my favorite thing in the world.
Maybe you'll never like it... Or maybe you havent found the right kinda man yet, who could introduce you to how sensual and intimate it can be to have his mouth all over your most secret place.. Mmm

+1

...especially the last part.

And people seem to have this hang-up on smells. I mean it's a closed environment, it's not suppose to smell like a rose! Either it bothers you, or it doesn't.

Posted by Sag89

People should respect eachothers. And if it really doesn't work for ya than they can go find someone else and I'll find someone else

In agreement

Posted by brianc213
I don't really like my girl to give me oral sex. As sexy as it looks while I am getting my dick sucked by her it feels weird. I prefer her to be on top and ride me. I enjoy having a full front view of my fine ass woman fucking me 😉

See! preference 😉

Posted by geminicandle
Sag honey, could it be that he didn't know what he was doing down there?

Either way don't feel bad and don't participate in acts that don't please you sexually.

What do you like the most anyways?

I will try anything once just not that!

I rather give then receive. I like it on my bday, valentine's, xmas, etc. I think if a man goes downtown, he should feel like im someone special to him. I perfer it on special occasions.

Mars in virgo square neputung in sag. Im a servant first and foremost.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by brianc213
I don't really like my girl to give me oral sex. As sexy as it looks while I am getting my dick sucked by her it feels weird. I prefer her to be on top and ride me. I enjoy having a full front view of my fine ass woman fucking me 😉

See! preference 😉

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If I'm really into someone "romantically" it usually takes me till I'm over the infatuation phase to fully enjoy recieving oral.... Another example of a psychological hang-up, rather than preference.

^I so agree. I look at a man differently if he goes down night 1. But like the hypocrite I am, I want to go down on him night 1. If he doesnt allow me 2, im bummed.

Yeah I don't usually go down on women the first time because I know most of you don't feel comfortable about it, and by doing so I would only ruin an experience which would have been a pleasurable one in the future.

Dont mind going down on women the first time at all and I can read if she dont feel comfortable (keep an eye contact while u work down), that problem can sort out instantly by giving her soothing words, it 'll take her confidence to the next level. And the next time you see her she 'll be wide open and forcing your head towards her slice of heaven, and that really happened.

Have had one good oral sex experience in my life, with an evil Gemini man who ran away with my heart. He was just 18 and I was 23, I have no idea where he learned how to do that but I still think about it to this day.

The rest of the times Ive thought.. WTF ARE YOU DOING—

Current guy doesnt like doing it, doesnt bother me.. I like to give though 🙂

for sure sag... if it doesn't turn you on and instead severely turns you off, i'm not sure why any guy trying to please you would wanna mess things up for you both by pressing the matter.

if a guy i'm dating and getting physical with were to let me know that x is a big sexual turn OFF ...i simply wouldn't do it.

i think "turn-off" might be the magic words for you ...should be at least. people tend to not question those words as much. the explanation is itself... it turns you off. different strokes for different folks.

Most men suck at eating pussy anyway .... if you ever do decide to try and relax enough to work on being comfortable enough to get ate .... hook up with a chic

Posted by CreepyPants

... if it doesn't turn you on and instead severely turns you off, i'm not sure why any guy trying to please you would wanna mess things up for you both by pressing the matter.

It seems that most people are in it for themselves. And what a lousy lover that makes.

a slut that wont suck dick, now thats funny.

Posted by Metaphysical
a slut that wont suck dick, now thats funny.

you can't read

THATS FUNNY!

I LIKE ONE SITTING ON MY FACE
WHILE THE OTHER IS SITTING ON MY DICK
HOWEVER ITS GET A LITTLE STRANGE WHEN THEY START KISSING AND SUCKING EACH OTHERS TITS.

Posted by Metaphysical
a slut that wont suck dick, now thats funny.

Lmao

I don't like it when a guy sticks his finger in my ass. It just feels funny.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Metaphysical
a slut that wont suck dick, now thats funny.

you can't read

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Lol

Well with oral sex I get to use four of five of my senses. I guess that's the appeal, getting to "physically" know a woman that intimately. There's also a certain amount of control involved in giving oral sex. 😉

Nailing someone feels good and everything, but it tends to drag on sometimes. lol

My five cents.