Is this a yes or a no no?What is your Venus and Mars?
Fellas, how do you feel about women asking you out?
Been there, done that. 🙂
Leo/Gemini.
Leo/Gemini.
Do it! Lord knows my ass is too indirect to do it myself. 😉
It would be easier if I didn't work with this person
Lol still haven't gone on a date yet— Just ask him already!
Posted by TerramineLightBeing single at your age was the best time of my life! Enjoy it!
Meh, don't care either way. Honestly all I care about is the fact that I'm currently single *bashes head on keyboard*
Posted by pinkbird03Lol rejection scares the hell out of me
Lol still haven't gone on a date yet— Just ask him already!
where those bitches at
Posted by ladylibra21I'm the same way! I'd personally try to ask through text or over the internet because that's less intimidating to me! Don't care if I don't look brave!Posted by pinkbird03Lol rejection scares the hell out of me
Lol still haven't gone on a date yet— Just ask him already!click to expand
Posted by TerramineLightLol nope sex does not mean best time of my life. I've had better sex when I was in a relationship! In this time, I traveled! I saw amazing things. I partied every night at incredible places. i knew the right people. I felt like a queen bee!Posted by pinkbird03
Being single at your age was the best time of my life! Enjoy it!
It doesn't work like that. I get laid like never because I don't sleep with anyone outside of a relationship. And lots of sex is the only thing I can imagine would make being single "the best time" of anyone's life.click to expand
Posted by TerramineLightLol nope. I partied with gfs. Met guys who were rich and famous, did cool things for fun, and it will never be that good again lol but I'm ready to settle now. Why r u lonely?Posted by pinkbird03
Lol nope sex does not mean best time of my life. I've had better sex when I was in a relationship! In this time, I traveled! I saw amazing things. I partied every night at incredible places. i knew the right people. I felt like a queen bee!
You should technically be able to do all that in a relationship too. Besides, with how lonely I've been so far in my life. It'd just be really nice to actually get really close and intimate with someone and it works out.click to expand
Posted by geegeePosted by ladylibra21That could get awkward if he rejects you
It would be easier if I didn't work with this personclick to expand
Exactly and he is a control freak so that's another thing that's kept me from really asking but the attraction and emotional connection is almost painful
Posted by nevesHi how are you doing?
Been there, done that. 🙂
Leo/Gemini.
Posted by MarchPisc3s*visions of my Aries Mars ex*
My Mars in Aries will feel threatened.
I also have Aries Mars.
That dynamic was...I don't remember who did what because it was super fast paced. BAM!
Posted by AriesLoveI've been down that road once, not cool. But cool for friends though if that at all. Sucks if one isn't reciprocated or think that it is and it isnt.
Why would you feel like you have to ask him out?
Why not strike up conversations or throw subtle hints that you'd like to hang out with him?! If he's interested I'm sure he will make a move.
The only problem I have with women asking men out is that some men will just go along with the ride and may not be genuinely interested or may continue to wait for you to make moves in the future....like expect you to always lead.
Never been there, but been couple of times where i asked them out and they said i was going to ask the same thing, i was just the first one to say it whahah, sure ask him out if you like him, why not?I'm cancer and i'm scared of rejection, but when i started to get rejected and shit i realised its ten times better then living and asking yourself later on , what if, can't find peace with that shit in your head. 😄
Absolutely. All of life is women rejecting men and saying we're too needy or too player-y and we need to stop drooling and stop harassing women. And you wonder whether we like it if women ask us out? It should be a law, woman has to ask the man out always ?
Posted by rakacYou give hope to men everywhere, you are right, l'm Cancer too and scared shitless but the few times l asked a girl out it was worth it. Once it worked, once it led nowhere, and once it worked but l kind of lost interest before it took, l got confused i dunno.
Never been there, but been couple of times where i asked them out and they said i was going to ask the same thing, i was just the first one to say it whahah, sure ask him out if you like him, why not?I'm cancer and i'm scared of rejection, but when i started to get rejected and shit i realised its ten times better then living and asking yourself later on , what if, can't find peace with that shit in your head. 😄
Posted by ladylibra21Oh, i see. That's a whole nother story then... if it's someone you get to see every day, someone you can actually feel - cause of the physical closeness (as you may have noticed by now - we can "literally" feel other people's personal vibe from close distance... the electromagnetic field of the heart - can actually be measured couple of feet outside of the body). Here's a brief info - of what i meant with above statement (in case my words are confusing):
It would be easier if I didn't work with this person
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11982/7-scientific-reasons-you-should-listen-to-your-heart-not-your-brain.html
Not sure if you sank deep enough, but this could be the beginning of an infatuation (or maybe you're already there). Though, beyond feelings... on a mental level - there's stuff that seems to really bother you about him (for a good reason - if he's a control freak) - so maybe it's for the best - to wait... There's people who quit their jobs - cause of stuff like this.
Just a thought...
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I don't know yet. I did a complete blood work just now (which implies around 20 tests - they took 4 tubes of blood for that), though - it's Friday so the results will be out only Monday. On Monday I have an appointment for an MRI scan as well, which... proved to be a bit bothersome to obtain - cause they didn't wanna make the reservation - without a signed referral form from a medical professional. -_- I don't get it. I mean, I'm paying for this tests (they're not compensated through medical assurance) and i already told them that - it's my choice - that i want to see my brain on MRI (after all - it's suppose to be a safe procedure - since it's based on magnates not radiation) - so to whom do they need to justify this test and why? 😕 Thus, i had to book a doctor appointment as well (that's as if I'm paying for someone to write a referral). Also, i was aiming for a Tesla 3 MRI - but this lab has a Brivo MR355 - which is only Tesla 1.5 (got the info from their site). I wonder if the quality is still good enough - or maybe it's just market for most part. Do you have any knowledge of MRI's? If so - what do you think? Anyway - on Monday should have an image of the brain on a DVD. ^^ I'll just have to learn how to read it. 🙂Posted by nevesHi how are you doing?
Been there, done that. 🙂
Leo/Gemini.click to expand
How's the hair treatment going?
Are you ready to invite guys on dates? ^^
Posted by nevesWhat I know little is MRI is a diagnostic tests and will scan your head in this loud metal ring type bed setting.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I don't know yet. I did a complete blood work just now (which implies around 20 tests - they took 4 tubes of blood for that), though - it's Friday so the results will be out only Monday. On Monday I have an appointment for an MRI scan as well, which... proved to be a bit bothersome to obtain - cause they didn't wanna make the reservation - without a signed referral form from a medical professional. -_- I don't get it. I mean, I'm paying for this tests (they're not compensated through medical assurance) and i already told them that - it's my choice - that i want to see my brain on MRI (after all - it's suppose to be a safe procedure - since it's based on magnates not radiation) - so to whom do they need to justify this test and why? 😕 Thus, i had to book a doctor appointment as well (that's as if I'm paying for someone to write a referral). Also, i was aiming for a Tesla 3 MRI - but this lab has a Brivo MR355 - which is only Tesla 1.5 (got the info from their site). I wonder if the quality is still good enough - or maybe it's just market for most part. Do you have any knowledge of MRI's? If so - what do you think? Anyway - on Monday should have an image of the brain on a DVD. ^^ I'll just have to learn how to read it. 🙂Posted by nevesHi how are you doing?
Been there, done that. 🙂
Leo/Gemini.
How's the hair treatment going?
Are you ready to invite guys on dates? ^^
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You lie down, oh please don't wear any dentures, metal of any kind, any jewelry or zippers you will hurt yourself if you have metal and go into that machine.
They inject you with a fluid and proceed into the abyss. It takes like 5 minutes. And then wait for the results.
Mmmhmm no I work too much. But I suppose my life needs a pep.. I'm sorta nervous I don't know the dating life as much. I just know I stay true to me and let's see I guess. It's like starting at level 0 and working to 5 and I have to start slowly and steady pace. There's times where i jump to 4 and then I crash hard too. Haha well see.
It's okay I'm still using the olive oil and VIT E conditioner.
Posted by ladylibra21I love it. But some are really bad with rejection like I get an angry entitlement type of reaction in return. Depends on how type-A they are but the type that will ask a guy out are more type-A.
Is this a yes or a no no?What is your Venus and Mars?
Mars-Aries
Venus-Leo
Does anyone know about Mars in Aries and Venus in Gemini more or less.
Or Mars in Taurus and Venusian in Taurus?
Or Mars in Taurus and Venusian in Taurus?
Never happened to me, but I would surely love it.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I know a cancer woman with mars-aries and venus-gemini, she is very smart and very direct.
Does anyone know about Mars in Aries and Venus in Gemini more or less.
Or Mars in Taurus and Venusian in Taurus?
Posted by nevesThis was very interesting I really have been thinking about quitting anyways and is give me more of a reason to quit. Not to see if he would be with me but ultimately to get back control of how I feel and actually focus on a career I want. Infatuation is dangerous if that is what is happening.Posted by ladylibra21Oh, i see. That's a whole nother story then... if it's someone you get to see every day, someone you can actually feel - cause of the physical closeness (as you may have noticed by now - we can "literally" feel other people's personal vibe from close distance... the electromagnetic field of the heart - can actually be measured couple of feet outside of the body). Here's a brief info - of what i meant with above statement (in case my words are confusing):
It would be easier if I didn't work with this person
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11982/7-scientific-reasons-you-should-listen-to-your-heart-not-your-brain.html
Not sure if you sank deep enough, but this could be the beginning of an infatuation (or maybe you're already there). Though, beyond feelings... on a mental level - there's stuff that seems to really bother you about him (for a good reason - if he's a control freak) - so maybe it's for the best - to wait... There's people who quit their jobs - cause of stuff like this.
Just a thought...
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Oh i see.
What I know little is MRI is a diagnostic tests and will scan your head in this loud metal ring type bed setting.
You lie down, oh please don't wear any dentures, metal of any kind, any jewelry or zippers you will hurt yourself if you have metal and go into that machine.
They inject you with a fluid and proceed into the abyss. It takes like 5 minutes. And then wait for the results.
Mmmhmm no I work too much. But I suppose my life needs a pep.. I'm sorta nervous I don't know the dating life as much. I just know I stay true to me and let's see I guess. It's like starting at level 0 and working to 5 and I have to start slowly and steady pace. There's times where i jump to 4 and then I crash hard too. Haha well see.
It's okay I'm still using the olive oil and VIT E conditioner.
But... i'm only 33!I don't need dentures at this age! Fortunately?! 😕
How about someone who works just as much - someone from work maybe? Even your job - didn't just happen (with Neptune in 6'th - that area of life can be quite confusing - and yet, you're there), you prepared for it and that's how you got there... In same way - if you prepare for a relationship - that's bound to follow as well. Being yourself - is the main necessity, a must even.
And yes, for bulls the start can be the hard part - cause once they start - they don't seem to know how to stop. 😛 That should work in you favor. No? ^^
Posted by ladylibra21If you don't like the job - and quitting is on your mind too (an essential detail), then - you should be safe. ^^ You can call it fate or synchronicity (an external event that's in tune with your current thoughts/wishes). Though, don't ask him on a date just yet - follow AriesLove's advice and see how it goes.Posted by nevesThis was very interesting I really have been thinking about quitting anyways and is give me more of a reason to quit. Not to see if he would be with me but ultimately to get back control of how I feel and actually focus on a career I want. Infatuation is dangerous if that is what is happening.Posted by ladylibra21Oh, i see. That's a whole nother story then... if it's someone you get to see every day, someone you can actually feel - cause of the physical closeness (as you may have noticed by now - we can "literally" feel other people's personal vibe from close distance... the electromagnetic field of the heart - can actually be measured couple of feet outside of the body). Here's a brief info - of what i meant with above statement (in case my words are confusing):
It would be easier if I didn't work with this person
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11982/7-scientific-reasons-you-should-listen-to-your-heart-not-your-brain.html
Not sure if you sank deep enough, but this could be the beginning of an infatuation (or maybe you're already there). Though, beyond feelings... on a mental level - there's stuff that seems to really bother you about him (for a good reason - if he's a control freak) - so maybe it's for the best - to wait... There's people who quit their jobs - cause of stuff like this.
Just a thought...
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Infatuation can be taken an early step - if not the first. If he happens to feel the same and you'd be whiling to give it a try - you'd be in for a trial (a firs experience) - and as you get to know him better (usually - while moving together) - as you'll start to notice both the good and the bad - the infatuation should dissipate - and then, you can move to next step (the healthy side of a relationship - that's based on mutual respect - mutual appreciation and so on... ). Infatuation is dangerous - if you get stuck on that early step and you end-up placing the individual on a pedestal. For example - you might have a serious issue - with people who are control freaks, but cause of the infatuation - in his case this won't bother you. Or, so it seems... cause in reality it would still bother you - but you'd go against your own nature - to accept him - somehow unconditionally. Which in turn - it hurts you... cause you'd attack yourself - to accept someone you can't truly respect (since it goes against your core values).
A female relative of mine asked the man who is now her husband out first. That has worked out well - happy marriage. They were both born in the 1940s, so fortunately they didn't let the dictates of the era that they grew up in get in the way of how their relationship should start.
The female is a Libra with Aqua moon, the male an Aries with Scorpio moon.
Male friends of mine, when I've asked them this question, would like to be asked out by women. A common thing I've heard is that it would be a relief for them not to have to do all of the work and risk taking with it, as is expected so often, which I totally understand. They shouldn't have to always be the initiators. I think there should be no "rule" about it.
The female is a Libra with Aqua moon, the male an Aries with Scorpio moon.
Male friends of mine, when I've asked them this question, would like to be asked out by women. A common thing I've heard is that it would be a relief for them not to have to do all of the work and risk taking with it, as is expected so often, which I totally understand. They shouldn't have to always be the initiators. I think there should be no "rule" about it.
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