FML this is so weird. What would you do? (Page 2)

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Sounds like you aren't really into dating app guy, if it's too "messy" of a situation for you.

Maybe I'm a cookiemonster, and my current bf is a cookiemonster, but I was dating his friend 5 months before I ended things and started to date him. Sure some awkwardness, but now when I see my ex we can all be civil and everyone realized we're all happier with how it is now.

Melrose place, yo. They want their tennants back. click to expand

Lol, I wasn't allowed to watch that growing up...or 90210 click to expand

You're living it. click to expand

Sweet...does it help that my boyfriend rents out ex's parents basement ? click to expand

One happy family.

Why weren't you allowed to watch those shows lol? I watched 90210 when i was like 10, 11 or something....crush on Kelly jajajajajaja click to expand

I was young too. Lol I hated having to go to bed at 9 and not get to watch! Lol click to expand

Hmmm....i didn't have that problem but that's probably because we got the show later than home audience (US) so it wasn't on in the evening but at 5-ish iirc. idk tho exactly when, feels like a lifetime ago LOL. click to expand

It does! Did you live on the east or west coast when you were young? I was on the west coast and thought I remembered it coming on that late. Maybe I’m mistaken. click to expand

I'm not from MAGA. click to expand

Lol. Is that Make America Great Again!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 click to expand

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why every thread you're in @Mr_Pinchy get suddenly derailed? click to expand

So that your cap moon finally has a valid reason to complain thus fulfilling it's purpose.

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You are right

I did tell dating app guy an abridged version of the story. (I went out with your friend a few times and we are still friends, is that ok?)
We ended up going out last night.
He asked me out again today, so I guess it went ok.

Thanks for all of the advice folks. I had a serious moment there. I was married so long, it's been a long time since I have dated.
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Good for you! 😄

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What is the question?

Does the fact that I dated this guy at one point, and that he still has a crush on me automatically mean I can't date his friend? I mean if the circumstances were different and I had met dating app guy out with married guy I would just automatically put him as off limits. But because I've been talking to him for a couple of weeks I don't know what to do.

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So, you're asking if you should turn down the opportunity for romantic love to make someone you know you don't romantically love, not be upset?

Yeah, it might be awkward for a little while, but who cares.. or skip the date and buy a cat... everyone seems to know someone in a small town... there is no escaping the 12 degrees of Kevin Bacon

Ah yeah I agree - not sure why this seems that awkward - how did you know they were friends? Just have a good time and be honest and tell what you know so it's all on the table. If he's squidgy with that, move on. click to expand

Dating app guy sent me a picture last night of him with a group of people, it included married guy.

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You don’t have feelings for him and have never dated him; he’s not an ex, so on paper it should be fine.
HOWEVER, you will cause a serious and grave issue for them as friends because there will be resentment and animosity hereafter. Personally you should not even emotionally be an enabler or target for his emotional cheating. You should’ve cut ties with this man who is pining for you a long time ago if it was never reciprocal and especially after he got married. click to expand

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Yes, we did date briefly as the original post suggests. We have been friends for 25 years, he's been married for three. I'm not going to drop him because he's having issues.

Anyway I mentioned it to both of them in a very light way. They aren't that good of friends, they haven't talked in over a year. I thought they were much closer than they are.

HEELLPPP

I'm a Aries & love a Libra nan

We were dating about 5 months. He is a great guy and he was always there helping me with my kids and he would call me beautiful all the time take me out help me with everything and we had great compatibility with everything. We always seen each other and he helped me through the hardest times when I started to be okay he started distant himself and I called him out on it but he said he needs space & likes to be alone so I got mad and ask him about the relationship & he started avoiding me more and just texting sometimes... So I called him & he answered and told me he isn't ready to be in a Relationship even though he cares so much about me & want to leave things where they're at. I asked to work it of & he said no dont force it & he feels bad about ending thing ... & Didn't wanna leave me like that. But he still text and do things for me and still tells me how he feels , he said he wants to be alone & fix himself and get his life together first ... And he be like I didn't want the relationship but I grew to love & care for you & your family . I want to meet him so bad ... But he say yeah but doesn't , I want him back !!!! Any tips ? What do you think I did wrong or why he let ? I also kept asking about marriage later , relationship and plans ... And was a little clingy , do you think he will come back or is this normal in Libra men ? He say he still really care and love me (grew on him) which is good . He still have pictures of me and respond sometimes but mostly all the time just when he feel like it