My much older boyfriend...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by ConsiderableMyth on Friday, May 25, 2018 and has 44 replies.

Why You Might Be Drawn to Older Partners

Attraction to older partners can stem from shared maturity, stability, and life experience. These qualities often create a deeper connection, making the relationship feel more compatible and fulfilling. Personal preferences vary, and some believe that soulmates are found through emotional resonance rather than age. Understanding your attraction can help you find meaningful relationships.

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About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

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Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems.

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Posted by Juliiette
at the end i always end up with the oldies. tbh sex is way better. the talk, everything is better. his kids are almost my age. his son went to the same hs as i did and we so trashed together all of them. lmao. so chill and enjoy. for further notice ask @gemitati when he is 70.

Yeah our conversations are always really organic. Nothing ever feels forced at all. And I don’t look at him as his age, he’s just “my person.” At first he wouldn’t tell me how old he was so I googled him and told him. He got scared I would run if I knew his age.

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Posted by UnicornSag

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Is that a Cap that wanted nothing but sex and didn't reach out after first time bj?

Definitely not! He’s a Gemini and he’s stuck to me like glue. 😀 he’s never ghosted for even 2 hours. Haha... click to expand

Ok...
I remember you had Cap stories
And remember Libra woman of your age story of doing bj to an older Cap in his late 40s or even 50s?
And him saying he wants nothing serious and then disappearing lol click to expand

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Haha! I do remember that! I was like nooooo, he’s telling you the deal! Wake up!

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👍👍 good luck

This makes me feel better. Ive been thinking~ oh he looks old for 38..is he really 38..is this how 38s look like in their race 😅 Now it's all better. Thanks

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame.

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I'm dating a man who is 17 years older than me. But than again I have always been attracted to older men and dated a few that were 10+ years older than me. It's a preference for me because I seem to get along with older men better. It works for me but my personal max age difference would be 20 years.

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Posted by UnicornSag
Is that a Cap that wanted nothing but sex and didn't reach out after first time bj?

Definitely not! He’s a Gemini and he’s stuck to me like glue. 😀 he’s never ghosted for even 2 hours. Haha... click to expandclick to expand

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Funny, I dated a much older Gemini as well. The age gap was a little more than yours, but I knew him for 4yrs before I decided to date him and that's when all his positive qualities turned into negative.

I was attracted to him because he was charming, was protective of me, very refined and accomplished...we had lots of chemistry. As soon as we began dating, all his insecurities emerged. Just my talking to another guy in his presence would make him jealous; he got incredibly possessive. I couldn't do anything without making him angry. Every time I behaved as myself, it made him feel rejected.

I've come to realise, that with an age gap so large, the main reason behind the attraction (for the man) is probably the partner's physical appearance and sex; for the woman, it's his maturity and achievements. There really cannot be much in common. I never felt an equal to him and if I ever tried, it would piss him off. Although he never expressed this, he wanted me to remain submissive in every way.

Now I balk at the thought of age gap relationships. They can be very stressful and are not for everyone.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth

Posted by UnicornSag
Is that a Cap that wanted nothing but sex and didn't reach out after first time bj?

Definitely not! He’s a Gemini and he’s stuck to me like glue. 😀 he’s never ghosted for even 2 hours. Haha... click to expand

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I'm a Libra with a Gemini man and he has stuck to me like glue since we met also. They are perfect for us Libras.

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Posted by UnicornSag
Is that a Cap that wanted nothing but sex and didn't reach out after first time bj?

Definitely not! He’s a Gemini and he’s stuck to me like glue. 😀 he’s never ghosted for even 2 hours. Haha... click to expand

I'm a Libra with a Gemini man and he has stuck to me like glue since we met also. They are perfect for us Libras. click to expand

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I read that they’re a really great match for us Libras. I’ve only ever dated one other gem a couple years ago. The sparks flew initially but he lived about 2 hours away so it made things difficult.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Congrats on becoming a couple.

I believe in a soul mate, although I don't know if I've met mine yet, lol.
I also believe that age is just number, although to an extent. I couldn't be with a woman who's too young or too old. On average, 10 years younger than me and no older than 5 years older. My wife is only a year younger than me, but I joke with her sometimes by saying that I'll trade her in for a 1990 model, haha. click to expand

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Thanks! So far it’s continued to work still. I will say the very first time we hung out I knew he was the one. I can’t describe it. It’s like “coming home” finally.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

click to expand

Her story is similar to mine & I truly believe he's my twin flame. It's only hard when traumas, fear and ego get in the way.

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Posted by DMV
My cousin is leo 27 and engaged to a 50 pisces man.

She says she doesnt want kids. She happy. And she just brought a house for them to live in.

How do you feel about kids?

I’m still debating whether or not I want kids. With him I feel like I’d we had a baby (he’s very open to it) that would be our whole life together. Maybe that’s selfish of me to not want it but it’s the truth. I finally found my person.. I don’t want the best 20 years of our relationship together to be focused on something else.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Her story is similar to mine & I truly believe he's my twin flame. It's only hard when traumas, fear and ego get in the way. click to expand

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He’s very good at quelling any fears that may arise. Grateful for that.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame. click to expand

click to expand

There's been an energy shift the time for reuniting with our twins is now. I've been doing so much research...

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame. click to expand

There's been an energy shift the time for reuniting with our twins is now. I've been doing so much research... click to expand

click to expand

REALLY!?!? Tell me more! Seriously! I love this stuff!

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame. click to expand

There's been an energy shift the time for reuniting with our twins is now. I've been doing so much research... click to expand

REALLY!?!? Tell me more! Seriously! I love this stuff! click to expand

click to expand

Me toooooo omg it's been so overwhelming to learn lmao. I joined a fb group about it and I've been reading and watching videos so much to say on here but the bottom line is that twin flames have a higher purpose together on earth and that's to bring the world to a higher consciousness and frequency. So in order to do that you have to learn how to love unconditionally. That means to be your best self and to heal your traumas and that's how you become one with your twin. It's so much to understand but it's honestly within you. I sound like the matrix but it's kinda like that lmao

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Posted by Cg2016
http://www.twinflamesoulmates.com/signs-of-the-twinflame-soul-dynamic.html

See if this resonates.

HOLY butter - I’m just starting to read this and I can already tell you the weeks leading up to our meeting I was constantly seeing 11:11 on the clock. ALSO - his birthday is 5/26 and my dads is 5/24. click to expand

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It gets even more trippy man. Find your life path number and find his and add them to a single digit... whatever that number is should describe how you guys are as a couple. Ours is 3. Three follows us in everything. Life path number 3 describes our relationship to a T. I'm 26 and he's 41. But we are each other. There's so much more to the story man.

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Posted by ConsiderableMyth
About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame. click to expand

There's been an energy shift the time for reuniting with our twins is now. I've been doing so much research... click to expand

REALLY!?!? Tell me more! Seriously! I love this stuff! click to expand

Me toooooo omg it's been so overwhelming to learn lmao. I joined a fb group about it and I've been reading and watching videos so much to say on here but the bottom line is that twin flames have a higher purpose together on earth and that's to bring the world to a higher consciousness and frequency. So in order to do that you have to learn how to love unconditionally. That means to be your best self and to heal your traumas and that's how you become one with your twin. It's so much to understand but it's honestly within you. I sound like the matrix but it's kinda like that lmao click to expand

click to expand

That’s one thing we both know how to do - love unconditionally. It’s the craziest thing. I’m almost in tears over this. But I believe it, wholeheartedly, I believe it.

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http://www.twinflamesoulmates.com/signs-of-the-twinflame-soul-dynamic.html

See if this resonates.

HOLY butter - I’m just starting to read this and I can already tell you the weeks leading up to our meeting I was constantly seeing 11:11 on the clock. ALSO - his birthday is 5/26 and my dads is 5/24. click to expand

It gets even more trippy man. Find your life path number and find his and add them to a single digit... whatever that number is should describe how you guys are as a couple. Ours is 3. Three follows us in everything. Life path number 3 describes our relationship to a T. I'm 26 and he's 41. But we are each other. There's so much more to the story man. click to expand

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Bahhhhh!!!! I’m so not going to sleep tonight!

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Posted by Cg2016

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Posted by Cg2016
http://www.twinflamesoulmates.com/signs-of-the-twinflame-soul-dynamic.html

See if this resonates.

HOLY butter - I’m just starting to read this and I can already tell you the weeks leading up to our meeting I was constantly seeing 11:11 on the clock. ALSO - his birthday is 5/26 and my dads is 5/24. click to expand

It gets even more trippy man. Find your life path number and find his and add them to a single digit... whatever that number is should describe how you guys are as a couple. Ours is 3. Three follows us in everything. Life path number 3 describes our relationship to a T. I'm 26 and he's 41. But we are each other. There's so much more to the story man. click to expand

Bahhhhh!!!! I’m so not going to sleep tonight! click to expand

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Lmaoo omg that's been me for like a month since I realized. I used to see the numbers 1155 and 1111. I mean I still see em now but it was crazy around the time I met him. He's a clairvoyant too. He just understands things ppl don't and he tells me his secrets. I appreciate his soul lol.

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About 6 weeks ago I posted about a guy I’d recently met that was moving very fast into a relationship with me. I’m happy to report we’re an official couple. The 17 year age difference isn’t any problem (he’s 49 and I’m 31). The sex is great, he treats me exactly how I love to be treated and we’re constantly traveling. The crazy thing - he has a son that’s the same age as the guy I dated prior to him. 🤣

Somehow I always felt like I’d end up with an older man. How is it I find him so much more attractive than mostly everyone else I’ve dated?

We’re like the same person... we mesh so well.

Do y’all believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

Yes.
Idk bout in 6 weeks time though.. I’ve always been emotionally guarded. Older men have a higher chance of being more mature.. usually lol click to expand

Yeah I agree it’s extrmely fast but even the first time we hung out it felt like we’d known each other all our lives. It’s perfect, for now. I hope I continues. click to expand

Sounds like twin flames.
I feel like soulmates don’t come as easily or require more work.. If that makes sense. Maybe it doesn’t. Lol click to expand

Actually it does. I’ve read a few times that soulmates don’t get to be together here, and if they do it’s after A LOT of problems. click to expand

That's a little bit backwards. You have your soulmate(s) before you find your twin. The experiences with the soulmates are what make it possible to open the door to find your twin flame. It's pretty crazy and tumultuous. I've been researching this for the past month now. But yes, it may take several lifetimes before we are ever united with our twin flame. click to expand

There's been an energy shift the time for reuniting with our twins is now. I've been doing so much research... click to expand

REALLY!?!? Tell me more! Seriously! I love this stuff! click to expand

Me toooooo omg it's been so overwhelming to learn lmao. I joined a fb group about it and I've been reading and watching videos so much to say on here but the bottom line is that twin flames have a higher purpose together on earth and that's to bring the world to a higher consciousness and frequency. So in order to do that you have to learn how to love unconditionally. That means to be your best self and to heal your traumas and that's how you become one with your twin. It's so much to understand but it's honestly within you. I sound like the matrix but it's kinda like that lmao click to expand

That’s one thing we both know how to do - love unconditionally. It’s the craziest thing. I’m almost in tears over this. But I believe it, wholeheartedly, I believe it. click to expand

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It's a beautiful thing my dear. I think the fb group is called iamatwinflame.