FWB

FWB: All of the intimacy✨ None of the obligation!

*(All the intimacy you are comfortable with.. AKA: intimacy on one party's terms.. )

Only for the most part, Substitute "intimacy" with "self centeredness", or "selfishness", or "insecurity"..

On rare occasions substitute it with "self awareness" and ownership of one's body and sexuality.

These ^^^ people do exist, but they are few and far between.

Posted by Rabbit
Is there a way to make this sticky and stay at the top of the forum?

Posted by LetltB

Lol

Bwahaha

Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

Lmoa!!!!

Friends with benefits ughhh those sneaky feelings always come in!! Lol

Posted by andsssssss

You man slutt!! lmao jk! ! 😛

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

No...I did not participate in that thread. However that was the third thread on the subject and I got sick of hearing the b.s. about it.

FWB with my best friend

FWB with my ex, but I think he still cares..


FWB, Casual sex.


Pathetic...

Posted by andsssssss

Seriously. I love how woman on here call themselves self respecting when they are constantly tearing other woman and telling them what they should do with their body. As if they own it. How creepy and fucking rape-ish. Fuck off.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

I deleted my thread because you're creepy obsession like many others on here telling women what to do with their body is fucking gross. N triggering. Plus you're annoying bitching.

Posted by Rabbit
Woman has casual sex: she's empowered and is doing what she wants with her body because its hers to do with as she pleases.

Man has casual sex: he's an asshole who uses women.



*scratches head in confusion*

More like : Woman has casual sex : Whore

Man has casual sex : High five

Posted by LetltB

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

No...I did not participate in that thread. However that was the third thread on the subject and I got sick of hearing the b.s. about it.

FWB with my best friend

FWB with my ex, but I think he still cares..


FWB, Casual sex.


Pathetic...

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Ah, gotcha. Those came to mind, too. I was surprised at the slew of them all. In this day and age of the internets and information being available, it's disturbing that there's a continual wave of topics like this, all with the same problems, all clueless.

Women have got to stop assuming guys view sex like they do. Fucking media, man. IT IS NOT LIKE THE MOVIES, PEOPLE.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

I deleted my thread because you're creepy obsession like many others on here telling women what to do with their body is fucking gross. N triggering. Plus you're annoying bitching.

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Creepy? Seriously?

You're a fucking idiot. Now go sit in your corner with your fashion magazines and leave the adults alone.


-signed,
The female who has had fwbs and actually KNOWS more about the topic than you do. 🙂

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Sag89

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Either that, or that other thread was fluffing it up to be more than it is.

You know the usual- all too often, women (usually) see it as something other than just sex. This thread is just illustrating that point, haha.

I'm guessing LIB participated and the OP didn't like it and deleted...? lol if that's the case.

I deleted my thread because you're creepy obsession like many others on here telling women what to do with their body is fucking gross. N triggering. Plus you're annoying bitching.

Creepy? Seriously?

You're a fucking idiot. Now go sit in your corner with your fashion magazines and leave the adults alone.


-signed,
The female who has had fwbs and actually KNOWS more about the topic than you do. 🙂

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Blahahaha that is hilarious. I'm sure I have had way less relationships than you and twice as many fwbs.

Yea it is creepy that you think you have authority over other woman's bodies and should tell them what to do with them, rapist.

And I never said men thought about sex the same women do. I said they can get attached through sex just as much as a woman. Or what you just think men have no feelings? What the fuck do you think monogamy is? And don't fuck any other dudes but me? You just tried to twist my words into some psycho shit you think. congratulations.

If you actually read my fucking thread at all it was all about how women think sex and adrenal highs are love. And that they should step back and realize they are deluding themselves and sex sometimes is just sex. Not love.


Jeez, your daft. I'm pretty much saying what your saying in different words and you're pretending I'm saying the exact opposite. What a loon.

Posted by Sag89
If you actually read my fucking thread at all it was all about how women think sex and adrenal highs are love. And that they should step back and realize they are deluding themselves and sex sometimes is just sex. Not love.

People who are sincere and stand by what they believe don't delete and shoots that ^^ pile of horseshit into non-existence too doesn't it?

FWB or whatever you want to call it, is pretty darned dumb behavior, imho.

I personally don't like wasting my own time, let alone, someone else wasting my time.

FWB suggests to me "sex without feelings", like a "commodity" or a "de-humanized sex toy".
Sounds pretty selfish, IMHO. How long can selfish friends get along— Seems to me, sooner or later that sort friendship will fail. So much for "friendship".

Never say never. I was whistling your tune 2 years ago and I wound up in one. I'm not doing it again though. But you shouldn't judge something you've never experienced and don't assume you'll never be in that situation. That's my 50 cents (inflation costs from 2 cents) I LOVE the pics and gifs LMAO!

Posted by kissmygrits
Never say never. I was whistling your tune 2 years ago and I wound up in one. I'm not doing it again though. But you shouldn't judge something you've never experienced and don't assume you'll never be in that situation. That's my 50 cents (inflation costs from 2 cents) I LOVE the pics and gifs LMAO!

Well, next time you hear of some crowd getting murdered, don't judge the perps because it's something
you haven't experienced for yourself.

make sense—

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by kissmygrits
Never say never. I was whistling your tune 2 years ago and I wound up in one. I'm not doing it again though. But you shouldn't judge something you've never experienced and don't assume you'll never be in that situation. That's my 50 cents (inflation costs from 2 cents) I LOVE the pics and gifs LMAO!

Well, next time you hear of some crowd getting murdered, don't judge the perps because it's something
you haven't experienced for yourself.

make sense—

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Well, this response is dumb.

Posted by LetltB

Yikes!

Posted by scorchedearth
if someone wants to be fwb with you they obviously don't want to date you. if they wanted to date you they'd say "hey, wanna go out some time?" it's not rocket science. sometimes people want to have sex with other people and that's all it is.

it is obnoxious reading some of these women who are fwb with an ex and think that by banging him that means he has feelings and that eventually they'll get back together.

once you say "we can still have sex but you don't need to commit to me" that's exactly what you'll get, and all you'll get.

I agree

Posted by scorchedearth
if someone wants to be fwb with you they obviously don't want to date you. if they wanted to date you they'd say "hey, wanna go out some time?" it's not rocket science. sometimes people want to have sex with other people and that's all it is.

it is obnoxious reading some of these women who are fwb with an ex and think that by banging him that means he has feelings and that eventually they'll get back together.

once you say "we can still have sex but you don't need to commit to me" that's exactly what you'll get, and all you'll get.

I agree

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by LetltB

Yikes!

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Puts it into perspective doesn't it?

Reality is shocking sometimes.

Some either hide behind it (make excuses for it), run from it or pretend they don't understand it. That is..until the sting from the slap of it is actually felt.

FWB mean one night on a regular basis

You care enough to have a one night stand with someone you like and FWB is this regulary and also who says FWB doesnt take into account peoples feelings? Where has that come from?

And isnt this the new year of liberal sex education and all that crap? Like wheres the open minded shit you people always preached on about and blah blah blah? Ummm?

Fucking morons dudes, like you say one thing and do entirely another.

Hey like a fecking monogamous FWB with multiples partners on each day of the week, and if you dont like that then move onto the next person who is more to your liking or suited to your needs.

Now what is wrong with FWB's? What is your problem with it? Just coz it is not for you doesnt mean it is not for everyone. Also what works for one maynot work for another. You get bored easy you need more so you make it work with full knowledge of the others so it can work for you self. This is how can work if you smart enough and have the right people who understand what you want and need for yourself.

I first did not like the idea of the FWBv etc bt then realised maybe could be good for me its like having many guys at the same time in different towns so that you never lonely when you visit them towns and they all know and understand this about you. Its the same thing but with sex thrown into the spin, now what is so wrong with that? Having FWB? with your friends? I cant understand why someone would not like that? Or how they would think it be no feelings at all unless they themselves are like that and view all realtionships like that so damn themselves and others to that same existance of category.

Truecap if this is so then why be friends with someone who wants FWB

If the said friend cannot take your feelings into consieration then theres no FWB, easy next?

If you not comfortable with a FWB then jsut say so to your friend so you then can go and find someeon you comfortable with

I am sure it was some emotionally unavailable assclown that came up with the idea and coined the phrase Friends With Benefits. It has got to be one of the most degrading situations a Woman could have the displeasure of putting and/or finding herself in. Men do not usually advertise that they are looking for FWB. Woman are not usually of the mind set to want FWB. So how would the poor schmuck get layed then?

Posted by scorchedearth
if someone wants to be fwb with you they obviously don't want to date you. if they wanted to date you they'd say "hey, wanna go out some time?" it's not rocket science. sometimes people want to have sex with other people and that's all it is.

it is obnoxious reading some of these women who are fwb with an ex and think that by banging him that means he has feelings and that eventually they'll get back together.

once you say "we can still have sex but you don't need to commit to me" that's exactly what you'll get, and all you'll get.

Actually I was asked out. Never had the "want to be FWB?" question. I did the "what are we?" converstion and found out he was emotionally unavailable and he called it a FWB so I walked. He didn't get why I was so upset but sometimes guys y'all are dumb.

Of course I'm dumb for not asking questions in the beginning but when you're going on dates and having fun and being intimate that's a relationship to me but whatever. 6 months of waste.

Posted by mfwb55
Truecap if this is so then why be friends with someone who wants FWB

Huh— Whatchyu talkin' 'bout?

Posted by truecap

Posted by mfwb55
Truecap if this is so then why be friends with someone who wants FWB

Huh— Whatchyu talkin' 'bout?

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I think that person thinks you are all for fwb?

I have been in this position too, and it wasted 8 months of my time (not to mention the stress and anxiety that went along with it) I asked myself 'Do people really do that?' Then, I took it personally, that there was something wrong with me. That is why I refer to that site baggagereclaim all the time because it really opened my eyes. Inconsistency in Texts, Hot n Cold behaviour, Not hearing from him until late at night on a weekend, No plans made for the weekend, ohhhhh and I personally got a real bang (pardon the pun.. lol) out of "Im Scared" when asked about his behavior but you know? He never tried to get 'Unscared". The thing of it is, why do we as Women feel it is too forward to ask the question OUTright in this day and age when so many Men are looking for FWB? If he really is a Good Guy looking for a REAL relationship would he and should he not be happy that you asked?

Posted by mfwb55
FWB mean one night on a regular basis

You care enough to have a one night stand with someone you like and FWB is this regulary and also who says FWB doesnt take into account peoples feelings? Where has that come from?

And isnt this the new year of liberal sex education and all that crap? Like wheres the open minded shit you people always preached on about and blah blah blah? Ummm?

Fucking morons dudes, like you say one thing and do entirely another.

Hey like a fecking monogamous FWB with multiples partners on each day of the week, and if you dont like that then move onto the next person who is more to your liking or suited to your needs.

Now what is wrong with FWB's? What is your problem with it? Just coz it is not for you doesnt mean it is not for everyone. Also what works for one maynot work for another. You get bored easy you need more so you make it work with full knowledge of the others so it can work for you self. This is how can work if you smart enough and have the right people who understand what you want and need for yourself.

I first did not like the idea of the FWBv etc bt then realised maybe could be good for me its like having many guys at the same time in different towns so that you never lonely when you visit them towns and they all know and understand this about you. Its the same thing but with sex thrown into the spin, now what is so wrong with that? Having FWB? with your friends? I cant understand why someone would not like that? Or how they would think it be no feelings at all unless they themselves are like that and view all realtionships like that so damn themselves and others to that same existance of category.

But women fall in love with every man they sleep with it's SCIENCE!!!!!

Not if their hearts all locked up...

Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...

No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—

Posted by MrFirebird
FWB or whatever you want to call it, is pretty darned dumb behavior, imho.

I personally don't like wasting my own time, let alone, someone else wasting my time.

FWB suggests to me "sex without feelings", like a "commodity" or a "de-humanized sex toy".
Sounds pretty selfish, IMHO. How long can selfish friends get along— Seems to me, sooner or later that sort friendship will fail. So much for "friendship".

You don't have to bang your friends. Who does that, really? Just find a friendly person who has no interest in a committed relationship at the moment. It could actually teach you a lot about sex, so your future sex life may improve considerably. For instance, she won't feel the pressure to fake orgasms to protect your ego, so you'll know when to step up your game and improve your skills. You may try things you wouldn't dare asking your future GF and realize how normal and enjoyable they are........for both of you.

Posted by FixedWater
I am sure it was some emotionally unavailable assclown that came up with the idea and coined the phrase Friends With Benefits. It has got to be one of the most degrading situations a Woman could have the displeasure of putting and/or finding herself in. Men do not usually advertise that they are looking for FWB. Woman are not usually of the mind set to want FWB. So how would the poor schmuck get layed then?

Come on. Even Rockyradiocream or whatever her name is admitted to it.