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Posted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—click to expand
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.click to expand
So you're saying women can be different from each other? But science says no matter what.
Posted by Sag89Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
So you're saying women can be different from each other? But science says no matter what.click to expand
If the hearts all locked up it does not matter what 'Science' says or doesn't say.
Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
So you're saying women can be different from each other? But science says no matter what.
If the hearts all locked up it does not matter what 'Science' says or doesn't say.click to expand
Haha
Posted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—click to expand
She has a point, and NO..ALL women are NOT the same. The only problem is, when the heart goes into lock up mode it shouldn't mean the brain gets locked up to, and unfortunately it does....charge money to spread, don't be stupid about it for christ sakes. It's like the one pic posted here. The Whore is the smart one. 😉
Posted by Undine
You don't have to bang your friends. Who does that, really? Just find a friendly person who has no interest in a committed relationship at the moment. It could actually teach you a lot about sex, so your future sex life may improve considerably. For instance, she won't feel the pressure to fake orgasms to protect your ego, so you'll know when to step up your game and improve your skills. You may try things you wouldn't dare asking your future GF and realize how normal and enjoyable they are........for both of you.
CASE IN POINT ^^^ No brains. Just spread em for educational purposes. smh... Whores who charge are the ones I respect.
Posted by FixedWater
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
^^^Those women are the bitter women whose brains also shut down. Their philosphy is typically fuck men who are married or taken. Categorized as cunts. The worst of the worst. If it's not a taken man, they'll fuck anyone any time. Pathetic
I repeat...all women truly are not the same.
If you sexually attuned to you friends and you both want to have FWB yes you would is this not what usually happens?
Buuut if you a whore you only doing it for the money and you respect this?
Posted by FixedWater
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
^^^Those women are the bitter women whose brains also shut down. Their philosphy is typically fuck men who are married or taken. Categorized as cunts. The worst of the worst. If it's not a taken man, they'll fuck anyone any time. Pathetic
I repeat...all women truly are not the same.
And this is why i hate women
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
^^^Those women are the bitter women whose brains also shut down. Their philosphy is typically fuck men who are married or taken. Categorized as cunts. The worst of the worst. If it's not a taken man, they'll fuck anyone any time. Pathetic
I repeat...all women truly are not the same.
And this is why i hate women
They are so fucked up that they want you to be like that and end up trying to destory you because they are a whore and a junkie themselves and is shit jealous of anyone who is not like that. Yes scorpio bitch and you cronies, get fucked and die will yas and leave me the fuck alone.
I have had enough of people such as yourselfs trying to dictate my life to suit yourselfs, lol funny now you can not do that anymore, even though you have tried time and again to have me die over and over again I come back ummm what is your problem? Me well shall i take care of myself then? Would you like a gun to shoot me with or will you get someone else involved in this as there is already that I know nothing of?
I love all people all the time and yes that means you too, just because you have lost hope in all things doesnt mean i ever will and you can try to fuck my life up by manipulating people into doing Evil but that wont work coz I am still here and always will be just to piss you off just to ensure you do indeed hate me so i can do better be better and have better, you got that? Huh?
Anyway, woman like this you gotta love them they try hard to destory you but every single time they do I keep 'staying alive'
Yeh on a grand scale this keeps happening and I seriously wouldnt be here if it werent for you bitches doing what you do, so a BIG THANK YOU to you all, also if I dont have sex with the people I have to have sex with it will change the course of humanity and theres no way i will let that happen. And its the reason why things have happened, sadly, so do you understand or prefer to hate upon me so I can be better?
I have had enough of people such as yourselfs trying to dictate my life to suit yourselfs, lol funny now you can not do that anymore, even though you have tried time and again to have me die over and over again I come back ummm what is your problem? Me well shall i take care of myself then? Would you like a gun to shoot me with or will you get someone else involved in this as there is already that I know nothing of?
I love all people all the time and yes that means you too, just because you have lost hope in all things doesnt mean i ever will and you can try to fuck my life up by manipulating people into doing Evil but that wont work coz I am still here and always will be just to piss you off just to ensure you do indeed hate me so i can do better be better and have better, you got that? Huh?
Anyway, woman like this you gotta love them they try hard to destory you but every single time they do I keep 'staying alive'
Yeh on a grand scale this keeps happening and I seriously wouldnt be here if it werent for you bitches doing what you do, so a BIG THANK YOU to you all, also if I dont have sex with the people I have to have sex with it will change the course of humanity and theres no way i will let that happen. And its the reason why things have happened, sadly, so do you understand or prefer to hate upon me so I can be better?
Er, Story-Time... Anyone?
Posted by mfwb55
Posted by FixedWater
Too Old... my point is this: If you have been shit on, kicked around, and are all messed up from too many bad relationships and too much butter in your life your heart can eventually just shut down. Leaving science out of it entirely. Those women that don't come out of that kind of tailspin would probably eventually learn to Love FWB. You can become pretty bitter and your reasoning gets all turned around. So, I agree with Science, but have presented an example for why a Woman would reason for a FWB type of relationship.
^^^Those women are the bitter women whose brains also shut down. Their philosphy is typically fuck men who are married or taken. Categorized as cunts. The worst of the worst. If it's not a taken man, they'll fuck anyone any time. Pathetic
I repeat...all women truly are not the same.
And this is why i hate women
Those are some pretty strong words and I for one am curious as to what either LetitB or myself said that would have you respond the way you did.
Posted by mfwb55
They are so fucked up that they want you to be like that and end up trying to destory you because they are a whore and a junkie themselves and is shit jealous of anyone who is not like that. Yes scorpio bitch and you cronies, get fucked and die will yas and leave me the fuck alone.
I have had enough of people such as yourselfs trying to dictate my life to suit yourselfs, lol funny now you can not do that anymore, even though you have tried time and again to have me die over and over again I come back ummm what is your problem? Me well shall i take care of myself then? Would you like a gun to shoot me with or will you get someone else involved in this as there is already that I know nothing of?
I love all people all the time and yes that means you too, just because you have lost hope in all things doesnt mean i ever will and you can try to fuck my life up by manipulating people into doing Evil but that wont work coz I am still here and always will be just to piss you off just to ensure you do indeed hate me so i can do better be better and have better, you got that? Huh?
Anyway, woman like this you gotta love them they try hard to destory you but every single time they do I keep 'staying alive'
Yeh on a grand scale this keeps happening and I seriously wouldnt be here if it werent for you bitches doing what you do, so a BIG THANK YOU to you all, also if I dont have sex with the people I have to have sex with it will change the course of humanity and theres no way i will let that happen. And its the reason why things have happened, sadly, so do you understand or prefer to hate upon me so I can be better?
Ahhhh, gotta love a slow internet connection. You have some troubles, that I can see. Instead of being quite so aggressive about them, maybe you'd be less confused if you spent some time figuring out just what it is that's causing you so much angst.
Posted by FixedWater
I am sure it was some emotionally unavailable assclown that came up with the idea and coined the phrase Friends With Benefits. It has got to be one of the most degrading situations a Woman could have the displeasure of putting and/or finding herself in. Men do not usually advertise that they are looking for FWB. Woman are not usually of the mind set to want FWB. So how would the poor schmuck get layed then?
Agreed. I've wondered this myself sometimes. Personally, the idea never struck me as a bad one per se, but I have a high sex drive, so... yeah haha. "Hmm, I want to get laid, but I don't feel like weeding through piles of bullshit to get there..."
But sometimes women are just using the guy as much as he's using her. There's a good example over on the Aries board. Tables are flipped in that situation though.
Unfortunately, the prime example- women getting into it when they really shouldn't happens more often than not. :/ And it just blows my mind that SO many fall into the same mindset. It's like moths to a flame.
Posted by kissmygrits
Actually I was asked out. Never had the "want to be FWB?" question. I did the "what are we?" converstion and found out he was emotionally unavailable and he called it a FWB so I walked. He didn't get why I was so upset but sometimes guys y'all are dumb.click to expand
Same thing happened to me with the last dude I dated. These idiots trying to be sneaky and get away with shit, haha. It's pretty funny when they hum and haw when you confront them about it. OHNOES YOU WERE CAUGHT. Gtfo of here with that cakey eaty shit.
Posted by UndinePosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Sag89Posted by rockyroadicecream
-signed,
The female who has had fwbs and actually KNOWS more about the topic than you do. 🙂
She sounds really proud of it too 😉!click to expand
Just keep on piling on examples of what an uppity cunt you are. 🙂
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by FixedWater
I am sure it was some emotionally unavailable assclown that came up with the idea and coined the phrase Friends With Benefits. It has got to be one of the most degrading situations a Woman could have the displeasure of putting and/or finding herself in. Men do not usually advertise that they are looking for FWB. Woman are not usually of the mind set to want FWB. So how would the poor schmuck get layed then?
Agreed. I've wondered this myself sometimes. Personally, the idea never struck me as a bad one per se, but I have a high sex drive, so... yeah haha. "Hmm, I want to get laid, but I don't feel like weeding through piles of bullshit to get there..."
But sometimes women are just using the guy as much as he's using her. There's a good example over on the Aries board. Tables are flipped in that situation though.
Unfortunately, the prime example- women getting into it when they really shouldn't happens more often than not. :/ And it just blows my mind that SO many fall into the same mindset. It's like moths to a flame.
Posted by kissmygrits
Actually I was asked out. Never had the "want to be FWB?" question. I did the "what are we?" converstion and found out he was emotionally unavailable and he called it a FWB so I walked. He didn't get why I was so upset but sometimes guys y'all are dumb.
Same thing happened to me with the last dude I dated. These idiots trying to be sneaky and get away with shit, haha. It's pretty funny when they hum and haw when you confront them about it. OHNOES YOU WERE CAUGHT. Gtfo of here with that cakey eaty shit.click to expand
Haha... It's pretty funny how squirmish they get when confronted with that very specific question. It is worth it, just to see the look on their faces. I agree with you that sometimes the batteries run out and it's just so much easier to replace with something a little more independent. !! Kidding (but am I?) I do know that with the gentleman I am now dating I had this discussion with him, in depth, before I started getting all mushy about him. It was still difficult to initiate the conversation but it had to be done, and he did not mind that I did at all.
Whast is causing me so much angst is people such as yourselfs
People who are narrow minded as to think there is no such thing as FWB's and blame the whole thing on the person who suggest it in the first place saying they are the ones with the problem. Where is you freedom of expression?
Just because a person wants to be FWB and it suits them better than an relationship or one nighters doesnt not mean they have anything wrong with them, its their preference just as a person who prefers either whore to do the job or a poly relato or monogamo, is it so hard to see that we are all different in what we all prefer and just coz we prefer different things doesnt mean there is something wrong with them
What is it you trying to say here?
It's amazing what communication does.
Everything about the one I was seeing was so textbook dating/interest. But then he started acting differently, acting questionably, and I was like oh hell no. Once confronted, he starts throwing around the "friend" word, making no sense, and it's like oh okay. FRIEND ZONE YOU GO! 🙂
The only thing I was kicking myself over is not bringing it up sooner when I wanted to. I made the mistake of taking some "advice" from those here. I should have known better. *sigh* Gut trumps all, you know?
Lesson learned. *shrugs*
Everything about the one I was seeing was so textbook dating/interest. But then he started acting differently, acting questionably, and I was like oh hell no. Once confronted, he starts throwing around the "friend" word, making no sense, and it's like oh okay. FRIEND ZONE YOU GO! 🙂
The only thing I was kicking myself over is not bringing it up sooner when I wanted to. I made the mistake of taking some "advice" from those here. I should have known better. *sigh* Gut trumps all, you know?
Lesson learned. *shrugs*
Well its about time then huh lesson learned congrats to you
Posted by MrFirebird
FWB or whatever you want to call it, is pretty darned dumb behavior, imho.
I personally don't like wasting my own time, let alone, someone else wasting my time.
FWB suggests to me "sex without feelings", like a "commodity" or a "de-humanized sex toy".
Sounds pretty selfish, IMHO. How long can selfish friends get along— Seems to me, sooner or later that sort friendship will fail. So much for "friendship".
+1. To add a bit more, I think women who endorse FWB are out there to compete with men instead of realizing that they are genetically programmed differently from them. Look at any statistics out there, you will always find that women are MORE LIKELy to involve feelings in FWB than men. It is a total waste of time concept probably invented by rich teenagers who had nothing better to do.
I think I have a headache...
FWB is a degrading concept for women and I have no clue why any woman would promote it. It is a relationship (NOT) more like an arrangement that really just translates to "milking the cow without buying it". What happens? Women get psychotic and start to connive plans like secretly getting pregnant to trap the dude into marrying them. As for the guy, his double standards are just obvious in any relationship/arrangement. A guy asking his FWB to stop seeing other guys or sleeping with other guys isn't love or even infatuation. That's just a male's nature to possess what he comes into contact with sexually. Don't get it twisted though because his nature is also double standards, that I can do FWB but you get to be solely mine.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
It's amazing what communication does.
Everything about the one I was seeing was so textbook dating/interest. But then he started acting differently, acting questionably, and I was like oh hell no. Once confronted, he starts throwing around the "friend" word, making no sense, and it's like oh okay. FRIEND ZONE YOU GO! 🙂
The only thing I was kicking myself over is not bringing it up sooner when I wanted to. I made the mistake of taking some "advice" from those here. I should have known better. *sigh* Gut trumps all, you know?
Lesson learned. *shrugs*
I feel you there, I had the same issue with advice and kicked myself for not listening to my own instincts.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by MrFirebird
FWB or whatever you want to call it, is pretty darned dumb behavior, imho.
I personally don't like wasting my own time, let alone, someone else wasting my time.
FWB suggests to me "sex without feelings", like a "commodity" or a "de-humanized sex toy".
Sounds pretty selfish, IMHO. How long can selfish friends get along— Seems to me, sooner or later that sort friendship will fail. So much for "friendship".
+1. To add a bit more, I think women who endorse FWB are out there to compete with men instead of realizing that they are genetically programmed differently from them. Look at any statistics out there, you will always find that women are MORE LIKELy to involve feelings in FWB than men. It is a total waste of time concept probably invented by rich teenagers who had nothing better to do.click to expand
I think it's such an interesting point that you make about women competing with men. This could really apply in some cases, couldn't it? No matter, the whole FWB thing is a total waste of time. It is a negative output, and I prefer positive input.
If men and women are genetically programmed to be different then what is wrong with FWB's?
You dont like it cause it doesnt fit with what you want and now think anyone who is into FWB is negative
You dont like it cause it doesnt fit with what you want and now think anyone who is into FWB is negative
And for the people who want more than FWB go find it elsewhere coz you wont find it with FWB
How is having FWB like competing the sexes when all people do regardless of what sex they are do what works for them and if FWB works for them then how is this competing anyways?
Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
She has a point, and NO..ALL women are NOT the same. The only problem is, when the heart goes into lock up mode it shouldn't mean the brain gets locked up to, and unfortunately it does....charge money to spread, don't be stupid about it for christ sakes. It's like the one pic posted here. The Whore is the smart one. 😉click to expand
I'm surprised no one caught on to my sarcasm. wow. I guess I'm not good at this trolling thing.
Posted by Sag89Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
She has a point, and NO..ALL women are NOT the same. The only problem is, when the heart goes into lock up mode it shouldn't mean the brain gets locked up to, and unfortunately it does....charge money to spread, don't be stupid about it for christ sakes. It's like the one pic posted here. The Whore is the smart one. 😉
I'm surprised no one caught on to my sarcasm. wow. I guess I'm not good at this trolling thing.click to expand
Sarcasm, now that makes sense. Lol
Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
She has a point, and NO..ALL women are NOT the same. The only problem is, when the heart goes into lock up mode it shouldn't mean the brain gets locked up to, and unfortunately it does....charge money to spread, don't be stupid about it for christ sakes. It's like the one pic posted here. The Whore is the smart one. 😉
I'm surprised no one caught on to my sarcasm. wow. I guess I'm not good at this trolling thing.
Lol yea
Sarcasm, now that makes sense. Lolclick to expand
Lol yea
Posted by Sag89Posted by FixedWaterPosted by Sag89Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89Posted by FixedWater
Not if their hearts all locked up...
No. All women are exactly the same. You have no idea what your talking about. Are you actually gonna try and argue with science—?? SCIENCE—? how old are you—
She has a point, and NO..ALL women are NOT the same. The only problem is, when the heart goes into lock up mode it shouldn't mean the brain gets locked up to, and unfortunately it does....charge money to spread, don't be stupid about it for christ sakes. It's like the one pic posted here. The Whore is the smart one. 😉
I'm surprised no one caught on to my sarcasm. wow. I guess I'm not good at this trolling thing.
Lol yea
Sarcasm, now that makes sense. Lolclick to expand
Haha! That's too funny. I took your post at face value, but now I know to look for a little sarcasm from you. On the up side, this thread has stayed at the top for the better part of a day. I think that rocks because the more we talk about topics like this, the more informed any other Women reading it will be. That's the good part about contributing on Threads like this.
Nah didnt catch on to the Sarcasm
Posted by aquarius09
+1. To add a bit more, I think women who endorse FWB are out there to compete with men instead of realizing that they are genetically programmed differently from them. Look at any statistics out there, you will always find that women are MORE LIKELy to involve feelings in FWB than men. It is a total waste of time concept probably invented by rich teenagers who had nothing better to do.click to expand
I'm pretty darned old fashioned in my personal view on the subject.
I think it's best to wait until marriage and use discretion while married.
I don't think that just because you're married you should bang each other like bunnies in a laboratory.
I certainly don't think it's right to commit adultery, either.
As for the prostitutes. I recognize that many women, not all, through circumstances beyond their control
have found themselves in the fix they are in and don't really want to be there, yet have not been able to figure out a way out. God help those who truly do want out of that life.
Whores, opposed to the above prostitutes, are another breed, who actually enjoy what they do and the money, gifts etc. that it brings and have no sense of the damage they can cause.
So, there are two groups in that category.
FWBs fall under "fornication" which is defined as "Sex outside of marriage".
That, imho, is just as bad as the foregoing.
To be certain, peace will not be found under any of the above circumstances when sex is abused and misused. Indeed, sex within marriage can also be abused and misused and that too is wrong.
When people get burned, it's best to learn that hard lesson the first time and not repeat it, again.
Nevertheless, we are all free to do whatever we want BUT we are enslaved to the consequential
accountability for whatever we do.
Posted by MrFirebird
I'm pretty darned old fashioned in my personal view on the subject.
You sure are, which begs the question why you're even participating in the topic on hand. :/
Your mindset is why men still think they have the right to beat down women's sexual and reproductive rights.
"You can't do this with your vagina because I think it's wrong!!"
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by UndinePosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Sag89Posted by rockyroadicecream
-signed,
The female who has had fwbs and actually KNOWS more about the topic than you do. 🙂
She sounds really proud of it too 😉!
Just keep on piling on examples of what an uppity cunt you are. 🙂
click to expand
This example was about the cunt in you!
Posted by LetltBPosted by Undine
You don't have to bang your friends. Who does that, really? Just find a friendly person who has no interest in a committed relationship at the moment. It could actually teach you a lot about sex, so your future sex life may improve considerably. For instance, she won't feel the pressure to fake orgasms to protect your ego, so you'll know when to step up your game and improve your skills. You may try things you wouldn't dare asking your future GF and realize how normal and enjoyable they are........for both of you.
CASE IN POINT ^^^ No brains. Just spread em for educational purposes. smh... Whores who charge are the ones I respect.
click to expand
You mean......the man-whores you are paying ? I think you may be stupid to learn anything new. Keep paying them, though.
God bless us all then heh?
Posted by Undine
You mean......the man-whores you are paying ? I think you may be stupid to learn anything new. Keep paying them, though.
Was that suppose to be a come back? Or just a typical undine spin?
Posted by starlover
FWB
Fuckwits
Without
Brains
😄
lol..I see some graphic art coming soon..this is gonna be fun! Busy day..When I have a moment I'm gonna work on one and post when finished.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by MrFirebird
I'm pretty darned old fashioned in my personal view on the subject.
You sure are, which begs the question why you're even participating in the topic on hand. :/
Your mindset is why men still think they have the right to beat down women's sexual and reproductive rights.
"You can't do this with your vagina because I think it's wrong!!"
click to expand
I agree. Just let me women be.
Posted by mfwb55
If men and women are genetically programmed to be different then what is wrong with FWB's?
You dont like it cause it doesnt fit with what you want and now think anyone who is into FWB is negative
They are genetically different and have different needs. I can see why males would like this arrangement (having sex without responsibility that comes with a relationship). This concept was surely started by a male because it's in his favor. However, women are getting short end of the stick in this arrangement. Women, biologically, want to have children, get married, nurture man/child, cook etc. Look at a child, girls play with dolls, cooking sets, baby dolls and play their mommy. That's her innate disposition. Men are by nature reckless. Consider their childhood: cars, GI Joes. The reason a male seeks a woman is sex,some nurture and at best a child. Men want heirs to their throne or to carry their name. This concept will not only ruin a woman's psyche, but bring our society in total chaos with all these demented women walking around. Women are deprived of their needs in this concept andthgs the problem. Women perceive sex differently from men and they aren't programmed to handle such a complex. This concept is just setting them up for a major downfall for competing with men. "If you can have sex without attachment, so can I". Nope, you wish. There are exceptions to every rule and there are very few women who can do it just like few men out there who can't handle fwB.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by mfwb55
If men and women are genetically programmed to be different then what is wrong with FWB's?
You dont like it cause it doesnt fit with what you want and now think anyone who is into FWB is negative
They are genetically different and have different needs. I can see why males would like this arrangement (having sex without responsibility that comes with a relationship). This concept was surely started by a male because it's in his favor. However, women are getting short end of the stick in this arrangement. Women, biologically, want to have children, get married, nurture man/child, cook etc. Look at a child, girls play with dolls, cooking sets, baby dolls and play their mommy. That's her innate disposition. Men are by nature reckless. Consider their childhood: cars, GI Joes. The reason a male seeks a woman is sex,some nurture and at best a child. Men want heirs to their throne or to carry their name. This concept will not only ruin a woman's psyche, but bring our society in total chaos with all these demented women walking around. Women are deprived of their needs in this concept andthgs the problem. Women perceive sex differently from men and they aren't programmed to handle such a complex. This concept is just setting them up for a major downfall for competing with men. "If you can have sex without attachment, so can I". Nope, you wish. There are exceptions to every rule and there are very few women who can do it just like few men out there who can't handle fwB.click to expand
Man that is so sexiest : /
Posted by mfwb55
How is having FWB like competing the sexes when all people do regardless of what sex they are do what works for them and if FWB works for them then how is this competing anyways?
If it was such a brilliant concept, then it would work. Guess what? It's a shit concept that doesn't work. In theory, it sounds great, but in practice it doesn't work. I can see it working for males for the reasons I already mentioned, but it doesn't work for women. This is why so many women end up expecting more after sex because they start to get emotionally attached. Go check out that movie "friends with benefits" with Justin and Mila. They depicted ehat I'm saying. Feelings are way more likely to creep in for a woman than man.
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