@Gemitati
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Have anyone told you you are bad at sex?
OP, have you told your husband he sucks in bed? There you go.
Posted by palehooves
whats the deal with people making threads based off of comments i make? this is the 2nd time today. jeez.
You have interesting comments
Yes I have, an Aries ex never took time to care about my needs and had no desire to please me and I let him know. He was indifferent about it and didn't make any changes.
I had a Capricorn guy whose mars squared mines and he said I took too long to cum and it turned him off, meanwhile he came too fast and not enough time to have fun, especially since we were into bdsm.
I really wanted to tell a guy he was a horrible kisser, but I didn't...
Posted by Vageenka
Yes.A girl told me I didn't eat her vageenka right. To be honest I still wouldn't know how to do it properly. Vageenka's are so complex.
Don't feel bad I don't know how to eat the box either. They are complicated.
I've never been told, but I probably am.
no I was never told that.
I almost wanted to add something else to that last comment of mines but I think ima stay quiet on that one.
Posted by Panela
I almost wanted to add something else to that last comment of mines but I think ima stay quiet on that one.
Now I'm curious
🙂
But if it's private, I understand
Posted by Panela
I almost wanted to add something else to that last comment of mines but I think ima stay quiet on that one.Now I'm curious
🙂
But if it's private, I understand
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its not private nor important. in fact its no big deal. I hesitated whether or not I should post it. I did but i erased it. I don't want everybody thinking I'm bragging.
edit: I did typed it but I erased it. never posted it.
Posted by Panela
I almost wanted to add something else to that last comment of mines but I think ima stay quiet on that one.Now I'm curious
🙂
But if it's private, I understand
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Why would anyone say...I was about but I am not posting it? Just don't say anything and move on...
Posted by aquarius_beauty
No one's been rude enough to tell me I've been bad tbh.My ex Aries didn't have anyone else to compare me with, we we're each other's first. But guessing from the inherent moans coming from him, I'd say I was ok.
Leo said I gave good oral. Best he's ever had. Sex? Well according to him he'd done the most positions with me...so I don't know what to make of it...
Honestly, unless the guy is a total jerk...he's not going to tell you, you were bad. It's like if my exes would ask me if they were bad or who was better? How do I answer that?
We talking guys and girls!
And because everyone being nice - those bad in sex will remain bad to the rest!
Someone just tell them! Lol
We talking guys and girls!
And because everyone being nice - those bad in sex will remain bad to the rest!
Someone just tell them! Lol
But that's cruel. Besides what might be bad for me, might be good for someone else?
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Agree. So what is the solution?
We talking guys and girls!
And because everyone being nice - those bad in sex will remain bad to the rest!
Someone just tell them! Lol
But that's cruel. Besides what might be bad for me, might be good for someone else?
Agree. So what is the solution?
Moving on.
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Agree. However being my sign I pretty much know if I am good or bad.
I am bad info don't care. Or if you smell strange...lol
Posted by Capri-sun
No. I am bad at sex though. They just don't want to hurt my feelings by telling me.
Only if you are lazy and don't give back!
But there is always one who wouldn't care and do it all for you just to have you!
Keep searching
Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Yes I have lol. My ex told me my vagina was tight and I gave good head but I was boring in bed.I took the constructive criticism and bettered myself in the bedroom.
Just kidding. My vagina is tight so either enjoy it or gtfo
LOL
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How tight should it be to say it's bad?
We used to call it mouse eye. When whatever guys do - it's not opening up!
Maybe it's a medical condition...idk!
Again some people don't enjoy sex!
That's illness. Mental and needs to be taken to a pro! Shrink or guys from those places where you pay for it!
Posted by Capri-sun
No. I am bad at sex though. They just don't want to hurt my feelings by telling me.Only if you are lazy and don't give back!
But there is always one who wouldn't care and do it all for you just to have you!
Keep searching
Gemitati making encouraging posts towards others. Must be happy hour.
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Tomorrow...
Posted by Capri-sun
No. I am bad at sex though. They just don't want to hurt my feelings by telling me.Only if you are lazy and don't give back!
But there is always one who wouldn't care and do it all for you just to have you!
Keep searching
I'm good without it. No worries. If it's bad, it's intentional.
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Yes I have lol. My ex told me my vagina was tight and I gave good head but I was boring in bed.I took the constructive criticism and bettered myself in the bedroom.
Just kidding. My vagina is tight so either enjoy it or gtfo
LOL
How tight should it be to say it's bad?
We used to call it mouse eye. When whatever guys do - it's not opening up!
Maybe it's a medical condition...idk!
Again some people don't enjoy sex!
That's illness. Mental and needs to be taken to a pro! Shrink or guys from those places where you pay for it!
Really? Because to be honest I enjoy sex moderately, the physical side of it anyway. I don't think I enjoy it as much as the next person. What kind of illness?
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Are you a Scorp? I didn't think so...
Because I know exactly what you are saying...
Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Yes I have lol. My ex told me my vagina was tight and I gave good head but I was boring in bed.I took the constructive criticism and bettered myself in the bedroom.
Just kidding. My vagina is tight so either enjoy it or gtfo
I laughed so HARD at this lmfao
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Just saw a comment that said 'I had never had anyone complained about sexual with me'...
Which inspired me to start this could be fun thread.
Have anyone of you had someone told you 'I had better' or something of the sort so you knew they hot satisfied and you can get lost?
Also have you ever said or show to someone that it's not good?
Any stories about bad sex welcome!
Let's keep it light without too much drama please!