@LadyNeptune
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Important things to ask your partner...
Key Questions to Ask Your Partner for a Stronger Relationship
Asking your partner important questions helps build trust and understanding. Focus on topics like values, future goals, and communication styles. Open conversations foster emotional intimacy and ensure compatibility. Remember, honest dialogue is essential for a healthy relationship and mutual growth.
*Curious*
If I got locked up would you wait for me?
My Virgo demigod told me the day before that he feels 100% safe with me, that he believes I'll always look out for him and have his best interests at heart. I had just given him some advice on how to handle a family issue, and the solution I offered him is something that works out for everyone involved. He loves his family so he really appreciated it.
So I guess right now for me the most important thing to ask is if you can trust your partner enough to be there for you when it counts.
Do you want children?
Any previous drug addictions?
Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years, any ambition?
Do you like spaghetti?
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?
And enchiladas, I took this for granted once and dated someone for quite a while. I'm not sure how it never came up but one day, he says "I don't see what the thing is with ppl liking Mexican food, so much" WTF!! We can't be together if you don't understand all that is the glory of tex-mex and Mexican food.
are you married? not that it matters...?
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?And enchiladas, I took this for granted once and dated someone for quite a while. I'm not sure how it never came up but one day, he says "I don't see what the thing is with ppl liking Mexican food, so much" WTF!! We can't be together if you don't understand all that is the glory of tex-mex and Mexican food.
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Sorry you wasted your time by not knowing better. I broke up with @rockyroadicecream for the same reason.
If there was one hit left would you offer it to me?
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?And enchiladas, I took this for granted once and dated someone for quite a while. I'm not sure how it never came up but one day, he says "I don't see what the thing is with ppl liking Mexican food, so much" WTF!! We can't be together if you don't understand all that is the glory of tex-mex and Mexican food.
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WHAT.
...
...WHAT.
HOW CAN SOMEONE SAY THIS ABOUT MEXICAN FOOD. It's like an effing food group here in Cali, so this comment you mentioned is just... moonspeak. Dafuq.
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?And enchiladas, I took this for granted once and dated someone for quite a while. I'm not sure how it never came up but one day, he says "I don't see what the thing is with ppl liking Mexican food, so much" WTF!! We can't be together if you don't understand all that is the glory of tex-mex and Mexican food.
I am a complete and total Mexican food addict. I need it like 3-4 times a week. Whenever my fiancé said Mexican food was trash, I literally responded with "fuck you" —— Don't mess!
Eventually, it grew on him though. ?? Now he searches for it in Europe lol.
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Do they even have anything comparable? They're fortunate enough to have Spain in the region, so some of its influences may be there, but I'd be curious to see how countries over there tackle "Mexican" food.
I have a friend in Aussie who shows me their versions of Mexican food and I lol. I'm like no, that's not how you do it... It basically garnered the same response as when it was discovered that the Japanese put mayo on pizzas or some bs. :/
I think asking about the stars are important.
If you like to look at the stars, and he's all like "Pffft! I don't care about dem stoooopid sparkly bugs stuck on that large,black sticky paper!" Then chances are, you're with a moron.
Posted by femme
Do you want children?Any previous drug addictions?
Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years, any ambition?
So intense.
As a veg, I didn't ask out right, but I observed the food he ate. When it turned out that he, as I was at the time, a pescatarian, it made everything's so much better. Now that I'm full veg, when we go out to eat and want to share, he doesn't mind giving up seafood. :3
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?And enchiladas, I took this for granted once and dated someone for quite a while. I'm not sure how it never came up but one day, he says "I don't see what the thing is with ppl liking Mexican food, so much" WTF!! We can't be together if you don't understand all that is the glory of tex-mex and Mexican food.
I am a complete and total Mexican food addict. I need it like 3-4 times a week. Whenever my fiancé said Mexican food was trash, I literally responded with "fuck you" —— Don't mess!
Eventually, it grew on him though. ?? Now he searches for it in Europe lol.
Do they even have anything comparable? They're fortunate enough to have Spain in the region, so some of its influences may be there, but I'd be curious to see how countries over there tackle "Mexican" food.
I have a friend in Aussie who shows me their versions of Mexican food and I lol. I'm like no, that's not how you do it... It basically garnered the same response as when it was discovered that the Japanese put mayo on pizzas or some bs. :/
Europeans are weird. They also put mayo on their fries, like we do with ketchup. And now he's got me doing that over here lol. Whenever the wait staff in Europe hears that you're American when you order, they just bring you ketchup. Doesn't even matter what you ordered and I'm thinking.... lol.... never said I wanted ketchup lmao.... 😆
I am talking about it with him now... and they try lol. He has linked me this:
It's not the same at all! You can see the photos under the "Over Ons" section. The fuck is that. And expensive, well for Mexican anyway... We are going to try it when I'm over there next summer haha.
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I think the place she showed me put mayo on some of their stuff and I forget what else. I showed my brother and he had the same response I did. "lol wat" Haha. He told me he knew of an Aussie who pronounced "jalapeno" as "gel- ah- pah- nos" and your usual white speak of pronouncing "quesadilla" with the hard L vs the "y" sound. My friend keeps spelling "burrittos" and I keep telling her to drop the t haha.
Posted by femme
Do you want children?Any previous drug addictions?
Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years, any ambition?
So intense.
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Not intentional, I promise 😆
Posted by Gemitati
are you married? not that it matters...?
Of course it matters.....he has a family
😐
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?spagedddddii
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Will you marry me? Asl check
Posted by tiziani
"It's me or the enchiladas. Now choose."Bad news, I'm afraid.
The enchiladas, will always win!
Posted by Gemitati
are you married? not that it matters...?Of course it matters.....he has a family
😐
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It always matters if they're married.
Why do you love me?
If you, your mum and I was stranded on an island and there was a raft seating two only who would you choose?? Lol
Things that can help me discover what they value and how they live their life day-to-day and beyond.
My dog will be sleeping in the bed with us. Hope your cool with that?
Posted by LadyNeptune
My dog will be sleeping in the bed with us. Hope your cool with that?
YES!!!
Great question!
Nothing like a poser pretending to love animals than finding out later... not so much!
*Personal experience*
And speaking of things that will be happening in bed... do you agree to let me warm my frozen feet on your legs?
Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Do you like spaghetti?spagedddddii
Will you marry me? Asl check
I don't like spageddi anymooo
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Bummer. I had a feeling you were an impasta.
What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
Are you gonna want a threesome at some point?
Posted by LadyNeptune
And speaking of things that will be happening in bed... do you agree to let me warm my frozen feet on your legs?"How would you react if my actual ice cube feets are placed on a random body part of yours, with no warning?" 😆
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Right! And promise you won't cry out and wake me up. I need my beauty sleep.
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