Holding hands...

during sex... not forcefully to hold you down or for balance.

Anyone experience this / have someone want to hold your hand(s) during sex or foreplay?

Thoughts??

Do you think it's more intimate - Suggesting something deeper than just 'sex' (or treetrunking for that matter)?

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
you're not....having sex right now are you lil?....😉

I wish! LOL

I don't think my hands would be free to type... they'd be interlocked with someone else's!

voice to text software connected directly to DXP!

"Do you think it's more intimate - Suggesting something deeper than just 'sex' (or treetrunking for that matter)?"

real intimacy, to me, is doing what you feel and the moment. if you feel like holding his hand an railing him so be it, lol. 😛

Oh yeah, I??ll tell you something
I think you'll understand
When I say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand

Oh, please, say to me
You'll let me be your man
and please, say to me

You'll let me hold your hand
Now let me hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand

And when I touch you i feel happy, inside
It's such a feeling
That my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide

Yeah you, got that something
I think you'll understand
When I say that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand

And when I touch you I feel happy, inside
It's such a feeling
That my love
I can't hide
I can't hide
I can't hide

Yeah you, got that something
I think you'll understand
When I feel that something
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand
I wanna hold your hand.

The Beatles

Holding hands while making whoopie is intense...

Posted by Ms.P
Yes. Looking for a sheet to grip as your O'ing, but instead, finding eachothers hands, and squeezing for dear life while you come together, is pretty intense.

OMG Soooo much better than grabbing the sheets... I've been thinking about it all day.

Posted by ianthefish
who wants to hold hands?
i cant put my weight on my own hands then...
it would have to be more like holding her down in that case...

Trust me, he's not holding me down... it is very sensual. Why, I can not say. Just, WOW! It's all just WOW, he's amazing if I must say! (ok, sorry *blushing* you all didn't want to hear that)

So, maybe this particular man is finding it much more intimate to hold my hands during sex... hmmmm... I analyze things too much...

But why? Why would he want more intimacy?? There I go, analyzing again!

I believe holding hands is something VERY intimate. I'm not overly fond of touching unless it's your SO.

Yeah, I've done this/experienced this. It was a sexy power struggle sort of thing. I will hold hands on and off but I like to use my hands for other things too 😉

LOL No doubt!! I HATE being hugged at all. It makes me feel so ..........violated. I usually give Aries a high five or a slug on the shoulder. LOL He thinks it's funny.
I do hug but only when I have to.

I do that too. I prefer to grab his arm or put mine through his to hand holding. He expects it now. He even holds his arm out for me when we are walking somewhere. LOL

Eh you're not emotionally crippled. You just aren't needy 😉

I like a lot of kissing, hugging, touching, physical closeness...

Yes! My taurus husband sometimes grabs my hand and I love it. He's not a super affectionate person by nature (outside of the bedroom) so anything I can get makes me feel so special. Holding hands is just another form of intimacy and I say YES to intimacy any way I can get it!