I want a bf

I can't meet anyone who shares similar eclectic interests with me, I go out do stuff... 😢 I want to cuddle lol.

sorry but lol

You must ask yourself why is it so important to have a boyfriend? The most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself. I am firm believer get that one mastered than you will know who is right for you and not just settle for someone because you want a boyfriend.

Pisces Dream, how long did it take for you to come to that realization? If Tx_girl is truly 25yrs old then you know which decade she's in and how fun it is to have what she desires. Once she turns 30yrs old she can find herself. Let her go after what she desires now because later in life that innocence will be ripped away like her heart from her chest.

Tx_girl, I say go for what you know. "Do you!" because later you will be looking at the dating world with different eyes. I'd rather know how to innocently love a man than be suspicious with my guards up expecting everything a man says to be bullshit like most women do over 30yrs old.

There's only a few of us left that can trust a man at face value no matter how much older we get. Some may call us fools, but hey... we're not sitting there bitter about past wretchedness but trying to love again so that we won't rot inside.

for the longest time, I didn't want one, thought it was too much headache....now, when I want one, can't find no one....pathetic...

look, 99% of the time I am happy by myself, just felt like cuddling with someone last night lol. If you are so cold that you don't need human touch EVER, I'd say that's a bigger problem.

look, 99% of the time I am happy by myself, just felt like cuddling with someone last night lol. If you are so cold that you don't need human touch EVER, I'd say that's a bigger problem.

Hey, I agree and I'm with you with wanting a boyfriend 😢 Its been since December 😢 😢 😢

But I go through hot and cold spells -- one minute I want to be in a relationship, and the next minute I don't want any guy LOL

But I understand how you feel, but every man I meet is an ass :O

its cuz you have a nice one.

Hi GB!

That may be my freaking problem! LOL, just kidding 😉

How are you?

awwww tx girl....just be patient.....they one you are looking for will find you

i hate not having a boyfriend around the holidays

well that too but not exactly

lol, I realized how much I miss my ex... omg... I totally ruined that one. Hopefully we will be together again, we are like thousands of miles away, I mean half way around the world...wow 😢 dont you always want something you cant have or someone who is so far away... *sigh*.

I tend to agree with Pisces_Dream.

To just want a boyfriend for the sake of making the self feel better in being cared for, cuddled, and NOT alone .. is a set-up for a broken heart because then the female emotions inside of you will begin to have expectations from him in how he treats you. And if he doesn't comply with your heart that has dropped down on it's knees for this attention from him .. then a complete emotional fall is inevitable.

People would say .. just have fun and don't worry about finding yourself until you're older .. however, is this really fun? And isn't it true that who you are today was made from who you were yesterday?

Lonely women have the attitude .. I just want to be loved. And to just wanting to be loved, without a specific person who has touched your soul .. is in essence, objectifying a man. This lonely woman doesn't really want a man for who he is .. she only wants an object.

Ms. A - I kind of agree with you on this. Thank you for the reminder.

"Pisces Dream, how long did it take for you to come to that realization? If Tx_girl is truly 25yrs old then you know which decade she's in and how fun it is to have what she desires. Once she turns 30yrs old she can find herself. Let her go after what she desires now because later in life that innocence will be ripped away like her heart from her chest. "

I must admit my intentions are to help someone prevent the hurts of my own past expereinces, however you are right, there is a certain amount of innocence in twenties that is lovely. Do we get more jaded as we get older because of our own realtionship hurts? I used to think it was getting wiser, but to be quiet honest these days I am not so sure. At the end of the day we all want to be loved and some of build walls of mistrust because of past experiences.

PD

PA "Lonely women have the attitude .. I just want to be loved. And to just wanting to be loved, without a specific person who has touched your soul .. is in essence, objectifying a man. This lonely woman doesn't really want a man for who he is .. she only wants an object."

This is true as well. Is their a fine balance to being independently sure of oneself and wanting and needing love? My life seems to have toggled between the two extreams. Perhaps in our forties is when we really understand this. I dunno. Give me some insight.]

PD

Being the manfriend, I passed boy a long time ago, we aren't worth the effort.

Or to old for you

Church meet a thumper, thats all she needs, better off in the bars with the drunks

Don't think of having one and you'll get one? Strange how getting a boyfriend sounds like someone trying to pass a hesitant sneeze. Don't try, just let it come.

As stated, there's always the bars. And if its just nights of warm cuddling, a drunk makes a slightly decent blanket. Careful though, they're self-staining.

@ashleysagstar: "I miss someone always around to talk to or cuddle. The intimate cuddle/affection..."

Wouldn't it be great to have CWB (Cuddlers Without Benefit), as oppose to FWB? Just hook up with a girl and cuddle the night away. I'd totally go for that. Only it would take a lot of self-control. lol

I thought you would 😉

Let's start a new trend!

@ashleysagstar: "Your saying you can cuddle w/ someone and not bonk them?!?!?!"

Never had that happen to me. Once they get all cuddly they want more, and who am I to object?

@ashleysagstar: "And i cant be close to someone unless i trust them and care about them."

That's intresting. As for myself, I'm always into that. Doesen't matter if I just met her an hour ago. Basically I'm more in love with the oppsoite sex than a specific individual out of that group. So I always get that closeness when with a woman. At least i think I do, being in love with being in love ... Leo stuff, you know.

@ashleysagstar: "I cuddle my pillow lol no emotional attachment or sex, but i also clunch/bite it lol."

That's way too cute to be true, lol .. Let's hope some lucky guy gets that spot.