@saggurl88
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Ladies..Is this (emotional) Abuse? (Page 2)
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ok. comparing an internet post with selling crack. are you going to call me a nazi next?
What are you talking about?
This is what you said: it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
yes and? not only do you deem yourself the arbiter of "truth" in this thread, you now want to dictate what my opinion should be as well?
give it a break eh? it's sunday. find something else to do.
I just wanted to see more of who you are. Btw, that was a stupid non-sequitur claiming that everyone on here is a liar because they use generic usernames rather than their real names.
fuck me you are boring.
Fuck you is right.
The last time I checked, I am not here for your entertainment value... but I most certainly am here for mine.
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uh-huh. ok hun.
Yes it is.
Why the Silent Treatment Is a Tactic of Abuse and Control
And that victim playing is also a sign of gaslighting.
I suspect your friend was trying to have her boundaries, the abuser didnt like it.. hence the silent treatment.
Expected outcome? So your friend feels bad and over extend herself and let him violate her boundaries.
Advice: when someone give you a silent treatment.. take it as a closure and vanish
Exactly.
Thank you 😊
I just read the link and found it very useful. Her partner likes to make her feel bad when she tells him how HE treats her instead of acknowledging how She feels so this is why I asked the original question.
Did you say what sign he is? This sounds like a Cancer guy.
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He is scorpio
Yes it is.
Why the Silent Treatment Is a Tactic of Abuse and Control
And that victim playing is also a sign of gaslighting.
I suspect your friend was trying to have her boundaries, the abuser didnt like it.. hence the silent treatment.
Expected outcome? So your friend feels bad and over extend herself and let him violate her boundaries.
Advice: when someone give you a silent treatment.. take it as a closure and vanish
Exactly.
Thank you 😊
I just read the link and found it very useful. Her partner likes to make her feel bad when she tells him how HE treats her instead of acknowledging how She feels so this is why I asked the original question.
Did you say what sign he is? This sounds like a Cancer guy.
He is scorpio
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That's unfortunate that she doesn't play his game and turn things around. People treat you how you let them. Scorpios hate being ignored. And he is doing that to her. Tsk, Tsk.
ok. comparing an internet post with selling crack. are you going to call me a nazi next?
What are you talking about?
This is what you said: it's also her right to make that decision for herself. besides i believe her that she is talking about a friend.
yes and? not only do you deem yourself the arbiter of "truth" in this thread, you now want to dictate what my opinion should be as well?
give it a break eh? it's sunday. find something else to do.
I just wanted to see more of who you are. Btw, that was a stupid non-sequitur claiming that everyone on here is a liar because they use generic usernames rather than their real names.
fuck me you are boring.
Fuck you is right.
The last time I checked, I am not here for your entertainment value... but I most certainly am here for mine.
uh-huh. ok hun.
Yes, that’s right.
It’s not like you are exciting and I truly do find you dull and boring yourself. I did read that Libra moons get projected on a lot.
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you're the one continuing a conversation that ended well over a day ago.
you're combative just for the sake of being so now. you've already shown yourself to be petty in this thread and now you're going for childish too. if i hasn't occurred to you yet because you're too fucking thick, i just don't care anymore.
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Did you say what sign he is? This sounds like a Cancer guy.