Gemitati
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Limerence
Every day in here I end up self-diagnosing a new psychological disorder.
Posted by SmidgeLol. It says there is 12 steps program.
Ew, what is this? Is it contagious? Can it be cured?
But I am imagining script from a doctor saying that! Lol
Posted by roleplayAt 17?
I no longer suffer from this and I used to be very prone to it. No idea how I overcame it. Maybe I’m just too depressed to be infatuated
Posted by roleplayYou grew out of it? 🤣🤣🤣Posted by GemitatiIt’s strange I know. I’ve had so many bad cases of limerence, I don’t know what happened to mePosted by roleplayAt 17?
I no longer suffer from this and I used to be very prone to it. No idea how I overcame it. Maybe I’m just too depressed to be infatuatedclick to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWhere was I? I wish I’ve seen it...Posted by Gemitatii have it's been discussed heavily here and i have limerance very oftenPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
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Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?click to expand
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
Posted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.click to expand
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
Posted by xyinsaturnI don’t think so. We are perfectly alright. I am not even stalking him...lolPosted by GemitatiIs this reciprocated to the same degreePosted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
click to expand
I just take Xanax and behaving myself.
🤣
Posted by xyinsaturnSo it means I can keep on going?Posted by Gemitati8 years is long but you have a taurus mars.Posted by xyinsaturnI don’t think so. We are perfectly alright. I am not even stalking him...lolPosted by GemitatiIs this reciprocated to the same degreePosted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
I just take Xanax and behaving myself.
🤣
click to expand
His mats in Sag...means anything?
Hey! How do you know my Mars?👀
Posted by Gemitatiyes i know.i did his chart you wrote it down...Posted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!click to expand
scorpio sun, venus, sag mars, aries moon , jupiter aquarius, pluto leo gen i think. so he's an old guy?
Posted by xyinsaturnYou right!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xyinsaturnSo it means I can keep on going?Posted by Gemitati8 years is long but you have a taurus mars.Posted by xyinsaturnI don’t think so. We are perfectly alright. I am not even stalking him...lolPosted by GemitatiIs this reciprocated to the same degreePosted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
I just take Xanax and behaving myself.
🤣
His mats in Sag...means anything?
Hey! How do you know my Mars?👀
Bc you answered when i asked you before.
How long can you go on waiting for?
I'm guessing forever.
click to expand
Because I don’t need anyone else.
So...what are you saying?
And I am willing to listen and thanks!
Posted by lisabethur8Yes. He is the ONLY guy...🙂Posted by Gemitatiyes i know.i did his chart you wrote it down...Posted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
scorpio sun, venus, sag mars, aries moon , jupiter aquarius, pluto leo gen i think. so he's an old guy?click to expand
Trollolloollooollloooollllooooooooooooo
Posted by SilvermoonmaidenI guess...whatever it means
Limerance of a scorpio?
Posted by xyinsaturnI didn’t know! Sorry. I will behave. Promise.Posted by GemitatiWhat I usually tell you with genuine intention but you're always sarcastic. So nvm.Posted by xyinsaturnYou right!Posted by GemitatiPosted by xyinsaturnSo it means I can keep on going?Posted by Gemitati8 years is long but you have a taurus mars.Posted by xyinsaturnI don’t think so. We are perfectly alright. I am not even stalking him...lolPosted by GemitatiIs this reciprocated to the same degreePosted by lisabethur8Are you new? I don’t obsessed here. I am obsessed in real life for over 8 years with a real person.Posted by Gemitatii've never heard of it either.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI bet you haven’t heard the word before...
yes
Have you?
you would mean you are obsessed with someone and analyzing them too much?
do you do that with anyone you know outside of internet interaction?
i've never seen you do any of that here.
I am not analyzing him. I am totally obsessed! And now I see this! And they claiming it’s curable like some kind of desease...I wish!
I just take Xanax and behaving myself.
🤣
His mats in Sag...means anything?
Hey! How do you know my Mars?👀
Bc you answered when i asked you before.
How long can you go on waiting for?
I'm guessing forever.
Because I don’t need anyone else.
So...what are you saying?
And I am willing to listen and thanks!click to expand
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Although it can be difficult to objectively evaluate the signs of limerence when you’re in this altered state, Tennov identified the following core characteristics:
•Idealization of the other person’s characteristics (positive and negative)
Yes
•Uncontrollable and intrusive thoughts about the other person
Yes
•Extreme shyness,stuttering, nervousness and confusion around the other person
Absolutely NO
•Fear of rejection and despair or thoughts of suicide if rejection occurs
Yes to fear of rejection
No to suicidal 🖕
•A sense of euphoria in response to real or perceived signs ofreciprocation
Yesssss
•Fantasizing about or searching obsessively for signs of reciprocation (“reading into things”)
Yes
•Being reminded of the person in everything around you
Yes
•Replaying in your mind every encounter with the other person in great detail
Yes
•Maintaining romantic intensity through adversity
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•Endlessly analyzing every word and gesture to determine their possible meaning
Yes
•Arranging your schedule to maximize possible encounters with the other person
Yes
•Experiencing physical symptoms such as trembling, flushing, weakness or heart palpitations around the other person
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So am I 5% of ‘chosen’ to have a case of limerence?