@hazeofpixiedust
8 Years
Lady turn offs!
Common Lady Turn-Offs in Men
Many women find clinginess, lack of confidence, or disrespectful behavior as major turn-offs. Personality traits like arrogance or dishonesty also diminish attraction. Understanding what women dislike can help men improve their relationships and avoid these pitfalls.
Yes men.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
A man who whines.
THIS! Especially a man who whines when you tell him "No" for anything. grossss
A man who acts out in any way, shape, or form when you turn him down politely.
A man who takes up his "bros" opinions as his own
When they have this salty taste on their lips, idk how to explain it but man that really turns me off
Complains and nags
1. Not having goals, or drive.
2. Heavy gamers!
3. Lazy bastards.
4. Guys who act snobbish and cut other people down, whether they have reasons to or not!
5. Lack of humor
6. Can't hold a convo with some level of intelligence
7. Guys who feel threatened by any type of strong female
8. Guys who don't want to travel
9. Mouth breathers!
10. Too big of an ego
11. Affliction clothing HAHA
12. Guys who use cutting you down as "flirting"
I think I just don't like weak dudes in general?? Or lazy fucks. 😄
When they touch you and it's with a weak limp hand. Literally makes me squirm... light caresses are a different story.
A lot of things can be overlooked if the D is good 😄
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
1. Not having goals, or drive.2. Heavy gamers!
3. Lazy bastards.
4. Guys who act snobbish and cut other people down, whether they have reasons to or not!
5. Lack of humor
6. Can't hold a convo with some level of intelligence
7. Guys who feel threatened by any type of strong female
8. Guys who don't want to travel
9. Mouth breathers!
10. Too big of an ego
11. Affliction clothing HAHA
12. Guys who use cutting you down as "flirting"
I think I just don't like weak dudes in general?? Or lazy fucks. 😄
#11...lol! Agreed.
Bad hygiene
Having debts
Mommas boy
High pitch voice *shrugs*
"Everybody's favorite"
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
Really? I think it's good when they are close with their mom. I think it shows they will care for you and respect you. A man who is disrespectful to his mom shows he's most likely going to treat you like shit. Turn off for me
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Yeh but she wrote "unusally close"... you never had a mommas boy do u? 😂 There's a big difference
Unmotivated
Guys that only claim to date super models but look like a big toe.
Rejection 😂 If you reject me in any way I am out in a flash
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
Really? I think it's good when they are close with their mom. I think it shows they will care for you and respect you. A man who is disrespectful to his mom shows he's most likely going to treat you like shit. Turn off for me
Yeh but she wrote "unusally close"... you never had a mommas boy do u? 😂 There's a big difference
I dont see anything wrong with a mamas boy
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Lol you'll see for yourself once you get there but I hope you won't
Posted by pisceswoman123
Rejection 😂 If you reject me in any way I am out in a flash
Noted ✔♥
Posted by pisceswoman123
Rejection 😂 If you reject me in any way I am out in a flashNoted ✔♥
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☺️🙈
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
Really? I think it's good when they are close with their mom. I think it shows they will care for you and respect you. A man who is disrespectful to his mom shows he's most likely going to treat you like shit. Turn off for me
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It also indicates a leniency towards the Madonna/W.hore complex. Also, disrespectful is a relative term when it comes to family.
I'm a pisces mars, I like good guys who don't discriminate against anyone
Can't even breathe the same air with smb heartless
Posted by MoonshineLeo
When they have this salty taste on their lips, idk how to explain it but man that really turns me offI know what you're talking about!!! 😂
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Lmao stops kissing
Posted by aqualady0118
A lot of things can be overlooked if the D is good 😄HAHA
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lol good one but not for me - if the whole package isn't there I'm not asking the D to come out and play - lol
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
Really? I think it's good when they are close with their mom. I think it shows they will care for you and respect you. A man who is disrespectful to his mom shows he's most likely going to treat you like shit. Turn off for me
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that is correct but when it comes down to you or mommy and he picks mommy it's over for me
Posted by bittercupcake
Physical:Lack of personal hygiene and total slob
Extremely harry
Personality:
Douche meter over 9,000
Doormat / too soft or too nice
Sexuality:
Selfish in bed
Doesn’t know how to perform (biggest fear)
I don't mind hairy if he is sexy - my guy is hairy and he tries to shave every day but some days when he's busy it just grows wild lol
Posted by shakedown
A man that does not own tools, or a man that owns tools and does not know how to use them is a turn off. He should know how to repair minor things around the house, change a tire and check / change fluids in a car. A man wielding a tool is oh so sexy. Yummy.
Yes this is so sexy. A handy man especially this day and age.
Gotta get them earth signs for that
Posted by bittercupcake
Physical:Lack of personal hygiene and total slob
Extremely harry
Personality:
Douche meter over 9,000
Doormat / too soft or too nice
Sexuality:
Selfish in bed
Doesn’t know how to perform (biggest fear)
I don't mind hairy if he is sexy - my guy is hairy and he tries to shave every day but some days when he's busy it just grows wild lol
I don’t mind harry either but extremely harry yes. I’m talking back hair that curls at the ends harry lol. My Aries is harry, looks like an Arab when he lets the beard grow. But he’s not back harry.... there would definitely be a problem if he was 🤮
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most women prefer no back hair - I think that we are pre-disposed to not passing this gene onto our offspring lol - no back hair babies
Posted by bittercupcake
Physical:Lack of personal hygiene and total slob
Extremely harry
Personality:
Douche meter over 9,000
Doormat / too soft or too nice
Sexuality:
Selfish in bed
Doesn’t know how to perform (biggest fear)
I don't mind hairy if he is sexy - my guy is hairy and he tries to shave every day but some days when he's busy it just grows wild lol
I don’t mind harry either but extremely harry yes. I’m talking back hair that curls at the ends harry lol. My Aries is harry, looks like an Arab when he lets the beard grow. But he’s not back harry.... there would definitely be a problem if he was 🤮
most women prefer no back hair - I think that we are pre-disposed to not passing this gene onto our offspring lol - no back hair babies
IDK girl. Some men be having lots of hair everywhere where it curls at the ends and they're married! lol I couldn't even imagine how I'd be able to cope with that.
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lol guess what ? you don't have to if you don't want to - that is the beauty of choices
what in the actual duck! I'm offended by some of these answers
I love my mom. I'm not super close. She's actually a good friend. she gives me my shit back and she's an manipulative Leo so I always have to look at her suspiciously.
I get my eye brows cleaned up *shrugs*
I wax/shave my body hair for the simple fact of hygiene... and muscles look better
That salty taste? that's a new one... maybe its something they ate? I hate kisses that taste like nothing... if that sounds weird...I like flavored kisses. like she just had a starburst or some gum... yummy.
I hate dry lips... if I don't have dry lips, as big as mine are... you definitely shouldn't have them lol. stay hydrated my friends.
@saggurl88 where your list at boo?
I don't like stinky smells. So bad breath or body odor is out. along with farting and shitting. Do all that in private and close the door just like I would.
I also don't like caked on nasty yellow teeth. Hygiene is important.
I'll take a look at the whole thread to see what others had to say. 🙂
Posted by bittercupcake
Physical:Lack of personal hygiene and total slob
Extremely harry
Personality:
Douche meter over 9,000
Doormat / too soft or too nice
Sexuality:
Selfish in bed
Doesn’t know how to perform (biggest fear)
I don't mind hairy if he is sexy - my guy is hairy and he tries to shave every day but some days when he's busy it just grows wild lol
I don’t mind harry either but extremely harry yes. I’m talking back hair that curls at the ends harry lol. My Aries is harry, looks like an Arab when he lets the beard grow. But he’s not back harry.... there would definitely be a problem if he was 🤮
most women prefer no back hair - I think that we are pre-disposed to not passing this gene onto our offspring lol - no back hair babies
IDK girl. Some men be having lots of hair everywhere where it curls at the ends and they're married! lol I couldn't even imagine how I'd be able to cope with that.
lol guess what ? you don't have to if you don't want to - that is the beauty of choices
Amen to that! Lol
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thank god for diversity lol
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...
show off - especially around other guys
attention ho
know it all
talk too much non sense
ignore obvious signs of hate
Posted by shakedown
A man that does not own tools, or a man that owns tools and does not know how to use them is a turn off. He should know how to repair minor things around the house, change a tire and check / change fluids in a car. A man wielding a tool is oh so sexy. Yummy.I do metal work! 😁
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that's hot
A push over
A man that can't initiate
Dick pics
the funniest post this month. I know, its only been 7 days, but still lol
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
You are banned from the Cancer board.
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I don't even know what that's supposed to mean.
Posted by hazeofpixiedust
Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!
Really? I think it's good when they are close with their mom. I think it shows they will care for you and respect you. A man who is disrespectful to his mom shows he's most likely going to treat you like shit. Turn off for me
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Oh I know what you're saying and that level is a good sign. I'm talking unusually close - as in like - everything he does, thinks, feels, is run by her. Her approval is required for him to do anything with his own life. Like he wouldn't know how to function at all if she weren't 150% wrapped up in his life....
Posted by Koniuchaa
Bad breath
Honeuyyyy...do you want to alone foreva?lmao
LMAO at dick pics... so true. unless I'm asking, or we're dating and do this mutually with each other - it's a surefire way to never get into my pants.
Posted by Koniuchaa
Bad breathHoneuyyyy...do you want to alone foreva?lmao
There are plenty with good breath, so I’m not concerned
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I admire your attitude!
Posted by shakedown
A man that does not own tools, or a man that owns tools and does not know how to use them is a turn off. He should know how to repair minor things around the house, change a tire and check / change fluids in a car. A man wielding a tool is oh so sexy. Yummy.I do metal work! 😁
Don't try to butter me up now. I'm still mad at you 😡 💙, but yea, I guess you fit into that category.
What can I do to put a smile back on your face?
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After you caught him doing some crap? Lol
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Ladies! Tell me the biggest turn-off's you have ever encountered in a man -- Personality-wise, sexually, whatever...
I'll start with my "favorite"
An unsually close relationship with mom!