@hellosaggy
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How to Feel Comfortable Exploring Sexual Activities with Your Partner
Reluctance in trying new or freaky activities often stems from comfort levels and communication issues. Building trust and openly discussing boundaries can help both partners enjoy exploring their preferences. Remember that sexual comfort varies and respecting each other's limits is key to a satisfying experience.
@saggurl88 you feel me boo boo?
Posted by hellosaggy
@saggurl88 you feel me boo boo?
No, I don't lol What's the actual question lol There's a lot going on here! I'm not in a good mood, I'm butthurt again from my water boy! 😆
What?
LMAO hey girllllll
Do you have some kind of hyperactivity disorder OP?
you just start fires and let them burn huh!!! 😆 Pyro Man!
One ex I had was down for threesomes... then we started dating and she took it off the table... that hurt my feelings.
HAHAHA!
I just have questions.... what's wrong with questions?
My masseuse was telling me about her boyfriend cheated on her and did all this stuff with this other girl.... and I was just telling her its hard when you are with a woman you are in love with to do raunchy porno type things to.
SO I asked my DXP buddies.
@RooSagicorn
I find it easier to be perverse/freaky with someone I probably won't see again lol
@juliiette
lol... after I get out the shower ... its basically Have at it!
I hate when women try to go down on you when you've been sweating...etc
I had one girl that wanted to do it after I was walking in from gym.... I literally had to yell at her. she was like I don't care.... I don't really like pre sex sweatiness...
my tastes are pretty standard
i love impact play
might invest in a spanking bench
semi public sex is also a go
on the extreme end
maybe knife play
fire play
and electro play
but that's more of a curiosity.
the girl i'm serious about would also have to enjoy the standard stuff
My spanking game is very advanced.
oh I've never done any of those type plays.... on the extreme end.... I should look some of that up online.... I've seen the electro play.... I hate getting static shocked lol
@roosagicorn
that's why I don't get into a LTR until I know how the sex is with a person!
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.
I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
nope.... I have a friend on DXP I share my journal with 😆
I don't lie lol
...and pictures lol
that's really why I was mad because I put the breaks on to talk to CAP...I was behaving for a good month....because I didn't want to seem like I was just having a bunch of sex while trying to date her..... that's why my feelings are hurt because I really tried 😢
I'm not exposing my DXP friend... so I will just take your vicious attacks on my integrity.
Posted by hellosaggy
that's really why I was mad because I put the breaks on to talk to CAP...I was behaving for a good month....because I didn't want to seem like I was just having a bunch of sex while trying to date her..... that's why my feelings are hurt because I really tried 😢Lol how dare her! 😆 Caps operate at their own pace. You might want to get used to that if you actually want something with her!!
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you get me @roosagicorn .... you get me 🙂
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
my tastes are pretty standardi love impact play
might invest in a spanking bench
semi public sex is also a go
on the extreme end
maybe knife play
fire play
and electro play
but that's more of a curiosity.
the girl i'm serious about would also have to enjoy the standard stuff
What is electro play? 😨
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lol what it sounds like
have you ever seen batman returns?
Posted by hellosaggy
@saggurl88 you feel me boo boo?No, I don't lol What's the actual question lol There's a lot going on here! I'm not in a good mood, I'm butthurt again from my water boy! 😆
Did u say water boy ? 🏊♂️
@Saggurl88 who do u want me or this fuxboi @hellosagggy
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You know I want you baby! I'm only yours! 😍😍😘😘😘
I don't know @hellosaggy! I think you just need to find the right girl.
Mars in Scorpio is what you're looking for. Known for the *most* stamina, passion, depth, freakiness, breaking of taboos, etc etc. The more comfortable and secure I am in a relationship the freakier I get. These ones do tend to NOT want to share partners though.
How about being weirded out in a relationship about letting your freak flag fly in bed? I've held mine back from some guys because I sensed it would turn them off or weird them out. lesson learned there. *yawn*
I do like my balls played with.... that's like a guy eating you and neglecting some tongue spelunking
well, I could only ever get my Os traditionally but traditionally my man can have it whichever way he wants it - as long as I get some O time
so I should do synastry on every girl before I bone her? I'm not that huge into astrology. I do have Time Passage Pro for Ios that gives you sexual chemistry.
I would say the girls I did check out synastry wise I've had the best sex with, was high or very high.
The Cap is very high like a 9.... that's why I'm curious about her. I'm just not feeling the energy I need from her though.
All the ones I am dealing with now are 6+ on a scale of 1 - 10
My scorpio ex was an 8
my sag ex was a 7
the Arab Virgo coming to see me this weekend is a scorpio mars though...
Kore kara minna de mechakucha odotte.
Sawagou, sawagou.
Headbanger.
Posted by hellosaggy
@hazeofpixiedustso I should do synastry on every girl before I bone her? I'm not that huge into astrology. I do have Time Passage Pro for Ios that gives you sexual chemistry.
I would say the girls I did check out synastry wise I've had the best sex with, was high or very high.
The Cap is very high like a 9.... that's why I'm curious about her. I'm just not feeling the energy I need from her though.
All the ones I am dealing with now are 6+ on a scale of 1 - 10
My scorpio ex was an 8
my sag ex was a 7
the Arab Virgo coming to see me this weekend is a scorpio mars though...
you settle for something less just for the sex ?
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
Slut! 🙂
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@Ganon
I'm staying strong... with the help of my hands lol
about 2 days left.....!
@UnicornSag
No the CAP isn't safe.... she's coming over to the dark side... she's been blowing my phone up this week. YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE CAP! She has to wait til train comes back to the station *snapping fingers in circle*
I don't want to risk her messing my mind up for my Arab Virgo weekend extravaganza! No way Virgo and I can be serious. we are friends and live 7 hours apart!
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
Hahahhahahahahahaa this!!!
I think I just realized something about Mr sag hahagagga
I think you are so much alike
He is 33 too lol
😂😂😂💪
Bachelor
Actually admitted to have sex alot
Yet I know from his family
Once he is serious he is 200% loyal
🙈🙈🙈 and goddddd he is great
I can only imagine how he is in bed
But...
The thing I read is that..... You look at her differently then those other women
They are..... Sex
Yet you are... Waiting before jumping into communication with her.... Even though you know she might have feelings.... To have sex with them first
So... Somewhere.... You put her in a higher place then them— I'm a wrong??
You're wrong lol she's just more interesting cause doesn't give out so easy lol
he's a lot more shallow then you think...there's not debt to it trust me...Sag men and Sag woman are nothing like one another, like complete opposites. Women appear shallow yet are very deep and men appear deep yet are very shallow. She's got special place only until he gets her, no longer, then back to same lane as all others cause there's no such woman for Sag man.
Lol. I don’t think the men appear deep. They appear shallow because they are sex crazy. That's been my experience anyway. You have to calm them down first before you can see what they are really about. I think maybe a Cap can do that because they don’t play the game the Sag is used to playing. So the Sag has to play to someone else’s rules. But that’s the thing with Sag’s it’s hard to tell if you are acting a certain way to get sex or if you actually are more interested. I’m 0 for 2 in that department. Lol. One going each way, I guessed wrong both times 🙄
In this case, I think she is keeping his attention for some reason.
Well to be fair I just said it to make it look like they have something positive too 😛
she's got his attention probably cause she's a knock out, you can see from his stories he's literally bored to death with her, impatient to the max just cause she doesn't give it out yet lol so he's curious to find out how she really is and probably will lose interest later if she's any less that he imagined(and will probably be, cause well we do have productive imagination lol plus kept him waiting so long so probably won't meet expectations even tho she might be perfectly fine actually). Sag (men) wants sex first then everything else...if you read any horoscope about men in marriage and life partners Sag men are always last and it's for a reason. They're good to have fun with maybe but not to be serious about cause they simply can't be serious or stable(99% of the cases, not everyone is the same!). Just saw one like that today and no surprise there, Sag men as usual at the very bottom of the list of desirable life partners lol
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@unicornsag
That's not fair! here is why we are GREAT LIFE PARTNERS:
A) FUN
B) MORE FUN THAN ANYBODY ELSE YOU GONNA DATE
C) Sex is wild
D) Sex is also FUN
F) FUN
E) We are Loyal (I wanted to put a break in between the sex reasons lol... and duh its out of order on purpose because we are fun)
G) We are great with Kids
H) IF we love you.... you get everything we have and even what we don't.
Posted by bittercupcake
Idk what kind of girls you be dating but #1 I never neglect the balls and #2 mostly everything is on the table... except other people and excraments. That I will never do.
Maybe I should have sex with more women more than twice... perhaps it would be better.
I had sex with this one dutch girl (pssst hey @mariah that only wanted anal.... how great was that! Freaky dutch chick there. I'll always remember her)
I realized after 2 times they really get clingy....
no... @Mariah is right.
I do like her.... she's a sweet girl, and I like the hidden sexuality (girl next door) vibe she has versus the oozing sex appeal of the women I normally go for.
Shes the first I've been around that seems to be a good motherly type partner.... but I know I really like sex and her trying to set the pace makes me so mad, i just want it. I'm sick of dating like a bunch of teenagers.
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
Slut! 🙂
@Ganon
I'm staying strong... with the help of my hands lol
about 2 days left.....!
@UnicornSag
No the CAP isn't safe.... she's coming over to the dark side... she's been blowing my phone up this week. YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE CAP! She has to wait til train comes back to the station *snapping fingers in circle*
I don't want to risk her messing my mind up for my Arab Virgo weekend extravaganza! No way Virgo and I can be serious. we are friends and live 7 hours apart!
😆 😆 😆 The Cap is certainly getting to you, look at all those Caps.
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yes but we'll have to wait and see if The Cap waits for the train to come back to the station
@Mariah !
Yes You get me. I'm so Happy. I hate being judged negatively 😢
I'm really a nice person. IRL people rarely dislike me.
BTW, I had a nice interaction with a Dutch girl for a few months. She was from Drachten. Gemini... freaky freaky girl. I need to get over to Amsterdam before I fall in love with someone lol
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
Slut! 🙂
@Ganon
I'm staying strong... with the help of my hands lol
about 2 days left.....!
@UnicornSag
No the CAP isn't safe.... she's coming over to the dark side... she's been blowing my phone up this week. YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE CAP! She has to wait til train comes back to the station *snapping fingers in circle*
I don't want to risk her messing my mind up for my Arab Virgo weekend extravaganza! No way Virgo and I can be serious. we are friends and live 7 hours apart!
😆 😆 😆 The Cap is certainly getting to you, look at all those Caps.
yes but we'll have to wait and see if The Cap waits for the train to come back to the station
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A) she's too busy with work not to. She's been sending me pictures of her new Huskie she just got and how between work and him she's exhausted.
B) I entertain her over the phone, I'm not dodging her, just won't meet up for another week or so.
C) I don't have plans for my birthday, so if she wants to hang that day (it's a Thursday anyway). we can hang out.
and
D) I don't have romantic sights on anyway else, the virgo goes back to NY after the weekend, the Pisces is in TX for two weeks and we aren't even really chatting much. So she's higher on priority list.maybe if the virgo is spectacular in bed, as she's my friend, my judgement might get clouded, but right now I'll probably be back on the Cap.
and for the record
The Cap could have some FWB I don't even know about. so, all this oh the cap don't deserve this and that is all hogwash.
Posted by Mariah
Omgggg i like the way you think...Ok maybe that's my libra mars too hahahaha
But Yeah as a woman i don't understand why woman change their act between sheets (or any other place) when they get in a relationship....
It gives the impression that they just do certain stuff to hook the guy
I'm a loyal sucker and I can spend my life celibate when I'm not in a relationship..
But when I hook up...... I'm not ashamed to say... For my man...
I'm a slut HAHAHAHAHAHA
No threesomes I'm to territorial for that
But anything else..... Hey..... When it's in a relationship build on trust... Isnt that one of the most important areas? To be completely you.... Sexually. Your most sinful desires...... Exposed and accepted...
I feel like women who turn into prudes once in a relationships are hypocrites... Sorry my opinion
Oh honey... If she neglects the balls.... Then is it really love?? LOL
😂😂😂💪
I back you on this 😂😂 I blame it on my venus
Posted by hellosaggy
I don't have any threads saying it doesn't go well.I have threads saying CAP is moving like molasses... I honestly think me stepping back has improved her communication as she's been reaching out a lot since she pissed me off last Wednesday AND Saturday. Before I was texting her everyday, seeing her a few times a week. she's been texting me all day the last couple days asking to go out.
I'll get back with her after my Virgo friend comes in town this weekend. Pisces is going home for holidays on Dec 16, and my Sag fb I realize isn't a good idea, she's wanting to hook up more frequently and that's a warming sign of feelings. So since I have the other three I am talking to so, I will hold off on sex with her until at least after Virgo comes here Friday, but will probably stop all together.
So I haven't had sex in 4 days... no wait I'm lying.... since Sunday with the Puerto Rican Libra... BUT I don't plan on having sex until Friday.... so it will be 4 days without. as long as self sex doesn't count....
Slut! 🙂
@Ganon
I'm staying strong... with the help of my hands lol
about 2 days left.....!
@UnicornSag
No the CAP isn't safe.... she's coming over to the dark side... she's been blowing my phone up this week. YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE CAP! She has to wait til train comes back to the station *snapping fingers in circle*
I don't want to risk her messing my mind up for my Arab Virgo weekend extravaganza! No way Virgo and I can be serious. we are friends and live 7 hours apart!
😆 😆 😆 The Cap is certainly getting to you, look at all those Caps.
yes but we'll have to wait and see if The Cap waits for the train to come back to the station
A) she's too busy with work not to. She's been sending me pictures of her new Huskie she just got and how between work and him she's exhausted.
B) I entertain her over the phone, I'm not dodging her, just won't meet up for another week or so.
C) I don't have plans for my birthday, so if she wants to hang that day (it's a Thursday anyway). we can hang out.
and
D) I don't have romantic sights on anyway else, the virgo goes back to NY after the weekend, the Pisces is in TX for two weeks and we aren't even really chatting much. So she's higher on priority list.maybe if the virgo is spectacular in bed, as she's my friend, my judgement might get clouded, but right now I'll probably be back on the Cap.
and for the record
The Cap could have some FWB I don't even know about. so, all this oh the cap don't deserve this and that is all hogwash.
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lol - now you know that's not true and that's one of the reasons she interests you
DAMN IT LOL
It's still a possibility.
of course it is - I'm not saying it isn't
I feel your feels - the ones in your head - on your shoulders
lol
@RooSagicorn
it takes amazing sex for me to calm down and refocus.... that's why Virgo's unexpected arrival this weekend I think is a sign for me to take a step back and gather focus. I'm going to punish this virgo for two days and get all the cobwebs out and its going to be like hitting the reset button
Then I'll be nice and court the boring Cap... I was being responsible and appropriate the night we made out and then after she proceeded to do more shots later on tried to have sex with me and I stopped her.... maybe that's why she's acting like that, but I don't take advantage of people. Saggy doesn't give the D intoxicated.
I Don't Dick under the influence (DUI) 😆 at least on the first time.
Posted by hellosaggy
@RooSagicornit takes amazing sex for me to calm down and refocus.... that's why Virgo's unexpected arrival this weekend I think is a sign for me to take a step back and gather focus. I'm going to punish this virgo for two days and get all the cobwebs out and its going to be like hitting the reset button
Then I'll be nice and court the boring Cap... I was being responsible and appropriate the night we made out and then after she proceeded to do more shots later on tried to have sex with me and I stopped her.... maybe that's why she's acting like that, but I don't take advantage of people. Saggy doesn't give the D intoxicated.
I Don't Dick under the influence (DUI) 😆 at least on the first time.
lol
Posted by hellosaggy
@RooSagicornit takes amazing sex for me to calm down and refocus.... that's why Virgo's unexpected arrival this weekend I think is a sign for me to take a step back and gather focus. I'm going to punish this virgo for two days and get all the cobwebs out and its going to be like hitting the reset button
Then I'll be nice and court the boring Cap... I was being responsible and appropriate the night we made out and then after she proceeded to do more shots later on tried to have sex with me and I stopped her.... maybe that's why she's acting like that, but I don't take advantage of people. Saggy doesn't give the D intoxicated.
I Don't Dick under the influence (DUI) 😆 at least on the first time.
never occurred to you she feels humiliated after that? and that she needed drinks to gather strength and if it goes wrong to have reason to blame it on?
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It occurred to me, which is why I press the issue of wanting her, and enjoying the night we spent. If she had stopped drinking when we made out I would have sexed her up. She's like 115 lbs and was doing shots like a 200 lb man. then she was begging for me to buy her hot dogs from the 7 dollar street vendors lol. that girl can eat by the way.
She was f'd up.... I wouldn't want the first time I have sex for it to be under those circumstances with someone, so It was up to me to set the boundaries.
Posted by hellosaggy
@RooSagicornit takes amazing sex for me to calm down and refocus.... that's why Virgo's unexpected arrival this weekend I think is a sign for me to take a step back and gather focus. I'm going to punish this virgo for two days and get all the cobwebs out and its going to be like hitting the reset button
Then I'll be nice and court the boring Cap... I was being responsible and appropriate the night we made out and then after she proceeded to do more shots later on tried to have sex with me and I stopped her.... maybe that's why she's acting like that, but I don't take advantage of people. Saggy doesn't give the D intoxicated.
I Don't Dick under the influence (DUI) 😆 at least on the first time.
Lol. Well that’s was a smart move 🙂
Some people are not comfortable enough to have amazing sex the first or second time but that does NOT mean it won’t be amazing sex later. It’s about getting comfortable. So that’s about her, what you’re saying is about you. To get her, you will have to care about her as well as yourself. I get you get all excited & all.. but hey it’s obvious you both like each other. It’s just not going to be all about you. Slow down turbo & give it a chance! After the Virgo 😜
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yes it sure sounds like he's going to cool his jets first lol
Oh. Virgo is locked in. She's been sexting the shit out of me the last week. I'm borderline arrogant but she's been absolutely raunchy and just plain nasty. filthy... its such a turn on you'd think I've been popping viagra 24x7. I want her so much, I hate her ass right now lol.
@RooSagicorn
no! see if CAP some act right, I wouldn't be banging Virgo this weekend. or the Libra last Sunday, or my sag fbs.... this is technically her fault!
I am listening! I'll "court" her again after I get a couple shots off with Virgo
@Mariah I love it all. That's how you know a woman is into you... I don't really think anything but being pooped on (on purpose) is off the table.... I really don't get repulsed by much.
Posted by hellosaggy
@hazeofpixiedustso I should do synastry on every girl before I bone her? I'm not that huge into astrology. I do have Time Passage Pro for Ios that gives you sexual chemistry.
I would say the girls I did check out synastry wise I've had the best sex with, was high or very high.
The Cap is very high like a 9.... that's why I'm curious about her. I'm just not feeling the energy I need from her though.
All the ones I am dealing with now are 6+ on a scale of 1 - 10
My scorpio ex was an 8
my sag ex was a 7
the Arab Virgo coming to see me this weekend is a scorpio mars though...
Just been doing a ton of research and found out about the Mars in Scorpio thing - supposedly the most sexually intense in the zodiac, above all others.. Thought I would share the knowledge! HAHA I don't care what you do with the info. Caps generally tend to be freaks in the sheets too although you would never know it by looking at us. If you're looking for extremely good sex it might be good knowledge to have! That Cappy you're after though, I'm going to assume wants a solid relationship AND the amazing sex. — Just sharing what I've learned.
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Do any guys here get reluctant when freaking your real girl. not like a side piece or anything.
I for one find it easier to explore sex with flings than with a girl I'm dating. I mean like exploring. Like once I lock in with a girl she likes this, this, and this.... I guess it's my Libra mars that just says that the menu. I tend to follow the lead... so when I finally learn your menu.... you changing it throws me off.
One ex I had was down for threesomes... then we started dating and she took it off the table... that hurt my feelings.
and what's with some women not paying attention to the balls when giving oral.... smh.. just a side thought. and its ok to make a mess. who gives spiffy head.
oh..... and just because YOU find something disgusting... doesn't make it disgusting. don't slut shame other women that like freaky activities.... what exactly is a freaky activity anyway?
if she likes it on the face sometimes.... so what?!?