men Silence after sex

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Friday, May 24, 2019 and has 87 replies.

Understanding Men's Silence After Sex

Men may become silent after sex due to emotional disconnection, feeling overwhelmed, or processing their feelings. Some men distance themselves as a way to cope with intimacy or avoid vulnerability. It's important to communicate openly to understand individual motives and emotional needs that influence post-sex behavior.

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@Gemitati
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This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

The sex isn't that good?

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Naaaah...it’s not me but it’s good. Very.

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

The sex isn't that good?

Naaaah...it’s not me but it’s good. Very.

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Yes it could be because it’s scary and he needs to detach, Gem

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

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Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

click to expand

Noooo!

When you don’t get rid of it - it’s messing with your head!

And man capable of surviving an orgasm...common!

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Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

click to expand

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Is Aries doing this?

Nooooo!

It’s about friends Cap. I would be SO mad. I would probably scream and kick his ass. Though now I am thinking...Scorpio did it. He claimed it’s a trip to another dimension and he can’t concentrate after for days. I thought (until now) he was bullshitting me...🤷‍♀️

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

click to expand

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

click to expand

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

click to expand

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

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@bricklemark
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Noooo!

When you don’t get rid of it - it’s messing with your head!

And man capable of surviving an orgasm...common!

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Messing with your head? How? And how do you know this?

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Posted by bricklemark

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

click to expand

Do you think unconsciously the sadness thing could be due to "wasted" seed as in it's the main function to procreate

I really enjoyed your input on this subject in the past and it helped me understand more about men..

Aren't you an Aries with water moon?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Noooo!

When you don’t get rid of it - it’s messing with your head!

And man capable of surviving an orgasm...common!

Messing with your head? How? And how do you know this?

click to expand

Because balls that are ready to explode - I can imagine...not such a pleasant experience and messing man’s thoughts...wanting release.

When release denied - man becomes angry. That’s why it’s called sexual frustration. Which is lack of sex. Same for women.

But I am talking about sexual people vs those who are frigid. Right?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

Do you think unconsciously the sadness thing could be due to "wasted" seed as in it's the main function to procreate

I really enjoyed your input on this subject in the past and it helped me understand more about men..

Aren't you an Aries with water moon?

click to expand

My Aries is an Aqua and he isn’t like that! He is dealing with everything with diff sorts of humor. I can’t imagine him being detached after sex. I would laugh at him and he would laugh as well...

I think it’s some mental shit...

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Noooo!

When you don’t get rid of it - it’s messing with your head!

And man capable of surviving an orgasm...common!

Messing with your head? How? And how do you know this?

Because balls that are ready to explode - I can imagine...not such a pleasant experience and messing man’s thoughts...wanting release.

When release denied - man becomes angry. That’s why it’s called sexual frustration. Which is lack of sex. Same for women.

But I am talking about sexual people vs those who are frigid. Right?

click to expand

You get used to it.

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

click to expand

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

Do you think unconsciously the sadness thing could be due to "wasted" seed as in it's the main function to procreate

I really enjoyed your input on this subject in the past and it helped me understand more about men..

Aren't you an Aries with water moon?

My Aries is an Aqua and he isn’t like that! He is dealing with everything with diff sorts of humor. I can’t imagine him being detached after sex. I would laugh at him and he would laugh as well...

I think it’s some mental shit...

click to expand

Aaahh Aqua moon...yes I was with one for years, but the guy I mention is Scorpio dom with Moon in Scorp so big difference emotionally...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

click to expand

Exactly! That’s why I am telling my friend that it would be a shitty realization that he uses you as a ball emptier. How fucked up this man must be to treat a woman like that?

Poor baby! Wasted seed...lmao

Like there isn’t going to be no more.

👀

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Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

Do you think unconsciously the sadness thing could be due to "wasted" seed as in it's the main function to procreate

I really enjoyed your input on this subject in the past and it helped me understand more about men..

Aren't you an Aries with water moon?

My Aries is an Aqua and he isn’t like that! He is dealing with everything with diff sorts of humor. I can’t imagine him being detached after sex. I would laugh at him and he would laugh as well...

I think it’s some mental shit...

Aaahh Aqua moon...yes I was with one for years, but the guy I mention is Scorpio dom with Moon in Scorp so big difference emotionally...

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I say all the men with state of mind like that are the same way fucked up! Lol

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

click to expand

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by bricklemark

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm

@Bricklemark knows about this

Are you kidding? 🤦‍♀️

About what?

About recovering after orgasm...

Lmao

Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...

Dont some of the eastern countries believe that ejaculation is only healthy in certain seasons?

Can you remember when we discussed the coming and depression thing?

No. When? Where is that? Wow! Really? Crazy! 🤦‍♀️

The guy I spoke to about it said the Winter months if I remember rightly, that it's not healthy to release then? You can research it and see, maybe Chinese philiopsphy?

You know, men aren't all as straightforward as we think they are and sometimes have to compartmentalise things to cope with life. I was with one guy who had to close down after sex with me as he said if he didn't he'd not be able to get things done....he was deeply stirred by it, so to some degree had to separate from me for a while ... so I kind of get it. With some men it's unconscious so they can't articulate it and then the woman goes apeshit on him haha...

Mancave is for a reason....

I dont know about seasons, l just try to hold on as much as possible. We're in a terrible predicament...all men shozld join nofap.

Do you think unconsciously the sadness thing could be due to "wasted" seed as in it's the main function to procreate

I really enjoyed your input on this subject in the past and it helped me understand more about men..

Aren't you an Aries with water moon?

My Aries is an Aqua and he isn’t like that! He is dealing with everything with diff sorts of humor. I can’t imagine him being detached after sex. I would laugh at him and he would laugh as well...

I think it’s some mental shit...

Aaahh Aqua moon...yes I was with one for years, but the guy I mention is Scorpio dom with Moon in Scorp so big difference emotionally...

I say all the men with state of mind like that are the same way fucked up! Lol

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Aaahh I hope not! I'd much rather them be a bit deeper than shallow any day

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Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

click to expand

That’s what I think and it’s unfair to the woman. I think women incline more to believe he comes back because he has feelings for her.

Is this possible that he does?

I was pissed at Scorpio for this shit but I knew he loves me because he waited for fucking 5 years and sometimes he would faught himself and tried to stay away for months...

So my thrain if rhought was that he doesn’t use me for sex. We talk. Communicate but no sex. So...it must benlove. 🤦‍♀️

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@RamOfPeace
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

That’s what I think and it’s unfair to the woman. I think women incline more to believe he comes back because he has feelings for her.

Is this possible that he does?

I was pissed at Scorpio for this shit but I knew he loves me because he waited for fucking 5 years and sometimes he would faught himself and tried to stay away for months...

So my thrain if rhought was that he doesn’t use me for sex. We talk. Communicate but no sex. So...it must benlove. 🤦‍♀️

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You cannot

Walk in and out of me

Like a revolving door

I have too many miracles

Happening inside me

To be your convenient option

- not your hobby

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

That’s what I think and it’s unfair to the woman. I think women incline more to believe he comes back because he has feelings for her.

Is this possible that he does?

I was pissed at Scorpio for this shit but I knew he loves me because he waited for fucking 5 years and sometimes he would faught himself and tried to stay away for months...

So my thrain if rhought was that he doesn’t use me for sex. We talk. Communicate but no sex. So...it must benlove. 🤦‍♀️

You cannot

Walk in and out of me

Like a revolving door

I have too many miracles

Happening inside me

To be your convenient option

- not your hobby

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M

👍🤝🙋🏼‍♀️

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

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How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

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Lol

I've no idea.....😬

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Sometimes there's reason why, one would be if they live in another town miles away, another would be if you are both working. Another would be if you don't want to outstay your welcome.

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None applied.

Same town. Yes they working so what? Text or call would be mission impossible? And it’s dates. Nobody outstaying anybodys welcome...

Now what?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

Lol

I've no idea.....😬

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Imagine frantic phone call: mom! I just fucked my wife and I need to mourn my wasted seeds...is my room still available? Lmao

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

Lol

I've no idea.....😬

Imagine frantic phone call: mom! I just fucked my wife and I need to mourn my wasted seeds...is my room still available? Lmao

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😆 😆 😆

Love your humour lol

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

That post-coitus moment when you realize you just banged a gemini and how low you'll go just cuz you're horny, yeah I hate that feel

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

Lol

I've no idea.....😬

Imagine frantic phone call: mom! I just fucked my wife and I need to mourn my wasted seeds...is my room still available? Lmao

😆 😆 😆

Love your humour lol

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Thanks! Do you see how fucked up it is?

Where I am going with that is I want to find out IF there is a remote possibility that man does love the woman and he is doing this shit for some legit reason?

I’ve heard a lot ‘he has been hurt’ before so he is afraid to get hurt.

I’ll say...take fucking ibuprofen! 🤦‍♀️💅🏻

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by RamOfPeace

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Sometimes there's reason why, one would be if they live in another town miles away, another would be if you are both working. Another would be if you don't want to outstay your welcome.

None applied.

Same town. Yes they working so what? Text or call would be mission impossible? And it’s dates. Nobody outstaying anybodys welcome...

Now what?

I compared it to my experiences. For some reason most girls I've met recently are often in the next town or miles away. Personally, I get a bit self-conscious if the girl is checking her phone or whatever I usually make my excuse to leave as it's not only bad manners, but a bit selfish.

I agree a text isn't much to ask or even a phone call.

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Thanks bro! Lol

Arieses rule! 💋

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Yes there are shallow men like that....I've never encountered them thank God, but there are men that connect deeply sexually and feel they need space afterwards....because it stirs them..

How is it bad to be stired?

What if they are married?

Are they going to sleep at hotels or parents house after every fuck?

That’s...I can’t find the word...help! 😂

Lol

I've no idea.....😬

Imagine frantic phone call: mom! I just fucked my wife and I need to mourn my wasted seeds...is my room still available? Lmao

😆 😆 😆

Love your humour lol

Thanks! Do you see how fucked up it is?

Where I am going with that is I want to find out IF there is a remote possibility that man does love the woman and he is doing this shit for some legit reason?

I’ve heard a lot ‘he has been hurt’ before so he is afraid to get hurt.

I’ll say...take fucking ibuprofen! 🤦‍♀️💅🏻

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Haha, yes it is .... you may as well look into a 🔮 than try and get answers

Conundrum🌝

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by Gemitati

This is the latest I am trying to find out about.

Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.

Then men come back and ghost again after sex...

Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...

Happens too often specially to members here.

What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...

Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.

A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.

click to expand

Yes, it's the women's fault

Lol

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by starlord

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this

Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.

I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?

I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.

Sometimes there's reason why, one would be if they live in another town miles away, another would be if you are both working. Another would be if you don't want to outstay your welcome.

None applied.

Same town. Yes they working so what? Text or call would be mission impossible? And it’s dates. Nobody outstaying anybodys welcome...

Now what?

I compared it to my experiences. For some reason most girls I've met recently are often in the next town or miles away. Personally, I get a bit self-conscious if the girl is checking her phone or whatever I usually make my excuse to leave as it's not only bad manners, but a bit selfish.

I agree a text isn't much to ask or even a phone call.

Thanks bro! Lol

Arieses rule! 💋

Aries and Gem is a classic combination. For me if they have a "dark moon" like Scorp or Capricorn it makes them supremely desirable.

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He is Aqua. I am Leo. Still is fun all the way. 👌

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