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Posted by GemitatiPosted by starlordPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this
Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.
I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?
I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.
Exactly! That’s why I am telling my friend that it would be a shitty realization that he uses you as a ball emptier. How fucked up this man must be to treat a woman like that?
Poor baby! Wasted seed...lmao
Like there isn’t going to be no more.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by starlordPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
Some men feel depressed after orgasm .. as I said Bricklrmark has knowledge of this
Actually some truth in this. Real life is boring by comparison I need distractions when I come back to earth after amazing sex, I need to keep busy.
I think she as asking though, why not keep busy with the person who gave you the great sex?
I think some men have the sende that the woman they chased after loses value after he sleeps with him, so he keeps away. But then feel horny again later and hit her up.
Sometimes there's reason why, one would be if they live in another town miles away, another would be if you are both working. Another would be if you don't want to outstay your welcome.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.
Depends for how long and whether they come back
All the women I've known who were jerked around by dudes for years followed a pattern like this. They showed up for sex, then bailed, then came back with apologies and bullshit, fucked again, and left again.click to expand

Posted by RooSagicorn
Or god forbid you made them feel something... 🤦♀️ Too much. Then they run like a little girl.


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.
Depends for how long and whether they come back
All the women I've known who were jerked around by dudes for years followed a pattern like this. They showed up for sex, then bailed, then came back with apologies and bullshit, fucked again, and left again.
Oh, I'm talking about something different ..... men that need space after sex to get their head together...
They're not all the same....
I have never encountered one of those. Thank god.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.
Depends for how long and whether they come back
All the women I've known who were jerked around by dudes for years followed a pattern like this. They showed up for sex, then bailed, then came back with apologies and bullshit, fucked again, and left again.
Oh, I'm talking about something different ..... men that need space after sex to get their head together...
They're not all the same....
I have never encountered one of those. Thank god.
....and I've never encountered the other type...the Tinder mentality...throw away sex
Thank God
😊
Neither have I. I've had six sexual partners in my life. They all wanted more, and more, and more.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.
Depends for how long and whether they come back
All the women I've known who were jerked around by dudes for years followed a pattern like this. They showed up for sex, then bailed, then came back with apologies and bullshit, fucked again, and left again.
Oh, I'm talking about something different ..... men that need space after sex to get their head together...
They're not all the same....
I have never encountered one of those. Thank god.
....and I've never encountered the other type...the Tinder mentality...throw away sex
Thank God
😊
Neither have I. I've had six sexual partners in my life. They all wanted more, and more, and more.
My experience too, loyal, faithful, sexually keen but I've still seen how momentarily they can detach or like Roo said get scared, that doesn't mean they always run away.....it's just something I've sensed...
It can be quite subtle rather than overt
Most of them had water moons
So....🌝
I find the "I'm scared of feelings" thing is almost always a manipulative tactic to get what people want. I don't buy it.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol
It took an interesting turn in this thread, but I call bullshit. They go silent after sex, usually, because that's all they wanted.
Depends for how long and whether they come back
All the women I've known who were jerked around by dudes for years followed a pattern like this. They showed up for sex, then bailed, then came back with apologies and bullshit, fucked again, and left again.
Oh, I'm talking about something different ..... men that need space after sex to get their head together...
They're not all the same....
I have never encountered one of those. Thank god.
....and I've never encountered the other type...the Tinder mentality...throw away sex
Thank God
😊
Neither have I. I've had six sexual partners in my life. They all wanted more, and more, and more.
My experience too, loyal, faithful, sexually keen but I've still seen how momentarily they can detach or like Roo said get scared, that doesn't mean they always run away.....it's just something I've sensed...
It can be quite subtle rather than overt
Most of them had water moons
So....🌝
I find the "I'm scared of feelings" thing is almost always a manipulative tactic to get what people want. I don't buy it.
I do
Some people are terrified to bring up any kind of feelings....men that have been cheated on, abused etc....why would they want to revisit those feelings
I was with an Aqua guy who was terrified of falling in love because he'd lose control....
Is this not the very opposite of how you normally advise young women?
It's not an excuse for ghosting someone after sex. And it's not a normal way to deal with sex.click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicorn
Or god forbid you made them feel something... 🤦♀️ Too much. Then they run like a little girl.
Exactly.....
I don’t know what the answer is.. this is multiple experiences not just the Cap. Makes you want to be a cat lady or a monk 😂😂click to expand

Posted by La_Mariposa
It doesn’t take much common sense to answer this question lol

Posted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicorn
Or god forbid you made them feel something... 🤦♀️ Too much. Then they run like a little girl.
Exactly.....
I don’t know what the answer is.. this is multiple experiences not just the Cap. Makes you want to be a cat lady or a monk 😂😂
Or just have a fun life without being drained and with complications 👍💃🏼
Is this the Cap guy from way back Roo.....who you with now...anyone?
Yeah we got back together & he scared himself again. We are supposedly taking it slow but I suppose he’s recovering this week lol 🤦♀️ It’s not just him I always have this happen cuz I like it deep 🤷♀️ I dumped the Libra cuz he was too distant lol and just about sex umm I thought it was rude.
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Posted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicornPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RooSagicorn
Or god forbid you made them feel something... 🤦♀️ Too much. Then they run like a little girl.
Exactly.....
I don’t know what the answer is.. this is multiple experiences not just the Cap. Makes you want to be a cat lady or a monk 😂😂
Or just have a fun life without being drained and with complications 👍💃🏼
Is this the Cap guy from way back Roo.....who you with now...anyone?
Yeah we got back together & he scared himself again. We are supposedly taking it slow but I suppose he’s recovering this week lol 🤦♀️ It’s not just him I always have this happen cuz I like it deep 🤷♀️ I dumped the Libra cuz he was too distant lol and just about sex umm I thought it was rude.
Brave woman and you have lots more patience than me 😬. Good luck with him.....how long does he disappear for?
Libra sounds too predictable and disrespectful🙄
Libra didn’t start out that way, but went a little sideways on the sex & it just felt like sex so ugh no. So yeah ended up that way.
I’m not patient! Lol he disappears for months if I react to it. He hasn’t completely disappeared yet but very quiet, not much effort after deeply staring at me.. ugh. After lots of effort previously. So I’m trying not to react. I’m not sure what to do actually, all I know is we have both grown in the back & forth and we feel very deeply for each other. But if he can’t get through this, there is no future. So 🤦♀️🤔🤷♀️click to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by leooox
It could be alot of things and it depends on the guy. Some guys are emotional and scared of feelings (cancer men in my exp) and some guys who have another girl in mind. And some men who used you for sex even though this may be a tough pill to swallow.
cancer men are scared of feelings?
JUST LOLclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Gemitati
This is the latest I am trying to find out about.
Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.
Then men come back and ghost again after sex...
Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...
Happens too often specially to members here.
What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...
Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.
A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.
Yes, it's the women's fault
Lolclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Gemitati
This is the latest I am trying to find out about.
Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.
Then men come back and ghost again after sex...
Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...
Happens too often specially to members here.
What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...
Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.
A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.
what's the problem with this
i promise to be as boring as i possibly can
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Gemitati
This is the latest I am trying to find out about.
Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.
Then men come back and ghost again after sex...
Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...
Happens too often specially to members here.
What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...
Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.
A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.
Yes, it's the women's fault
Lolclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapyclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapyclick to expand

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by leoooxPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Gemitati
This is the latest I am trying to find out about.
Why is this happening to some women that men seems into them so much but after sex they dissapear.
Then men come back and ghost again after sex...
Seems like men drawn to the women but dont stay...
Happens too often specially to members here.
What do men think? Why to come back, beg for togetherness and ghost? Repeatedly...
Because men aren’t interested in females beyond sex, if a said female isn’t engaging as a person. If you come to a first date, unsucked, unfucked, with wet panties after like 15 min of conversation, and your eyes reflect dick patterns instead of anything interesting for him to get intrigued with.
A dude either gtfos right away, or fucks you (because he can) and THEN gtfos, because he sees no substance beyond just being a useful lay.
Yes, it's the women's fault
Lol
The woman should be more self-respecting then to jump into a bed with a man she barely knows. But the male is an absolute turd for doing something like that
but how about respecting the wishes of her vaginaclick to expand


Posted by HearttofTopazz
Maybe he traveled through the Bermuda Triangle?
Maybe he was murdered?
Maybe the man never existed in the first place?

Posted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapy
The goal is to make a baby i.e. your replacement, so it's technically killing you and creating a new life.
You lost me when you tried to get deep
but i like the death of a man in my poosy
so keep onclick to expand

Posted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapy
The goal is to make a baby i.e. your replacement, so it's technically killing you and creating a new life.
You lost me when you tried to get deep
but i like the death of a man in my poosy
so keep on
Haha. Yeah ideally the guy ejacs about once a week, or every 2weeks, so he keeps his youth and vitality. The taoists believe this (actually know from experience). But sex can be had as many times as one wants, or can, just no finish 🙂click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapy
The goal is to make a baby i.e. your replacement, so it's technically killing you and creating a new life.
You lost me when you tried to get deep
but i like the death of a man in my poosy
so keep on
Haha. Yeah ideally the guy ejacs about once a week, or every 2weeks, so he keeps his youth and vitality. The taoists believe this (actually know from experience). But sex can be had as many times as one wants, or can, just no finish 🙂
That’s the most retarded thing I’ve heard yet and my bf said make sure you’ll find a woman for rs as retarded.click to expand


Posted by bricklemark
You realise...and l know you realise, and know, that most women, if not all women, get off on clitoral stimulation. Ive seen tons of articles on this...penetration is not the be all end all for women... It's all about clitoral stimulation. Now, men just want penetration, and they're generally out of control ; if men could control themselves, there would be a balance. And taoists understood this.
If theres a slowing down, and a focus on mutual pleasure, then balance is acheived and both parties are equally satisfied.

Posted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Black-MambaPosted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
They need time to recover.....orgasm is a big deal to therm
@Bricklemark knows about this
Are you kidding? 🤦♀️
About what?
About recovering after orgasm...
Lmao
Yes it's true, l'm on nofap and l'm starting to think ejaculation is not natural, or shouldnt happen often at all. It totally drains us. Of everything, mental, emotional, spiritual...
sounds like therapy
The goal is to make a baby i.e. your replacement, so it's technically killing you and creating a new life.
You lost me when you tried to get deep
but i like the death of a man in my poosy
so keep on
Haha. Yeah ideally the guy ejacs about once a week, or every 2weeks, so he keeps his youth and vitality. The taoists believe this (actually know from experience). But sex can be had as many times as one wants, or can, just no finish 🙂
That’s the most retarded thing I’ve heard yet and my bf said make sure you’ll find a woman for rs as retarded.
For rs as retarded? What does that mean? And why is it retarded ?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemark
You realise...and l know you realise, and know, that most women, if not all women, get off on clitoral stimulation. Ive seen tons of articles on this...penetration is not the be all end all for women... It's all about clitoral stimulation. Now, men just want penetration, and they're generally out of control ; if men could control themselves, there would be a balance. And taoists understood this.
If theres a slowing down, and a focus on mutual pleasure, then balance is acheived and both parties are equally satisfied.
If men would control themselves how? What balance? Who is satisfied without an climax?
Women get OFF on clitoral stimulation. Not just doing it for the child play...
And who ta fuck rapists are and who cares about if they agree of not?
What are you talking about? 🤦♀️click to expand



Posted by bricklemarkPosted by Gemitati
HAVE you had sex?
Yes. Thousands of times. Next question ?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Gemitati
HAVE you had sex?
Yes. Thousands of times. Next question ?
I am sure you are exaderating bit it’s ok. If you fuck and don’t cum I think you may as well don’t fuck.
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Posted by bricklemarkPosted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Gemitati
HAVE you had sex?
Yes. Thousands of times. Next question ?
I am sure you are exaderating bit it’s ok. If you fuck and don’t cum I think you may as well don’t fuck.
No, lm not exagerrating much, and yes, if men have sex without ejaculating we still have pleasure 🙂 the problem these days is women complian that men make promises and then leave as soon as they ejac, and women are frustrated and emotionally hurt.
The solution seems to be men become part of nofap.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by bricklemarkPosted by Gemitati
HAVE you had sex?
Yes. Thousands of times. Next question ?
I am sure you are exaderating bit it’s ok. If you fuck and don’t cum I think you may as well don’t fuck.
click to expand
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