Messing with an ex... why? (Page 2)

Posted by LibraSid
I doubt they'd like the pic if they thought it was coming from this cute girl they'd been hitting on the night before...

it comes with a message "I'd like to see you again too, you got me excited" hahaha

LOL! That right there!!! I'll give you 10 bucks if you do it! 😛

P, you seem stuck on my feelings, what I want from her, or me not being over her. This thread was intended to understand why people mess with an ex like this but since you seem more interested in why it matters to me (and since I like talking 😛)??_ I??ll tell you.

I??ll go deep here once and then I??ll let this rest. This isn't just someone I dated for a little bit. This was my wife! The mother of my children, the one I planned to grow old and die with, my best friend, the girl I went to homecoming with, the girl I lost my virginity to... This was my first love.

Only a couple people on here know what happened at the end of this relationship and I'm not going to air things out publicly. What I will say is that I loved her very much and you can't just stop something like that. You are right that I do still have feelings for her. I'm sure part of me always will. This does not mean I still want to be with her. It speaks to the past not the future. She WAS very important to me, not anymore.

I have said a few times in this thread that —I don't care?? and with help (ty Bri) was able to clarify this to express the one thing I would like from her??_ for her to leave me alone. We have kids together so there will always be some form of contact, graduations, the kids weddings, grandbabies, (hopefully in that order as well lol) etc. Since I can't —never see her again?? I want peace. Not friendship, definitely not a relationship??_ common courtesy is enough.

I am very comfortable with how I feel. I am in control of myself and while the jokes about retaliation are funny, they are just jokes. Once again, I don't care what she plans to do in this new life of hers I was just asking why she was fucking with me.

*deep breath* ................and.......hold it......hold it........ *long sigh*

Posted by brianafay

That is just about the cutest picture I've ever seen in my life. Is it wrong that it cheers me up?

Don't hold your breath too long you might pass out. And that picture is really funny/cute.

Posted by ianthepisces
should have given the guy her number..

damn. No one else even thought of that. What a simple solution lol

Nice commentary Ian, good looking salmon too.

I bet that fish gives phenominal bjs

Or is that a trout with a funky mouth? ANYHOOTERS..

LMAO Ahhh Bri, good call. I took the tact of looking surprised and indignant at being caught.

Wow what's wring with me? Lol

Idk what's worse, thinking about fish bjs or butchering the word phenomenal like that

*shakes head*

LOL Typos suck. Now, about this disgruntled lake being who looks goosed... I was thinking dredging it in seasoned cornmeal and pan frying it. Not that I'd eat it, but someone else could.

I never asked you how you feel about her, I never asked you about any of your personal information regarding your personal life, I never inquired about any of that, Lib.

I guess you think you accomplished something in setting me straight by posting on here how deep you feel for her .... when I never even alluded to wanting to know your personal information.

You wanted to know why she would mess with you and I'm giving you my points, the only reason I continue to say them is because you show no sign of actually 'getting' what I'm saying .. obviously, since you think the answer I am looking for was for you to post in here your personal shit.

Your jokers in here have said some horrible things about the mother of your children, and laughed at her expense .... eventhough the only thing they know about any of this, is what you've told them. You've no clue that I'm trying to tell you something, NOT ask you something, and instead of even trying to get it, you make a joke to insinuate I can't get past you.

Looks like a lot of people in here also think that she can't past you ... a theme.

Mr. Nice told you the same thing I am saying .. did you hear him?

You could easily resolve this issue, or any issue you have ... instead, you decide not to address it, which means your ignorance of it encourages the game to continue. That slipped right over people's head, because, well if they got it, then they wouldn't have her to laugh at, now would they?

I guess I take it back when I said she won ... because the game continues. It could end though, if you wanted it to, you could have actually done something, but, where's the fun in that? Because you stopped it, then she might stop, and heaven forbide.

Because you stopped it, then she might stop, and heaven forbide.

*IF

Because *if* you stopped it, then she might stop, and heaven forbide.

Posted by Mr Nice
Listen, the best thing to do is not be bothered carry on living your life, see your kids be a good dad otherwise when they grow up she could turn them against you, f..k the drama be cool if not for yourself then your kids. Number one rule dont read into anything game or no game. Just be nice to your ex no matter what, even if she up sets you at times. Peace!

Did you even hear that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Or, are you too busy enjoying the horrible things people have been saying so you could relish in the drama of it.

Fact = she isn't here to speak for herself, so people in here know nothing about how she feels about the things you've done to her.

Her voice is silent .. and people laugh at her, and you allow it because you are playing the game with her .. when you could actually not play.

You've reacted to it, as I stated, and now I understand why ... because you have the power to stop it for the sake of peace, but, choose not to stop it.

Ok, I get now .... you are perpetuating all of it by being a participant. You don't have to respond to me, I get it now. I gave you the benefit of doubt, but, I was right with my first assessment of you.

out

Joking and laughter keeps one sane. Beats the alternative.

Posted by venusianbull
Joking and laughter keeps one sane. Beats the alternative.

🙂

People take themselves too seriously. They need to lighten the fuck up

Yep! 🙂

Posted by ianthepisces

Posted by brianafay
I bet that fish gives phenominal bjs

Not bad really, but the teeth did not feel to good... i prefer a fresh warm doe in heat though.. the young ones are great, nice and tight..

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Lol you're really taking it too far.

My brain's eyes are bleeding

LOLOL This brought up a whole new use for deer urine I was not aware of. 'Going hunting'..mmmhmmmm.

That sounds like a new STD in the making

LOLOL "Raw dog it". Oh my flipping Jebus. *tucking phrase away for future use*

ROFLMAO I do hope it's successful...

LOLOL Think of the children..and the corn fields.

"Chronic dick wasting desease.. look it up.."

so that's what your problem is....I get it now. 😛

It's those big brown eyes. Innit.

Very true, and those lashes. You're sunk.