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Posted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SeraphlightYea just feel broken down. I just wanted a decent guy and thought he was one. But I don't think they existPosted by Stensco21Stop that..I told you ...GET HIS LIES OUT OF YOUR HEAD.Posted by SofiaV87Posted by Stensco21Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?Posted by SofiaV87He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for monthsPosted by Stensco21Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?Posted by SofiaV87Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.Posted by Stensco21I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?Posted by SofiaV87I'm still in shockPosted by Stensco21Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!Posted by SofiaV87Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my carPosted by Stensco21That's terrible .. Where will u go?Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
29 old enough to know Better I guess
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Posted by SeraphlightThank you. I hope so tooPosted by Stensco21I will leave it there. I hope your coming year is happier. xx {:-)Posted by SeraphlightI have and thank you for your helpPosted by Stensco21Think about all of that in a few days. Just find somewhere and some people for now.Posted by SeraphlightOkay I will do all of that. My family and friends were so happy and made them believe it was all a fairy tale. So embarrassed. And the girl he's messaging we've fought about for months. He will delete all her messages and say he doesn't know what happened and I've read some real shitty things between them. Kind of kickes me in my gut and I had just moved in. Didn't have the emotional energy to fight back hard enoughPosted by Stensco21He is wrong. There are shelters.Posted by SeraphlightPosted by Stensco21Tell people. Find someone to stay with ...and get your things as soon as you can. Have someone get them for you. And if he is violent or even aggressive get the police maybe they can get your stuff. Make a report.Posted by VenusStarI was wondering what to do about that legally. I'm worried about my animals too
Get the police so you can get back your things.
I think also make your mind strong. It's not uncommon for guys to try and entice you back. He thinks ..oh she won't like sleeping in her car ..she'll come crawling back etc.
He thinks because he's isolated me I don't have anyone anymore
You have friends.
The FIRST and FOREMOST thing ..is GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HEAD.
You should not be embarrassed. Please tell people. It's the no 1 mistake women make.
Tell all your friends. Text them.
Family too. Explain..tell them the abuse too. Don't be afraid of his reputation ..he should have thought of that.
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Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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I moved three hours from home to live in the middle of nowhere. With hardly any phone service. That's why I type really fast and misspell because my phone cuts out all day. So I just literally crawled out of a black hole with some guy screaming at me for weeks

Posted by Seraphlightlol instead of calling me a troll just give her a better advise lolPosted by Stinger408scorpShe is 5'2 he is 6'3 get real ...stop trolling.Posted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SeraphlightI agreePosted by Stensco21Get someone else to get your stuff...to be honest ..perhaps you don't need it just now.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stensco21There's always lessons to be learned no matter how old we are. The same lessons will repeat until u learn & stop.. When I was 18 my ex BF would verbally abuse me & accuse me of cheating all the time. It was no fun .. He wouldn't change so I broke up with him after 2 yearsPosted by SofiaV87Posted by Stensco21Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?Posted by SofiaV87He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for monthsPosted by Stensco21Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?Posted by SofiaV87Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.Posted by Stensco21I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?Posted by SofiaV87I'm still in shockPosted by Stensco21Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!Posted by SofiaV87Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my carPosted by Stensco21That's terrible .. Where will u go?Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
29 old enough to know Better I guess
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Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SofiaV87I'm glad I saw this before I married him. You're right girlPosted by Stensco21There's always lessons to be learned no matter how old we are. The same lessons will repeat until u learn & stop.. When I was 18 my ex BF would verbally abuse me & accuse me of cheating all the time. It was no fun .. He wouldn't change so I broke up with him after 2 yearsPosted by SofiaV87Posted by Stensco21Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?Posted by SofiaV87He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for monthsPosted by Stensco21Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?Posted by SofiaV87Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.Posted by Stensco21I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?Posted by SofiaV87I'm still in shockPosted by Stensco21Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!Posted by SofiaV87Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my carPosted by Stensco21That's terrible .. Where will u go?Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
29 old enough to know Better I guess
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Posted by SeraphlightI think that too. I tried to break up w him before and he slept on my doorstep and would sit in my parking lot and watch me. And at the time I was to depressed to fight him.Posted by Stensco21He is a fucking psycho ..and he planned this shit...Posted by Stensco21
I moved three hours from home to live in the middle of nowhere. With hardly any phone service. That's why I type really fast and misspell because my phone cuts out all day. So I just literally crawled out of a black hole with some guy screaming at me for weeksclick to expand

Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SeraphlightExactly, u learn that it's not what u deserve , ever ... I stayed as long as I did cuz I had nowhere else to go & no job at the time.. I was looking while staying with him at his moms but couldn't find one, certainly not one to make the rent & bills.. My parents kicked me out.. When I was finally able to come home, I left himPosted by SofiaV87Been there ...younger than the op you have nothing to be embarrassed about...i had way more warning signs...i don't blame myself one bit...he did that shit not me...you learn but you also learn ..it's never what you deserved...Posted by Stensco21There's always lessons to be learned no matter how old we are. The same lessons will repeat until u learn & stop.. When I was 18 my ex BF would verbally abuse me & accuse me of cheating all the time. It was no fun .. He wouldn't change so I broke up with him after 2 yearsPosted by SofiaV87Posted by Stensco21Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?Posted by SofiaV87He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for monthsPosted by Stensco21Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?Posted by SofiaV87Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.Posted by Stensco21I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?Posted by SofiaV87I'm still in shockPosted by Stensco21Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!Posted by SofiaV87Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my carPosted by Stensco21That's terrible .. Where will u go?Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
29 old enough to know Better I guess
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Posted by Stensco21It's either plan or just take off and take your chances.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stinger408scorpYea I'm debating on if I should go back and plan. I can't stand looking at him though. The house and him depresses mePosted by Stensco21It's either plan or just take off and take your chances.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stinger408scorpNo he's a libra with Pisces moon Venus Scorpio and mars aqauaruis
Is he another Scorpio?

Posted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stensco21— don't be that girl tho and try the go back to him when he pleads.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
My best friend just said I could live with her. I'm fine now
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Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21— don't be that girl tho and try the go back to him when he pleads.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
My best friend just said I could live with her. I'm fine now
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Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stensco21This issue is something I wouldn't even dare think about trolling wish you luck opPosted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21— don't be that girl tho and try the go back to him when he pleads.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
My best friend just said I could live with her. I'm fine now
I'm not lol this is best thing he could have done for me thanks for your help
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Posted by TeenaLol scorpios are methodical I will never go to war without a plan.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
Sounds like something I would do
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Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat stinger408 said.. U have to really want to get away though. If u don't really want to get away from him & half ass it , it won't work.. U will be trapped again & for a long time.Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by Stinger408scorpThank you I feel a lot better. Thanks for your supportPosted by Stensco21This issue is something I wouldn't even dare think about trolling wish you luck opPosted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21— don't be that girl tho and try the go back to him when he pleads.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21The thing is you can't go to war without a plan same thing applies here. But if your safety is threatened then you should really consider moving out completely.Posted by Stinger408scorpNo I see your point and I can play dumb. But at this point I'm so filled with disgust going back would be like mental suicide. I almost want to say screw everything there and start over, but I might end up having to go back. Just not tonightPosted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
My best friend just said I could live with her. I'm fine now
I'm not lol this is best thing he could have done for me thanks for your help
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Posted by SofiaV87?Posted by Stinger408scorpWhat stinger408 said.. U have to really want to get away though. If u don't really want to get away from him & half ass it , it won't work.. U will be trapped again & for a long time.Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SofiaV87Not going back promisePosted by Stinger408scorpWhat stinger408 said.. U have to really want to get away though. If u don't really want to get away from him & half ass it , it won't work.. U will be trapped again & for a long time.Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by DivaCanLeolol yea this is to much I agree
Sounds like you should write for lifetime.

Posted by Stensco21Make a promise to yourself for yourself.. I truly wish u the best , I know it's not easyPosted by SofiaV87Not going back promisePosted by Stinger408scorpWhat stinger408 said.. U have to really want to get away though. If u don't really want to get away from him & half ass it , it won't work.. U will be trapped again & for a long time.Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by SofiaV87Posted by Stensco21Make a promise to yourself for yourself.. I truly wish u the best , I know it's not easyPosted by SofiaV87Not going back promisePosted by Stinger408scorpWhat stinger408 said.. U have to really want to get away though. If u don't really want to get away from him & half ass it , it won't work.. U will be trapped again & for a long time.Posted by Stensco21That's why you gotta have a plan get yourself together and try to get your own place or rent a room. I'm looking at every possible angle here I'm not just giving you stupid advise and I'm definitely not trolling. When I say play dumb you have to make him think he still has control but at the same time you wanna make sure you have a plan to gtfo of that relationship I know it's not easy but it's doable that's if you don't wanna be living on the streets.Posted by Stinger408scorpI have nowhere to put itPosted by Stensco21Then involve the cops and get your stuff if you don't want any more issues.Posted by Stinger408scorpMy guilt will kick in while I'm there and I'll be trapped againPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
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Posted by GemitatiHa! Coming from you that's rich.Posted by Stensco21That's sounds kind of bizarre!Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
We're you contributing to rent or anything?
And how long was 'the girl' there for him?
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Posted by GuardianAnuLike I give a rats patooty about your opinion! HahahaPosted by GemitatiHa! Coming from you that's rich.Posted by Stensco21That's sounds kind of bizarre!Posted by SofiaV87Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Is this true ?
We're you contributing to rent or anything?
And how long was 'the girl' there for him?
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Posted by Stinger408scorpExactly!! I'm not huge on ego for one thing. So anything which can get the work done works for me.Posted by TeenaLol scorpios are methodical I will never go to war without a plan.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just play dumb till you get all your stuff show him he still in control then take off when he least expect it.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.Posted by Stinger408scorpPosted by Stensco21So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.Posted by Stinger408scorpI think so too. Feel relieved actually
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
Sounds like something I would do
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Posted by SsupermanThere's always that one fucking comment.
Why you snooping in that mans phone, yo?


Posted by GuardianAnuYou can't count! You posted more than 2! times!!! Lol
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?

Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?

Posted by Stensco21Well it's good your friend has a place for you to stay. Now you just need to regroup, have a sleep and tomorrow you can start to think about what to do next.Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?click to expand

Posted by Stensco21So you are out of your mind as i suspected?Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?click to expand

Posted by GuardianAnuPosted by Stensco21Well it's good your friend has a place for you to stay. Now you just need to regroup, have a sleep and tomorrow you can start to think about what to do next.Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?
Do be prepared for shit to hit the fan on his end though. Do you have a cell phone? Is he blowing it up with texts? Keep anything and everything he has sent you as evidence of his abuse from here on out. Take care of yourself.click to expand

Posted by LibramissI'm not he's a libra sun Pisces moon
Don't let him manipulate you to going back to him. What sign is he? Stay strong.

Posted by Stensco21Posted by GuardianAnuPosted by Stensco21Well it's good your friend has a place for you to stay. Now you just need to regroup, have a sleep and tomorrow you can start to think about what to do next.Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?
Do be prepared for shit to hit the fan on his end though. Do you have a cell phone? Is he blowing it up with texts? Keep anything and everything he has sent you as evidence of his abuse from here on out. Take care of yourself.
Yes he is blowing up my phone. Saying he's going to kill him self.
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Posted by GuardianAnuOkay I'll keep all that in mind. I haven't responded since I left and just gotta get through tonight and I'll be ok. Thanks for being so sweetPosted by Stensco21Posted by GuardianAnuPosted by Stensco21Well it's good your friend has a place for you to stay. Now you just need to regroup, have a sleep and tomorrow you can start to think about what to do next.Posted by GuardianAnuI hope so too and he used to be a huge drug dealer only stopped for probation
Only 2 stupid comments in this thread. I am proud of you guys!
OP I hope you get your babies back. I have a friend who went through all kinds of abuse from an ex. Sounds like the same damn guy. Is he a drug addict?
Do be prepared for shit to hit the fan on his end though. Do you have a cell phone? Is he blowing it up with texts? Keep anything and everything he has sent you as evidence of his abuse from here on out. Take care of yourself.
Yes he is blowing up my phone. Saying he's going to kill him self.
Typical.... keep that. Do not respond. If he can find out your whereabouts, he can create problems for you and your friend, and the more records you have of him being crazy, the better your case. Especially if you have anything from the past with him, emails, anything written down, even any dates and times he has been abusive to you.
Right now, though, the best you can do is just not message him at all.
If you ever find yourself with a lawyer, they would tell you the same thing. Do not respond, and take records.click to expand
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