Ok @ saggurl88 - you asked…

…if Virgo knows about me communicating with an Aries…

Here is how it goes.

I am admiring Aries for many qualities he possessing including being an amazing father to his boy, loyal friend, standing up for himself to his crazy family (whom I KNOW…they ARE nuts)…

He is talented, kind, beautiful soul with some issues that as I thought were due to his family but then realized it is due to him being born Aries/Agua and other shit.

Now! I had been there for 4 years dealing with his child custody battle, his mentally ill ex escapades and we never had problems because he meant a lot to me and still is.

I AM honest to goodness have NO physical interest in him but I do love him as a person.

Him and his son have nobody but each other and a dog. For last 4 years since his son was 13 - I was the one who made Holidays happening and they always looked forward to it. And THIS Christmas they are going to be by themselves…😪

My heart is aching.

And there is my amazing Virgo who is having a hard time because his wife passed in December and her family lost her mother a few weeks ago and they are getting together for Christmas - his late wife’s family, his daughter and I am invited to be introduced to the family and I am not doing this! It’s been fucking 3 1/2 months!!!

He is seeing it as no big deal because we already met each other’s daughters. So that was important to him. Family he said will have to accept his decision because I will have to meet them eventually so why not NOW?

And I would probably do it but Aries texted me asking what am I doing for Christmas and I haven’t replied yet because I WOULD rather to invite him and his son and a dog and cook for them and make them feel good THAN meeting people who’s Virgo I am dating for a few weeks!

I know Virgo is NOT going to be mad but him being understanding of it not likely.

I know it is moronic if me to do that but my heart is honest and pure (this time) and I am totally saying it out loud just to see how it sounds to others…because I am confused ONLY because I wouldn’t be happy if I was Virgo. I understand…

But he is celebrating with people I don’t care about and don’t know…if it was him and me - I would have NO questions. I would celebrate with him.

I read it and it does sound moronic but maybe IF someone believing that I do NOT have any romantic interest in Aries - if I had I would BE with him.

But I am posting it anyway.

It’s not like this place can’t use some moronic thread…again…😂😂😂😂😂😪

Jesus, Gem.... Please don't do that...you can't turn down the offer to spend Christmas with your BF and his family, only to spend it with your ex... There is no excuse whatsoever. It's hurtful, disloyal and a reason for breaking up.

If you and your ex had young children together, it would be acceptable, but in this case, his son is old enough and will be fine....Maybe he and his dad will get even closer at this time of the year, without you.

You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

Are you trying to sabotage the relationship with the Virgo? This would be a good way to do it.

So the Virgo’s wife died a year ago & he wants to introduce you to her family? Ummmmmm that’s a bit much so soon. I get it. But Aries should be off the table at this point. Unless you are not wanting to go down the road the Virgo envisions. Thing is Virgo us used to being married so he’s hopping right back in because of good sex? Lol I hope it’s more than that. But slowing him down might be a good thing just not with the Aries! That’s opening pandora’s box.

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Are you trying to sabotage the relationship with the Virgo? This would be a good way to do it.



So the Virgo’s wife died a year ago & he wants to introduce you to her family? Ummmmmm that’s a bit much so soon. I get it. But Aries should be off the table at this point. Unless you are not wanting to go down the road the Virgo envisions. Thing is Virgo us used to being married so he’s hopping right back in because of good sex? Lol I hope it’s more than that. But slowing him down might be a good thing just not with the Aries! That’s opening pandora’s box.

Yes, it’s been 4 years yesterday and he is telling me how unbelievable it is to have me in his arms and feeling love and warmth again…

He is an amazing man and honestly - I don’t think I can find better. No. Better would be impossible.

I might be scared or rebellious because he is holding me and loving me but when it comes to the business he puts me to work and there is no arguments! It’s kind of sexy…toxic masculinity. 😂😂😂

Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye

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Jesus, Gem.... Please don't do that...you can't turn down the offer to spend Christmas with your BF and his family, only to spend it with your ex... There is no excuse whatsoever. It's hurtful, disloyal and a reason for breaking up.



If you and your ex had young children together, it would be acceptable, but in this case, his son is old enough and will be fine....Maybe he and his dad will get even closer at this time of the year, without you.

I am NOT going to do it. It’s a thought that I am nursing and when he asked me what I am doing I almost cried…

I think I will attribute this to the length of our relationship.

However I am not meeting Virgo’s family!

I mean his late wife’s family…

He is eager to let them know when his daughter is getting married - this is whom he is going to be with…but his daughter is far away from the wedding. So I’ll pass.

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Gemitati cut the shit. You're just a hoe. Every thread you ever made about the aries son before was about how much you hate his fat ass.

Still think that and chill your tits - it was ONE thread!!! I didn’t say I am doing it for the love of sun…you need to fuck off. You are so out of…everything!

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Posted by PuzzlePieces
Are you trying to sabotage the relationship with the Virgo? This would be a good way to do it.



So the Virgo’s wife died a year ago & he wants to introduce you to her family? Ummmmmm that’s a bit much so soon. I get it. But Aries should be off the table at this point. Unless you are not wanting to go down the road the Virgo envisions. Thing is Virgo us used to being married so he’s hopping right back in because of good sex? Lol I hope it’s more than that. But slowing him down might be a good thing just not with the Aries! That’s opening pandora’s box.

Yes, it’s been 4 years yesterday and he is telling me how unbelievable it is to have me in his arms and feeling love and warmth again…



He is an amazing man and honestly - I don’t think I can find better. No. Better would be impossible.

I might be scared or rebellious because he is holding me and loving me but when it comes to the business he puts me to work and there is no arguments! It’s kind of sexy…toxic masculinity. 😂😂😂

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Months not years lol. Well yes he is loving what’s going on between you, but who knows if it actually works out in the end. Maybe that’s what scares you idk. The speed of commitment and marriage? I know with my Virgo it was like this for 3 years & then when the time came for the actual getting married ( as I was going to graduate soon from college)he was looking at things all logically and it didn’t happen. Of course we were young.. but things come up & reveal themselves over years not months.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye

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Yes you are a liar.

But honestly at this point it would be more shocking if you were honest with him. After all, you spent over a decade lying and cheating on your marriage. And your too old and set in your ways to change.

Posted by DragonSag
You love Aries which is why you prefer to celebrate with him instead of Virgo and his family from his late wife. Although I understand your point regarding Virgo's family completely, it's a complicated situation that I would personally not go with too, but spending that time with your ex is a whole other level. Why not celebrate with some girl friends instead? Or just not go anywhere and stay at home. Again, I completely understand regarding Virgo celebration and would not go to it myself either, but going with Aries just makes no sense. I did that exactly once - when I was with Libra and it was simply cause I was not in love with him (and didn't care for his friends either), instead I went with my friends where my ex was🤷🏼‍♀️

Thanks for family part understanding.

Bit over 3 months and meeting people who are supposed to be falling off his list of communications…me meeting them why?

At his daughter’s wedding ONLY!

Otherwise - no fucking way! He isn’t their relative except trough his daughter.

And I know…Aries wouldn’t be a good thing to do. I was just thinking people are staying friends after divorce and celebrating together.

I know…this Anniversary of her death and Christmas and Aries and Himself and relatives - all came falling on me and I just not dealing well with pressure.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye
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Yes you are a liar.

But honestly at this point it would be more shocking if you were honest with him. After all, you spent over a decade lying and cheating on your marriage. And your too old and set in your ways to change.

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Yeah. And you are sicko pothead. And you live by picking crumbs of my life…like I give a shit what your opinion is.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye
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Yes you are a liar.

But honestly at this point it would be more shocking if you were honest with him. After all, you spent over a decade lying and cheating on your marriage. And your too old and set in your ways to change.


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Yeah. And you are sicko pothead. And you live by picking crumbs of my life…like I give a shit what your opinion is.

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It’s very apparent you do. Make sure to continue to reply to me and @ me on random threads from a year ago to prove to me you dgaf about my opinion. It’s VERY convincing.

Do you even have an identity outside of the men you are with? No.

You haven’t been single since you were a teenager. Your afraid to be alone with yourself. So every new relationship is perfect right? Until it isn’t. The sad part is that you’ll continue hurting others around you by involving them in your mess.

It’s ok tho. Don’t be honest with the Virgo. Just discard him like the rest and move onto the next distraction.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye
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Yes you are a liar.

But honestly at this point it would be more shocking if you were honest with him. After all, you spent over a decade lying and cheating on your marriage. And your too old and set in your ways to change.


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Yeah. And you are sicko pothead. And you live by picking crumbs of my life…like I give a shit what your opinion is.
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It’s very apparent you do. Make sure to continue to reply to me and @ me on random threads from a year ago to prove to me you dgaf about my opinion. It’s VERY convincing.



Do you even have an identity outside of the men you are with? No.



You haven’t been single since you were a teenager. Your afraid to be alone with yourself. So every new relationship is perfect right? Until it isn’t. The sad part is that you’ll continue hurting others around you by involving them in your mess.



It’s ok tho. Don’t be honest with the Virgo. Just discard him like the rest and move onto the next distraction.

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You talking like if it was mattered to you. Why?

Because all YOU have is a…smoke…

I have stories to tell. You have smoke to blow up my ass

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You still didn’t answer her question, does the Virgo know you communicate with your ex’s… plural.

So that’s a no.

Backsliding is toxic af especially when you are actively withholding the truth from your partner. That’s called lying.

I guess I am lying but he isn’t asking. So I am not volunteering the truth and my phone is at his sight.

I won’t spend much time on you. I realized yesterday that talking to you is a waste of time like if I was talking to a mental patient.

You ARE having some serious issues and your escape thought pot is not working.

I am not your doctor. Weed is not your medicine. It’s a patch and think what will happen if you can’t have it. Scary huh?

Bye
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Yes you are a liar.

But honestly at this point it would be more shocking if you were honest with him. After all, you spent over a decade lying and cheating on your marriage. And your too old and set in your ways to change.


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Yeah. And you are sicko pothead. And you live by picking crumbs of my life…like I give a shit what your opinion is.
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It’s very apparent you do. Make sure to continue to reply to me and @ me on random threads from a year ago to prove to me you dgaf about my opinion. It’s VERY convincing.



Do you even have an identity outside of the men you are with? No.



You haven’t been single since you were a teenager. Your afraid to be alone with yourself. So every new relationship is perfect right? Until it isn’t. The sad part is that you’ll continue hurting others around you by involving them in your mess.



It’s ok tho. Don’t be honest with the Virgo. Just discard him like the rest and move onto the next distraction.
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You talking like if it was mattered to you. Why?

Because all YOU have is a…smoke…



I have stories to tell. You have smoke to blow up my ass

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This is how the internet works boomer.

When you unload the mess that is your life people will have opinions.

Don’t be butt hurt. Or do.

@LadyNeptune

What identity you talking about to hen YOU and noodle man smoking your life away day after day?

Are you doing anything at all except smoking? Is he also mental?

I supposed he is some depressed individual who doesn’t give a shit about anything.

And you…his gf/boss…miserable pair of pot heads staring in the wall watching weed induced images inside your heads.

YOU telling me about living?

Where have you been last time you got out of the house except DISPENSARY?

You used to post your ‘art’ and you wanted to have a boat and travel and do shit…no more.

Be careful not to end up in the corner if you going to continue like this…2 potheads in CA…highest form of low class living. Brrrrr

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@LadyNeptune

What identity you talking about to hen YOU and noodle man smoking your life away day after day?

Are you doing anything at all except smoking? Is he also mental?

I supposed he is some depressed individual who doesn’t give a shit about anything.

And you…his gf/boss…miserable pair of pot heads staring in the wall watching weed induced images inside your heads.

YOU telling me about living?

Where have you been last time you got out of the house except DISPENSARY?



You used to post your ‘art’ and you wanted to have a boat and travel and do shit…no more.

Be careful not to end up in the corner if you going to continue like this…2 potheads in CA…highest form of low class living. Brrrrr

Yes I enjoy my job. You call it art, not I. So ty.

Yes I enjoy herb, many ways to consume it not just smoking.

He doesn’t partake but he does grow it for me 💜

Yes we own a boat. Stay mad ✌️

Btw your doing an excellent job of convincing me you dgaf. Keep putting in the effort. Love to see the hustle.

geminis always sabotage when they're bored

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@LadyNeptune

What identity you talking about to hen YOU and noodle man smoking your life away day after day?

Are you doing anything at all except smoking? Is he also mental?

I supposed he is some depressed individual who doesn’t give a shit about anything.

And you…his gf/boss…miserable pair of pot heads staring in the wall watching weed induced images inside your heads.

YOU telling me about living?

Where have you been last time you got out of the house except DISPENSARY?



You used to post your ‘art’ and you wanted to have a boat and travel and do shit…no more.

Be careful not to end up in the corner if you going to continue like this…2 potheads in CA…highest form of low class living. Brrrrr

Yes I enjoy my job. You call it art, not I. So ty.

Yes I enjoy herb, many ways to consume it not just smoking.

He doesn’t partake but he does grow it for me 💜

Yes we own a boat. Stay mad ✌️



Btw your doing an excellent job of convincing me you dgaf. Keep putting in the effort. Love to see the hustle.

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THATS getting clearer now.

BTW sucking dick of your drug dealer for better price does NOT make him your boyfriend! I mean maybe after you smoke it does feel like he is yours but honey…you all the same to him. All he cares about is YOUR MONEY!!! 🧟‍♀️

But you know THAT!

Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

I KNEW there must be an explanation for this nonsense! Thanks 😉

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@LadyNeptune

What identity you talking about to hen YOU and noodle man smoking your life away day after day?

Are you doing anything at all except smoking? Is he also mental?

I supposed he is some depressed individual who doesn’t give a shit about anything.

And you…his gf/boss…miserable pair of pot heads staring in the wall watching weed induced images inside your heads.

YOU telling me about living?

Where have you been last time you got out of the house except DISPENSARY?



You used to post your ‘art’ and you wanted to have a boat and travel and do shit…no more.

Be careful not to end up in the corner if you going to continue like this…2 potheads in CA…highest form of low class living. Brrrrr

Yes I enjoy my job. You call it art, not I. So ty.

Yes I enjoy herb, many ways to consume it not just smoking.

He doesn’t partake but he does grow it for me 💜

Yes we own a boat. Stay mad ✌️



Btw your doing an excellent job of convincing me you dgaf. Keep putting in the effort. Love to see the hustle.
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THATS getting clearer now.

BTW sucking dick of your drug dealer for better price does NOT make him your boyfriend! I mean maybe after you smoke it does feel like he is yours but honey…you all the same to him. All he cares about is YOUR MONEY!!! 🧟‍♀️

But you know THAT!

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Awww don’t tell me you’ve never had a man bring you flowers. Mine just gets me my fav buds 😝

I can tell I struck a nerve tho so there there. Throwing whatever you can at me to see if something sticks when you should be focused on the fact that your perfect relationship with the perfect Virgo isn’t so perfect when you can be more honest with internet strangers than you are with him.

All the harsh words I say could never hurt you the way you hurt yourself and sadly everyone else you pull into your bs. If self sabotage was a person… it’s you 🤗

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geminis always sabotage when they're bored

I KNEW there must be an explanation for this nonsense! Thanks

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After only a few months your already bored with the Virgo, so your thirsting after your ex’s. Man this is just depressing af for you.

Scorp ex blocks you ⚔️

Aries ex says, no thanks I’ll stay single

The best gift you can give the Virgo is honestly. Tis the season. But we all know your too much of a coward and self serving to put his well-being first.

@LadyNeptune

Hon, you keep saying I am triggered and striked and whatever…however YOU are the one composing my 2 posts into 1 to reply and so you know I do not smoke flowers 💐 I get.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

And at MY age having a child, marriage, divorce…I date men!

WHY do you care IF I will stay or not with them? Or BE or not to be honest?

I WAS MARRIED! I had my life lived and NOW I can date forever or for a day - perfect or delinquents - mind you all HANDSOME…

Seems like YOU who never been married, hurt by cheating, pushed off and dating down a man who is growing weed…messed up to the point you CANT FUNCTION WITHOUT WEED!

Totally fucked up pothead is ranking in me at my age for life I am living while you haven’t accomplished shit!

Darling, I know your kind who are sitting home smoking their heads off having weed farms as a business…ALL using heavier drugs and ending up broke in rehabs OR sucking dicks for free shit to snore or smoke…

Don’t give me this shit…

I CAN and WILL date and fuck and have fun until I can. SOBER! Knowing what I am doing.

Not fogged up and fucking weed growers whom you can’t look at while sober.

Enjoy if you can.

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Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️

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should just break up with him

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Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️

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Apparently when women break up with men only when men are shit OR men leave them - it is hard for them to understand that I am still a very big fan of my exes.

I don’t pick up whatever and date it until it fucks others or leaving me.

So with Aries - I AM feeling kind of guilty because I weren’t leaving him for good. I was just taking a break and accidentally met Virgo so…I am feeling odd. And I wish I could make up to him somehow…not sabotaging shit!

Planning month and a half trip to Italy to meet Virgo’s endless family…how boring is THAT REALLY? 🤷‍♀️😂

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geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️

should just break up with him

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Are you talking about me?

I want YOU to find a man who can fuck you all weekends with only break for food he makes AND BREAK UP WITH HIM! Silly girl…

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Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️
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Apparently when women break up with men only when men are shit OR men leave them - it is hard for them to understand that I am still a very big fan of my exes.

I don’t pick up whatever and date it until it fucks others or leaving me.

So with Aries - I AM feeling kind of guilty because I weren’t leaving him for good. I was just taking a break and accidentally met Virgo so…I am feeling odd. And I wish I could make up to him somehow…not sabotaging shit!

Planning month and a half trip to Italy to meet Virgo’s endless family…how boring is THAT REALLY? 🤷‍♀️😂
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Month and a half trip with him and staying with his family already? I would be running away already in that situation on the thought of that idea alone😂 it's a bit to much too soon imo. But people have different timings so I get that it could be perfectly normal thing to do for someone else🤷🏼‍♀️

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To MEET! Not to stay! Are you kidding me?

Plus they are all over the place so we will travel but he said we must stay in hotel because I am loud…😂😂😂

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Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️
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Apparently when women break up with men only when men are shit OR men leave them - it is hard for them to understand that I am still a very big fan of my exes.

I don’t pick up whatever and date it until it fucks others or leaving me.

So with Aries - I AM feeling kind of guilty because I weren’t leaving him for good. I was just taking a break and accidentally met Virgo so…I am feeling odd. And I wish I could make up to him somehow…not sabotaging shit!

Planning month and a half trip to Italy to meet Virgo’s endless family…how boring is THAT REALLY? 🤷‍♀️😂
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Month and a half trip with him and staying with his family already? I would be running away already in that situation on the thought of that idea alone😂 it's a bit to much too soon imo. But people have different timings so I get that it could be perfectly normal thing to do for someone else🤷🏼‍♀️
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To MEET! Not to stay! Are you kidding me?

Plus they are all over the place so we will travel but he said we must stay in hotel because I am loud…😂😂😂
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Ok that's better lol people often go to stay with families so idk, that was the impression lol ok trip is fine but I too still don't see the point of meeting his late wife's family. His family is ok, but hers...makes no sense to me. But then again, I'm someone who REALLY hates meeting family members so maybe it's just me being weird about that kind of thing lol

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We just had this discussion today again…about IF his late wife’s family is supposed to know he is dating me (in case I am flat out refuse to go) and he is unsure himself what is the protocol.

Her father who is 98 is alive. Her brother and family are living in Europe. Her sister and family is in USA. They all around 70 and…idk…he seems just want to tell them even if I don’t go. My argument is - it’s been only 3 1/2 months…you can’t bring EVERYBODY you date to ‘meet the family’ event and he got upset because he doesn’t want to hear about dating anybody else and we are making dinner now. 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by virgoOPPP
geminis always sabotage when they're bored

But if she's bored already, that's not a good sign. If she was having fun she wouldn't be bored, hence wouldn't sabotage either🤷🏼‍♀️
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Apparently when women break up with men only when men are shit OR men leave them - it is hard for them to understand that I am still a very big fan of my exes.

I don’t pick up whatever and date it until it fucks others or leaving me.

So with Aries - I AM feeling kind of guilty because I weren’t leaving him for good. I was just taking a break and accidentally met Virgo so…I am feeling odd. And I wish I could make up to him somehow…not sabotaging shit!

Planning month and a half trip to Italy to meet Virgo’s endless family…how boring is THAT REALLY? 🤷‍♀️😂
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Month and a half trip with him and staying with his family already? I would be running away already in that situation on the thought of that idea alone😂 it's a bit to much too soon imo. But people have different timings so I get that it could be perfectly normal thing to do for someone else🤷🏼‍♀️
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To MEET! Not to stay! Are you kidding me?

Plus they are all over the place so we will travel but he said we must stay in hotel because I am loud…😂😂😂
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Ok that's better lol people often go to stay with families so idk, that was the impression lol ok trip is fine but I too still don't see the point of meeting his late wife's family. His family is ok, but hers...makes no sense to me. But then again, I'm someone who REALLY hates meeting family members so maybe it's just me being weird about that kind of thing lol
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We just had this discussion today again…about IF his late wife’s family is supposed to know he is dating me (in case I am flat out refuse to go) and he is unsure himself what is the protocol.

Her father who is 98 is alive. Her brother and family are living in Europe. Her sister and family is in USA. They all around 70 and…idk…he seems just want to tell them even if I don’t go. My argument is - it’s been only 3 1/2 months…you can’t bring EVERYBODY you date to ‘meet the family’ event and he got upset because he doesn’t want to hear about dating anybody else and we are making dinner now. 🤷‍♀️
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He's seems like he's not considering feelings of her family regarding that matter from that. I mean sure, woman is dead and he's not, but not sure how thrilled they wouls be that he's moved on. They could be accepting of it but could also be disappointed. And Virgos can really be inconsiderate of other's feelings, they often think everyone sees things through their glasses while completely failing to understand people can perceive same situation in whole other way. Good luck in whatever you decide to do in that situation

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Wait…it’s 4 years! Is he supposed to be alone?

How is this even kind of them to expect man to be alone for 4 years? I am standing up for him in this situation but I am nervous about what you said them being inconsiderate. Should I read up in that!

He IS very bossy and he admitting it but I am fighting and he is ok with me being resistant.

It’s like we are playing the game…for now.