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@LadyTate
9 Years
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Posted by mzmeeMy thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...
Uugggggghhhh
It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this
How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?
Posted by ElleDuMondePlease explain what u got out of that in response to my question. LolPosted by LadyTateIt has everything to do with what you were asking.......lol.
I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!
At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?
he trusts you. he has seen your authentic self and accepts it.
sex is just a byproduct at this point. stop holding back. if you want to sleep with the man, then just do it.click to expand

Posted by ImTheRamBecause it sounds like BS on one hand but genuine on the other. I guess because I've been played over before. I'm done pressuring for answers now I guess
He said it all...
He likes her..he really does...
How can you women not read that ^^
Don't pressure him more with those questions...let it flow Tate 😉

Posted by LadyTateLol. I feel you.Posted by mzmeeMy thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...
Uugggggghhhh
It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this
How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeTo me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
Posted by mzmeeUgh... He drives me crazyPosted by LadyTateLol. I feel you.Posted by mzmeeMy thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...
Uugggggghhhh
It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this
How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?
So you're just looking for verbal clarity? Dont let the feelings complicate it. He forewarned you about the previous. Those cap men are like brick walls so if you're getting the good treatment from him, you're good.
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Posted by ontransitPleas explain
LOL!
Wow. Op your are a doormat. For a man.
Thanks for the morning laugh!
Posted by ElleDuMondeThat would be great. Lol. I am ready and that's the problem. I'm ready to give him my all!
what do you actually want?
a full out declaration with proper enunciation in front of a crowd and a signature signed in blood?
he's doing the best he can.
if he were to go full throttle.....think about that for a second.....are you prepared? I don't think you are and I think he knows you aren't either. So, work at his pace. He is trying the best he knows how.
Posted by ElleDuMondeKind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no controlPosted by LadyTatewell, maybe he does gotcha.Posted by ElleDuMondeTo me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
you have issue with that? 🙂click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchMay be? Idk...Posted by LadyTateHis words are yaaaaaaawn! Been there, done that, doesn´t work out, def. doesn´t mean, what you want it to mean, he´s just so selfish, that he can´t tell you, that it will never be a real relationship. Selfish and balless.
I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!
At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeU have to let it roll off ur back and no pay them any mind.
this place is so gross sometimes...I don't know why I stay here.
Posted by ElleDuMondeOh God... LolPosted by LadyTateding! ding! ding!Posted by ElleDuMondeKind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no controlPosted by LadyTatewell, maybe he does gotcha.Posted by ElleDuMondeTo me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
you have issue with that? 🙂
get used to it if you want to be with a cap.
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Posted by ontransit@ontransit... Boo bye!
This Tate is a fake.
Posted by ElleDuMondeLol... This is what I have to look forward to. That will def take some getting used to on my part
mine has an aqua venus....
every day is me hyperventilating because I have no control. none. nada. zilch.
used to bug me....but I have realised I need that.
I also am fully aware that at any moment I can go plummeting over that cliff with just a slight direction of the wind changing.
used to bug me too.....but I have realised I need that too. I like to teeter totter on the edge. It makes me feel alive.
I also know that if I need something....when shit gets real....like REALLY real.....he's there. no matter what. always.
I never need anything.....but I have realised that's a nice feeling to have.
I also know that one day he can come in a pull that carpet right from under my feet.
used to bug me as well.....but now I know I can get back up again.
I wouldn't trade him in for the world......even when his words don't make sense and they aren't exactly what I want to hear.

Posted by ElleDuMondeWhich says absolutely nothing about where HE stands. He basically just told her where he has her, lol.
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
Posted by ImpulsvHuhPosted by LadyTate
I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!
At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?
Thoughts are you tell this prick I guess you decided were in a relationshipclick to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeI have NEVER worried this much about a man!Posted by LadyTateIt's scary as hell.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol... This is what I have to look forward to. That will def take some getting used to on my part
mine has an aqua venus....
every day is me hyperventilating because I have no control. none. nada. zilch.
used to bug me....but I have realised I need that.
I also am fully aware that at any moment I can go plummeting over that cliff with just a slight direction of the wind changing.
used to bug me too.....but I have realised I need that too. I like to teeter totter on the edge. It makes me feel alive.
I also know that if I need something....when shit gets real....like REALLY real.....he's there. no matter what. always.
I never need anything.....but I have realised that's a nice feeling to have.
I also know that one day he can come in a pull that carpet right from under my feet.
used to bug me as well.....but now I know I can get back up again.
I wouldn't trade him in for the world......even when his words don't make sense and they aren't exactly what I want to hear.
lol
I'm not gonna lie.
but it sure is nice to know he's in my corner.click to expand
Posted by enfant_terribleThat's kind of what I saw tooPosted by ElleDuMondeWhich says absolutely nothing about where HE stands. He basically just told her where he has her, lol.
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
COME ON!!!!
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Posted by ElleDuMondeHe has me all over the place. I keep trying to build my wall back up but it comes tumbling just from the thought of him
lol
he's gotten under your skin in a good way.

Posted by LadyTateGirl you betta go in his pants and snatch your damn power back.Posted by ElleDuMondeKind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no controlPosted by LadyTatewell, maybe he does gotcha.Posted by ElleDuMondeTo me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
you have issue with that? 🙂click to expand
Posted by P-AngelLol... Judgmental. Always find it funny when ppl cast judgment as if their perfect. Guh bye
So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?
People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.
So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.
Posted by mzmeeHe trays me great. I'm trying to look at his actions but I'm a black and white. I need to know not assume.Posted by LadyTateGirl you betta go in his pants and snatch your damn power back.Posted by ElleDuMondeKind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no controlPosted by LadyTatewell, maybe he does gotcha.Posted by ElleDuMondeTo me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"
COME ON!!!!
you have issue with that? 🙂
He's not gonna tell you how he truly feels, he's showing you. Let him show you. Don't push for verbal declarations, let it flow. That's why I said stay busy.
I have a Cap venus. I can relate a small bit. I look at my love style. I'm a show type of lover, not a talker.
How is he treating you? Does he go out of his way to show interest? People can make anything come out they mouth, listen to what he doesn't say.click to expand

Posted by ontransitBut obviously ur not happy. Otherwise u wouldn't feel the need to try to make someone feel bad. So self evaluate hunny!
At least I do not have a man telling me "I have all of you".
My life looks, feels, and gets more amazing each day!
Dear Lord,
Thank you for giving me the clarity to live my life in a way that pleases you and makes me feel good. It truly is amazing to feel so at peace with the direction you are taking me in and the life we are carving out together for me. You truly are an amazing and wonderful God. How could anything be to great for you and yet so small that you take your time out to help me and guide me. You truly are an awesome God!
Posted by ElleDuMondeShe probably doesn't have a man telling her anything. Misery loves company.Posted by ontransitLOL...that's the best part.
At least I do not have a man telling me "I have all of you".
......and you have to say ten hail marys and clutch your rosary—?
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Posted by ontransitGod forbid someone lives their life completely different from you huh?Posted by mzmeeLOL! But why dress up poop?
She is a grown damn woman... okay.
Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.
What's with the judgement—
Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.click to expand

Posted by LadyTatePosted by P-AngelLol... Judgmental. Always find it funny when ppl cast judgment as if their perfect. Guh bye
So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?
People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.
So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchI don't totally agree with everything ur saying. Going to the Internet and getting opinions is pretty much the same as asking a friend or family for advice.Posted by mzmeeNot out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.
She is a grown damn woman... okay.
Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.
What's with the judgement—
Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.click to expand

Posted by ontransitGreat... U carry the nutts and balls in ur relationships. (Claps hands)
@LadyTate why do you not just be quiet?
I do not have a man telling me anything. I tell the men EVERYTHING when I am in a relationship. " Come here, do this! I am not happy. I want to celebrate! Let's go to bed. Let's eat some cake! Let's go to a club! Meet me after I am off work. Pick me up! Answer when I call. Come over. I'm tired" and the list goes on!
Posted by cheekyfaerieI agree... I got scared when my feelings got involved and I did not know his intentions. I understand I will never have everything all at once because of his kids and I don't expect too. All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.Posted by P-AngelThey met online and hung out for a month before the sex. They were dating and, by the sounds of it, going at a reasonable pace until she pulled back because she started freaking out about not having a title. Agreed it's important to know where you stand, but things seemed to have been progressing organically until she pulled back. Don't like how intentionally vague his answer was though.
So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?
People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.
So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.
OP, he has kids. You're not going to get the everything all at once.click to expand


Posted by thinktoomuchNot necessarily. Some people just like a third eye view of their issues. A non biased point of view.Posted by mzmeeNot out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.
She is a grown damn woman... okay.
Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.
What's with the judgement—
Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.click to expand
Posted by CTFUU always get the good come backs after the fact. That would've been a good one.Posted by LadyTateWas that the end of the conversation?
I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!
What's ur thoughts?
You should have followed with...
'And you will always give me all of you too.' haha
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Posted by thinktoomuchNot so! I agree with @piscespoppyPosted by piscespoppyWhere have you ever learned this——? That is certainly not a fact.
All humans regardless of sun sign only do things for people we like/love..FACT..Human nature . I think he likes you a lot, chill, relax do your own thing and enjoy your time with him when you are together x
Most people are fueled by their own ego, greed, jelasy and most of all power.click to expand
Posted by mzmeeWell saidPosted by thinktoomuchNot necessarily. Some people just like a third eye view of their issues. A non biased point of view.Posted by mzmeeNot out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.
She is a grown damn woman... okay.
Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.
What's with the judgement—
Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.
She's completely anonymous so she doesnt have to worry about friends or family holding it over her head.click to expand
Posted by P-Angelhmm... Let me find the glitter and glue!
He even knows it what I'm telling you ...... he knows full well that he doesn't have to put forth any effort at all, you will give him whatever he wants, whenever he wants it
You're his fool ...... now go make yourself a badge to honor it.

Posted by LadyTate
because u will always give me all of u!
Posted by ontransitWhat's the placement that makes u an idiot. I bet I'll find it on that same chart.
@elledumonde do you have a placement that explains why you are so stupid?
Maybe its your entire natal chart.
Posted by P-AngelAt the point where u leave my post lolPosted by LadyTate
because u will always give me all of u!
lol
You're still there, lol
And it gets even more ridiculous .... you are trying desperately to translate that phrase into meaning he has feelings for you.
wtf? At what point are you going to take responsibility for your own self worth?click to expand

Posted by cheekyfaerieI said I didn't fully agree with what u posted. I do know there are selfish ppl and genuine pplPosted by LadyTateGenuine people, yes. There a whole other category of people who will give you just enough to keep getting what they want. If you didn't agree with that, this thread wouldn't be here.Posted by thinktoomuchNot so! I agree with @piscespoppyPosted by piscespoppyWhere have you ever learned this——? That is certainly not a fact.
All humans regardless of sun sign only do things for people we like/love..FACT..Human nature . I think he likes you a lot, chill, relax do your own thing and enjoy your time with him when you are together x
Most people are fueled by their own ego, greed, jelasy and most of all power.click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeLolPosted by LadyTateI see your libra venus ..lolPosted by P-Angelhmm... Let me find the glitter and glue!
He even knows it what I'm telling you ...... he knows full well that he doesn't have to put forth any effort at all, you will give him whatever he wants, whenever he wants it
You're his fool ...... now go make yourself a badge to honor it.click to expand
Posted by ImTheRamThat may be my problem. Maybe I haven't screwed enough men in my life! Hmm...Posted by P-AngelWhen she fucks 175 guys.Posted by LadyTate
because u will always give me all of u!
lol
You're still there, lol
And it gets even more ridiculous .... you are trying desperately to translate that phrase into meaning he has feelings for you.
wtf? At what point are you going to take responsibility for your own self worth?
Seems it was what you needed to get everything figured out?
Irony...it's that think that makes me happy every fucking day.
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Posted by LadyTate
All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.
Posted by P-AngelExplainPosted by LadyTate
All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.
You don't always get what you want, but, you always get what you need, even when you are desperate to ignore it.
A lot your bullshit was obviously taken way out of context when he proved to you that you're second burner material to him when you took a statement from him you liked and ran with it.
Selective feelings, I guess.click to expand
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At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?