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Posted by thinktoomuchI'll see how this plays out tgen
On a serious note: I had a guy tell me exactly that "with you it´s never just sex, we´re never just friends". But certainly we were never nor did we ever become a real couple. So I´m speaking from experience. He always said I was a lovely person, a great girl.
I would say the way he worded it means a lot to him. He might see that as brave of you and he admires it. Touches him somehow.. Idk. Seems to me like he is starting to become emotionally invested, it's just a little slow and pushing him for more confirmation right now might scare him. My bff started out this way with a cap and they've been married now for 5 years, been together 7 years total.
Posted by AriElla7He knows that for me to say how I feel took a lot.
I would say the way he worded it means a lot to him. He might see that as brave of you and he admires it. Touches him somehow.. Idk. Seems to me like he is starting to become emotionally invested, it's just a little slow and pushing him for more confirmation right now might scare him. My bff started out this way with a cap and they've been married now for 5 years, been together 7 years total.
Posted by cheekyfaerieHe's not good at it at all. That's the major problem. That and the fact that he doesn't show emotion. Verbally or physically. His whole demeanor is monotone.Posted by thinktoomuchDitto. And I know he cared for me in his own way, but it wasn't what I was looking for. But none of us are there. I'm not gonna say ol dude ain't serious, but I don't think they're very good at communicating.
On a serious note: I had a guy tell me exactly that "with you it´s never just sex, we´re never just friends". But certainly we were never nor did we ever become a real couple. So I´m speaking from experience. He always said I was a lovely person, a great girl.click to expand
Posted by AriesLoveIll try to look more at his actions rather than expecting him to verbally say it. He makes sure he spends some time with me. Even if it's just me coming over while he's getting ready to head back to work and spend a few hours with him. Or if he happens to be passing in my city (we live an hr away from each other) he'll be sure to stop and see me. He actually got a little upset with me once when I was in his city and didn't call. Only reason I didn't call was because I knew he had a family function and he was occupied.Posted by LadyTateBut that is a Capricorn. My brother is the same way. All of the Caps I know are this way. They are not emotional. Their love comes from actions not a lot of words.Posted by cheekyfaerieHe's not good at it at all. That's the major problem. That and the fact that he doesn't show emotion. Verbally or physically. His whole demeanor is monotone.Posted by thinktoomuchDitto. And I know he cared for me in his own way, but it wasn't what I was looking for. But none of us are there. I'm not gonna say ol dude ain't serious, but I don't think they're very good at communicating.
On a serious note: I had a guy tell me exactly that "with you it´s never just sex, we´re never just friends". But certainly we were never nor did we ever become a real couple. So I´m speaking from experience. He always said I was a lovely person, a great girl.
Look at everything this man has going on and tell me where you fit in because that is going to be the determining factor of whether or not he wants to commit to you. He will not rush into anything if it will not be of value to him.
You have to be a bit more secure within yourself because relationships do not mean fidelity and longevity. People cheat, break up, drain each other out. A relationship is not going to force anyone to put you first, give you their all or give you everything you want.
Just enjoy what you have, take your own steps to bring you two closer and relax your mind. If he is moving too slow or you feel like he isn't giving enough than its probably true. Just accept it and do what's best for you.
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Posted by ElleDuMondeThank u... I'll try not to push him. I'll let the dust settle and see what happens from here.Posted by AlaniaB
You know, honestly, I am reading this and i have experienced it myself, It hurts. It makes you feel kind of crazy.
I am at the point now where regardless of their sign, I tell people what I want, what makes me happy - and if they don't want to do it - they are the wrong guy.
I don't issue demands, but I just say "It makes me feel special when the guy I am with keeps in contact" or "I don;t like it when I feel shunted aside or like I am not on someone's mind". And then I guess if the person doesn't listen to what I am saying I can't be bothered to be with them anymore.
If I really like a guy and he tells me what he wants - I really strive to do that for him. Making him happy makes me happy.
I dunno where relationships got so fucked up lately that we worry about telling people what we want in case we drive them away. Drive them away! get rid of anyone who does not give you what makes you happy with both of their hands wide open.
Geez...so much pain in this world, why settle for anyone you feel you have to keep quiet for?
This is from another thread. I thought it was fitting.
Just keep communicating....the best you know how.click to expand
Do NOT ask him anything else. Just base your judgement on his actions and how he treats you.
Caps don't respond well to trying to "hash things out". They can get defensive and insecure, and then it will backfire on YOU.
Caps don't respond well to trying to "hash things out". They can get defensive and insecure, and then it will backfire on YOU.
Posted by SpiceNSugarI plan on leaving it alone for a while
Do NOT ask him anything else. Just base your judgement on his actions and how he treats you.
Caps don't respond well to trying to "hash things out". They can get defensive and insecure, and then it will backfire on YOU.
Posted by LadyTateTrust me. It'll be better for you. Keep your eye on his actions.Posted by SpiceNSugarI plan on leaving it alone for a while
Do NOT ask him anything else. Just base your judgement on his actions and how he treats you.
Caps don't respond well to trying to "hash things out". They can get defensive and insecure, and then it will backfire on YOU.click to expand
Posted by SpiceNSugarI will do that! Thank uPosted by LadyTateTrust me. It'll be better for you. Keep your eye on his actions.Posted by SpiceNSugarI plan on leaving it alone for a while
Do NOT ask him anything else. Just base your judgement on his actions and how he treats you.
Caps don't respond well to trying to "hash things out". They can get defensive and insecure, and then it will backfire on YOU.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchI'm just talking about people in everyday situations, I was not trying to offend you , it is a human nature fact that we only do things happily at least for people we like, watch and learn other people around you and you will see for yourself, I'm sorry if I offended you, not intended xPosted by piscespoppyWhere have you ever learned this——? That is certainly not a fact.
All humans regardless of sun sign only do things for people we like/love..FACT..Human nature . I think he likes you a lot, chill, relax do your own thing and enjoy your time with him when you are together x
Most people are fueled by their own ego, greed, jelasy and most of all power.click to expand
I was actually following on from another poster who said to watch his actions, but by the time id finished posting a few others had posted in between Š
He sounds like he's full of shit.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamLol... He may be. I'll update when I find out!
He sounds like he's full of shit.
Pussy look like a kiddie pool.
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