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@LadyTate
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I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!

At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by mzmee
Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...


Uugggggghhhh

It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this


How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?
My thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
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I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!

At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?
It has everything to do with what you were asking.......lol.

he trusts you. he has seen your authentic self and accepts it.

sex is just a byproduct at this point. stop holding back. if you want to sleep with the man, then just do it.
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Please explain what u got out of that in response to my question. Lol
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@mzmee
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Posted by LadyTate
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Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...


Uugggggghhhh

It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this


How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?
My thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
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Lol. I feel you.

So you're just looking for verbal clarity? Dont let the feelings complicate it. He forewarned you about the previous. Those cap men are like brick walls so if you're getting the good treatment from him, you're good.

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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Maaaannnnn, he better clarify. He didnt even answer the question. Capricorn men...


Uugggggghhhh

It's best to take things slow. Try to control those feelings babe. Now, plug your ears to what he's saying and answer me this


How does he treat you? What does his actions tell you?
My thoughts exactly. I swear... After he answered I was like what does that have to do with the price of tea in China! lol. He treats me well. Always respectful and well mannered.
Lol. I feel you.

So you're just looking for verbal clarity? Dont let the feelings complicate it. He forewarned you about the previous. Those cap men are like brick walls so if you're getting the good treatment from him, you're good.

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Ugh... He drives me crazy
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
what do you actually want?

a full out declaration with proper enunciation in front of a crowd and a signature signed in blood?

he's doing the best he can.

if he were to go full throttle.....think about that for a second.....are you prepared? I don't think you are and I think he knows you aren't either. So, work at his pace. He is trying the best he knows how.
That would be great. Lol. I am ready and that's the problem. I'm ready to give him my all!
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@LadyTate
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
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"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"

COME ON!!!!
To me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
well, maybe he does gotcha.

you have issue with that? 🙂
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Kind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no control
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!

At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?
His words are yaaaaaaawn! Been there, done that, doesn´t work out, def. doesn´t mean, what you want it to mean, he´s just so selfish, that he can´t tell you, that it will never be a real relationship. Selfish and balless.
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May be? Idk...
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@LadyTate
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"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"

COME ON!!!!
To me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
well, maybe he does gotcha.

you have issue with that? 🙂
Kind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no control
ding! ding! ding!

get used to it if you want to be with a cap.

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Oh God... Lol
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
mine has an aqua venus....

every day is me hyperventilating because I have no control. none. nada. zilch.

used to bug me....but I have realised I need that.

I also am fully aware that at any moment I can go plummeting over that cliff with just a slight direction of the wind changing.

used to bug me too.....but I have realised I need that too. I like to teeter totter on the edge. It makes me feel alive.

I also know that if I need something....when shit gets real....like REALLY real.....he's there. no matter what. always.

I never need anything.....but I have realised that's a nice feeling to have.

I also know that one day he can come in a pull that carpet right from under my feet.

used to bug me as well.....but now I know I can get back up again.

I wouldn't trade him in for the world......even when his words don't make sense and they aren't exactly what I want to hear.
Lol... This is what I have to look forward to. That will def take some getting used to on my part
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@LadyTate
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I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!

At first I had this giddy feeling, thinking that was his indirect way of saying he has feelings for me but then I got to thinking. Maybe he's just BS'ing me and saying what I want to hear to get me back in bed. What's ur thoughts?

Thoughts are you tell this prick I guess you decided were in a relationship
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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mine has an aqua venus....

every day is me hyperventilating because I have no control. none. nada. zilch.

used to bug me....but I have realised I need that.

I also am fully aware that at any moment I can go plummeting over that cliff with just a slight direction of the wind changing.

used to bug me too.....but I have realised I need that too. I like to teeter totter on the edge. It makes me feel alive.

I also know that if I need something....when shit gets real....like REALLY real.....he's there. no matter what. always.

I never need anything.....but I have realised that's a nice feeling to have.

I also know that one day he can come in a pull that carpet right from under my feet.

used to bug me as well.....but now I know I can get back up again.

I wouldn't trade him in for the world......even when his words don't make sense and they aren't exactly what I want to hear.
Lol... This is what I have to look forward to. That will def take some getting used to on my part
It's scary as hell.

lol

I'm not gonna lie.

but it sure is nice to know he's in my corner.
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I have NEVER worried this much about a man!
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PinkySagLove
@mzmee
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"

COME ON!!!!
To me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
well, maybe he does gotcha.

you have issue with that? 🙂
Kind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no control
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Girl you betta go in his pants and snatch your damn power back.

He's not gonna tell you how he truly feels, he's showing you. Let him show you. Don't push for verbal declarations, let it flow. That's why I said stay busy.

I have a Cap venus. I can relate a small bit. I look at my love style. I'm a show type of lover, not a talker.

How is he treating you? Does he go out of his way to show interest? People can make anything come out they mouth, listen to what he doesn't say.
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by P-Angel


So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?

People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.

So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.
Lol... Judgmental. Always find it funny when ppl cast judgment as if their perfect. Guh bye
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@LadyTate
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
"it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!"

COME ON!!!!
To me I read that as him saying" ha, I gotcha!" Lol
well, maybe he does gotcha.

you have issue with that? 🙂
Kind of... Lol. I guess my real struggle is with me. The fact that he has full power over me and I have no control
Girl you betta go in his pants and snatch your damn power back.

He's not gonna tell you how he truly feels, he's showing you. Let him show you. Don't push for verbal declarations, let it flow. That's why I said stay busy.

I have a Cap venus. I can relate a small bit. I look at my love style. I'm a show type of lover, not a talker.

How is he treating you? Does he go out of his way to show interest? People can make anything come out they mouth, listen to what he doesn't say.
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He trays me great. I'm trying to look at his actions but I'm a black and white. I need to know not assume.
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@LadyTate
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Posted by ontransit
At least I do not have a man telling me "I have all of you".

My life looks, feels, and gets more amazing each day!

Dear Lord,

Thank you for giving me the clarity to live my life in a way that pleases you and makes me feel good. It truly is amazing to feel so at peace with the direction you are taking me in and the life we are carving out together for me. You truly are an amazing and wonderful God. How could anything be to great for you and yet so small that you take your time out to help me and guide me. You truly are an awesome God!
But obviously ur not happy. Otherwise u wouldn't feel the need to try to make someone feel bad. So self evaluate hunny!
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PinkySagLove
@mzmee
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Posted by mzmee
She is a grown damn woman... okay.

Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.

What's with the judgement—

Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
LOL! But why dress up poop?
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God forbid someone lives their life completely different from you huh?

Who and how she fucks don't make me cum. If that's what you call it and that's what she's doing, why be pressed?
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P-Angel
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So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?

People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.

So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.
Lol... Judgmental. Always find it funny when ppl cast judgment as if their perfect. Guh bye
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I have fucked over 175 people.

lol, isn't it funny when people cast judgment when they never actually got the point.

I'm not talking about whether you're bad or good ... I'm talking about how you are the director of your life, and it's up to you to decide what you will accept.

You fuck a guy without any strings attached and are confused as to why he isn't attached to your feelings enough to want more from you, after all you have given him.


But, please ... if you'd rather hate because I am here ... dont' let me stop you. Again, though, if you get hateful grief for hating against a person who never had nefarious intent, then it's due directly to your own actions.


Carry on ........
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by mzmee
She is a grown damn woman... okay.

Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.

What's with the judgement—

Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
Not out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.

As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.
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I don't totally agree with everything ur saying. Going to the Internet and getting opinions is pretty much the same as asking a friend or family for advice.
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@LadyTate
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Posted by ontransit
@LadyTate why do you not just be quiet?

I do not have a man telling me anything. I tell the men EVERYTHING when I am in a relationship. " Come here, do this! I am not happy. I want to celebrate! Let's go to bed. Let's eat some cake! Let's go to a club! Meet me after I am off work. Pick me up! Answer when I call. Come over. I'm tired" and the list goes on!
Great... U carry the nutts and balls in ur relationships. (Claps hands)
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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So, this means you have been fucking a guy all along in where you didn't know where you stood, or how he regarded you?

People get what they deserve. If you are getting emotional grief then it's due directly to your own actions.

So, if you don't like that, then change it ... you could start with closing your goddam legs.
They met online and hung out for a month before the sex. They were dating and, by the sounds of it, going at a reasonable pace until she pulled back because she started freaking out about not having a title. Agreed it's important to know where you stand, but things seemed to have been progressing organically until she pulled back. Don't like how intentionally vague his answer was though.

OP, he has kids. You're not going to get the everything all at once.
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I agree... I got scared when my feelings got involved and I did not know his intentions. I understand I will never have everything all at once because of his kids and I don't expect too. All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.
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She is a grown damn woman... okay.

Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.

What's with the judgement—

Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
Not out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.

As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.
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Not necessarily. Some people just like a third eye view of their issues. A non biased point of view.

She's completely anonymous so she doesnt have to worry about friends or family holding it over her head.
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@LadyTate
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I talked to my cap this morning and I flat out asked him what does he want from me, just sex or a relationship? His response was "it's never just sex with u and me!" I asked him to explain. His words were "it'll never be just sex with us because u will always give me all of u!" In my head I'm thinking... Wtf does that really have to do with what I asked u?!

What's ur thoughts?
Was that the end of the conversation?




You should have followed with...

'And you will always give me all of you too.' haha






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U always get the good come backs after the fact. That would've been a good one.
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@LadyTate
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All humans regardless of sun sign only do things for people we like/love..FACT..Human nature . I think he likes you a lot, chill, relax do your own thing and enjoy your time with him when you are together x
Where have you ever learned this——? That is certainly not a fact.
Most people are fueled by their own ego, greed, jelasy and most of all power.
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Not so! I agree with @piscespoppy
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@LadyTate
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Posted by mzmee
She is a grown damn woman... okay.

Fuckships happen on the daily. Feelings get caught, shit gets confusing, and we all cum.

What's with the judgement—

Let's not act like were in grammar school, children.
Not out to get her, only to wake her up. But having been there myself, I know it´s almost impossible.

As I have said before (in other topics) if you have to come here and ask where you stand, you are most likely standing on a ledge and not on safe ground. Coming here and asking relationship advice or opinions is almost always a sign of things not going anywhere/not being right.
Not necessarily. Some people just like a third eye view of their issues. A non biased point of view.

She's completely anonymous so she doesnt have to worry about friends or family holding it over her head.
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Well said
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by LadyTate
Posted by thinktoomuch
Posted by piscespoppy
All humans regardless of sun sign only do things for people we like/love..FACT..Human nature . I think he likes you a lot, chill, relax do your own thing and enjoy your time with him when you are together x
Where have you ever learned this——? That is certainly not a fact.
Most people are fueled by their own ego, greed, jelasy and most of all power.
Not so! I agree with @piscespoppy
Genuine people, yes. There a whole other category of people who will give you just enough to keep getting what they want. If you didn't agree with that, this thread wouldn't be here.
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I said I didn't fully agree with what u posted. I do know there are selfish ppl and genuine ppl
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@LadyTate
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He even knows it what I'm telling you ...... he knows full well that he doesn't have to put forth any effort at all, you will give him whatever he wants, whenever he wants it


You're his fool ...... now go make yourself a badge to honor it.
hmm... Let me find the glitter and glue!
I see your libra venus ..lol
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Lol
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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because u will always give me all of u!



lol


You're still there, lol

And it gets even more ridiculous .... you are trying desperately to translate that phrase into meaning he has feelings for you.

wtf? At what point are you going to take responsibility for your own self worth?
When she fucks 175 guys.

Seems it was what you needed to get everything figured out?

Irony...it's that think that makes me happy every fucking day.

😆
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That may be my problem. Maybe I haven't screwed enough men in my life! Hmm...
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P-Angel
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All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.



You don't always get what you want, but, you always get what you need, even when you are desperate to ignore it.

A lot your bullshit was obviously taken way out of context when he proved to you that you're second burner material to him when you took a statement from him you liked and ran with it.

Selective feelings, I guess.
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#iblockhoes
@LadyTate
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Posted by LadyTate

All I want is to know the direction as to where this is going. Verbal direction. A lot of this post was obviously misinterpreted by some who took 1 statement and ran with it. Selective reading I guess.



You don't always get what you want, but, you always get what you need, even when you are desperate to ignore it.

A lot your bullshit was obviously taken way out of context when he proved to you that you're second burner material to him when you took a statement from him you liked and ran with it.

Selective feelings, I guess.
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