Relationship Pace

What do you consider moving fast?

What do you consider moving slow/taking time?

I am moving slow..... I want to get to know the other... Dates, talk and stuff first

Posted by Pathos
I am moving slow..... I want to get to know the other... Dates, talk and stuff first

Ok but what timeline is that? Are we talking 3-6 months? A year?

Posted by Smidge
Standing too close to me.

LDR is perfect for you.

Posted by Smidge
Standing too close to me.

Did you read the question?

No sex in first date is moving slow.

Posted by Smidge

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Smidge
Standing too close to me.

Did you read the question?

I read two questions, but I chose to answer one.

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Lol

Posted by AerialView
No sex in first date is moving slow.

Lol...Why can’t DXP ever be serious. Why are y’all like this?

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by AerialView
No sex in first date is moving slow.

Lol...Why can’t DXP ever be serious. Why are y’all like this?

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I'm dead serious 😑

Posted by AerialView

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by AerialView
No sex in first date is moving slow.

Lol...Why can’t DXP ever be serious. Why are y’all like this?

I'm dead serious 😑

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Are you serious? Your dates end like that?

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by AerialView

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by AerialView
No sex in first date is moving slow.

Lol...Why can’t DXP ever be serious. Why are y’all like this?

I'm dead serious 😑

Are you serious? Your dates end like that?

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Not always end like that obviously.

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Pathos
I am moving slow..... I want to get to know the other... Dates, talk and stuff first

Ok but what timeline is that? Are we talking 3-6 months? A year?

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Timeline for what? As long as I feel it works out and I am good with the person I will act accordingly.

I have no time line.

But it takes around 3 months to get a good first idea on the compatibility.

Posted by Pathos

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Pathos
I am moving slow..... I want to get to know the other... Dates, talk and stuff first

Ok but what timeline is that? Are we talking 3-6 months? A year?

Timeline for what? As long as I feel it works out and I am good with the person I will act accordingly.
I have no time line.
But it takes around 3 months to get a good first idea on the compatibility.

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Timeline for getting into a relationship

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Posted by Pathos

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Pathos
I am moving slow..... I want to get to know the other... Dates, talk and stuff first

Ok but what timeline is that? Are we talking 3-6 months? A year?

Timeline for what? As long as I feel it works out and I am good with the person I will act accordingly.
I have no time line.
But it takes around 3 months to get a good first idea on the compatibility.

Timeline for getting into a relationship

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Oh....... Around a month.. I am 21 btw.

Posted by solidsnake
Your an Aries
Anything more than 15 seconds to make a decision is too slow

Lmao

I usually average about 1 to 1.5 months but like Aneem said it depends on the frequency of us meeting.

Posted by AneemA04
Actually treetrunk that, I don't know.. I tried to answer but I think again and found myself real lost.

What is this pace thing?

I don't really get how you western ppl interact. Very complicated.

Ha!

I understood your last point just fine. But as a westerner I meant how long does it usually take for you to get into a relationship with a person?