So ladies...what does it mean?

So, in general, what does it mean when you call someone an asshole that you know? Not like "my boss is an asshole", but youre fighting with someone.

Do you only say that when youre feeling hurt? Would you call someone an asshole if you didn't care about that person at all?

I'll call someone an asshole while smiling, laughing, angry...

Do you only say that when you're feeling hurt? No

Would you call someone an asshole if you didn't care about that person at all? Yes

I told my team lead, just last week, "assholes" typically like me. They do. It's the "nice" ones that have a problem.

Ok...good answers all.

What about if you'd been txt fighting and earlier they'd said something that stuck in your craw and in the middle of the night you come back with a txt saying "I'm going to work now. Asshole"

Is the fact that you bothered to txt ANYthing at this time of night saying "you hurt me and i'm still thinking about it"

Also, do men call women assholes? THAT seems like it would be very odd for a man to say that to a woman. Don't they usually use other terms?