Sooo question....

Is this the new norm that people send dick pics and women send pics of themselves before they actually get to know each other? Why is it normal for men to send dick pics?

How do people bond emotionally if this is how the relationships start? I had this conversation with a gf of mine when she told me her trainer just showed her a dick pic to her, like he was trying to entice her into having sex with him. LOL My eyes about popped out of my head.. I would die laughing if some guy friend of mine or whatever, just shows me his penis. LOL

Is this for real? I will be single forever if this is the case.. LOL

yea its pretty norml tbh. bjt i msixteen soo..

Sometimes I'm so glad I'm an old and unlovable technophobe...

*clutches her pearls*

PEOPLE DO THAT?!

I have a profile up so once in a bluemoon I check my inbox. First time I found a dick picture I went on google to search for appropiate social etiquette in responding.

I mean how does one reply to that? "Um, thanks I guess"? "That's original"? "Oh, how cuteee"?

Mostly what went through my mind was "What is it in my profile that would invite someone to expose themselves?"

If men do that then that means they get results by doing that or it wouldn't be as common as search results indicate. So I assume they use it as a filter to gauge who's down to fuck quickly and who's not. I wanted to conduct an experiment to figure it out so I did reply to some dick pics to ask what was up..they never got back to me so I assume language turned them off.

Posted by Damnata
*clutches her pearls*

PEOPLE DO THAT?!

I have a profile up so once in a bluemoon I check my inbox. First time I found a dick picture I went on google to search for appropiate social etiquette in responding.

I mean how does one reply to that? "Um, thanks I guess"? "That's original"? "Oh, how cuteee"?

Mostly what went through my mind was "What is it in my profile that would invite someone to expose themselves?"

If men do that then that means they get results by doing that or it wouldn't be as common as search results indicate. So I assume they use it as a filter to gauge who's down to fuck quickly and who's not. I wanted to conduct an experiment to figure it out so I did reply to some dick pics to ask what was up..they never got back to me so I assume language turned them off.

OMG!! This is real.. Wow... Exactly, how do you even respond to that? I can't believe this is legit.. I'm NOT a prude but that is an immediate turn off. I have ZERO attraction to a man based on his penis. LOL

You don't respond. You ignore and proceed to block him. Or you tell the asshole off because how freaking rude.

This is the funny thing you see so much in dating. Guys act like this. They show dick pics. They act like idiots because they're just stupid when it comes to attracting girls. I had a guy try to pick up on me in the middle of fucking Big Lots just because I politely said hello back to him as he walked passed. He felt that was an opening line to ask me my name and if I was dating anyone. ..all from "Hello." ...in Big Lots of all freaking places. CLASSY.

I had a kid walk up to me at In n Out because he saw me in my work uniform and decided this was a way to pick up on me. One, he was too young, two, I couldn't fault him for having the balls to do so and I politely turned him down (because guys need to be brave like that more often. I just wasn't interested).

I was grocery shopping one time and a guy stops me in the middle of the aisle and sees my class ring and asks if I'm married. Then asks where I live.

All these instances are just odd starts and would make most women "wtf." Same goes with dick pics.

Some guys are just fucking idiots when it comes to dating. ...they're also the same ones who bitch about their dating woes, how women are terrible, etc. The reality is that it's THEIR tacky delivery of whatever the fuck they want to call that garbage, ESPECIALLY dick pics.

They also do it because all these dumb bitches out there don't say or do anything about it. They don't react accordingly and are too scared to do so because ohnoes, they don't want to be mean.

Either tell him off, embarrass the fuck out of him, or block him. Don't entertain such an idiot because it's clear what he's really trying to do and the only reason he does it is because he's trying to woo you, in some fucked up way, to bed.

Here we go.

http://www.refinery29.com/why-men-send-nude-dick-pictures#slide

It must be bad when there are articles about it out there.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Here we go.

http://www.refinery29.com/why-men-send-nude-dick-pictures#slide

...just..the..way..the..article..is..wriiten..lmao:

"This happened to Kate, 26, a publicist in Boston.."


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Posted by Damnata
*clutches her pearls*

PEOPLE DO THAT?!

I have a profile up so once in a bluemoon I check my inbox. First time I found a dick picture I went on google to search for appropiate social etiquette in responding.

I mean how does one reply to that? "Um, thanks I guess"? "That's original"? "Oh, how cuteee"?

Mostly what went through my mind was "What is it in my profile that would invite someone to expose themselves?"

If men do that then that means they get results by doing that or it wouldn't be as common as search results indicate. So I assume they use it as a filter to gauge who's down to fuck quickly and who's not. I wanted to conduct an experiment to figure it out so I did reply to some dick pics to ask what was up..they never got back to me so I assume language turned them off.

proper thing to do is block thm lol.hats what i do. I don mimd if i knkw fh person i just shake it off and retend i ddnt see it but a stranfer HELL NO.

Posted by Rabbit
Some chick at work freaked out when some guy sent her a picture of his peen.

I told her to find a picture of the biggest, girthiest, meanest looking dick on the internet and send it back to him with "Here's mine!"

It usually stops them from texting.

THIS is the best response haha.

Posted by TokerX

Posted by WateryGem
Is this the new norm that people send dick pics and women send pics of themselves before they actually get to know each other? Why is it normal for men to send dick pics?

How do people bond emotionally if this is how the relationships start? I had this conversation with a gf of mine when she told me her trainer just showed her a dick pic to her, like he was trying to entice her into having sex with him. LOL My eyes about popped out of my head.. I would die laughing if some guy friend of mine or whatever, just shows me his penis. LOL

Is this for real? I will be single forever if this is the case.. LOL

Single it is...
Don't get it either though.
Actually seems to be more like an American thing. They seem to be very sexually frustrated. Maybe if like they'd be more open about sex and not be taught that it's the work of the devil, they might act normal about it. :/

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LOL I think your behind a few centuries as it is the exact opposite is the issue this current america no longer has religious beliefs its about doing as they want with no repercussions.. been that way since they stopped wearing suits to sporting events >

The response all depends on what you feel about what you're seeing. Personally, nudity doesn't bother me. I do find it off putting when random men send a dick pic. If it's a truly fine specimen they might get a compliment. If it's not (and there are some truly weird looking dicks out there!), then they'll get a neutral "yep, that's a penis." Or if they're totally creepy, they get blocked.

Wow wh

oops darn phone ...

Wow what has the world come to? I meet a guy few weeks ago he asked me to send him my CV/resume ...I thought that was strange. But gentalia pics? OMG how trashy!

"women lie when they wear make-up"...
What kind of nincompoop thinks I actually have glittery gold eye lids!!? 😛

Posted by LillyBlossom

Posted by MoonArtist
The response all depends on what you feel about what you're seeing. Personally, nudity doesn't bother me. I do find it off putting when random men send a dick pic. If it's a truly fine specimen they might get a compliment. If it's not (and there are some truly weird looking dicks out there!), then they'll get a neutral "yep, that's a penis." Or if they're totally creepy, they get blocked.

I disagree. I think the response all depends on how you feel about the person the peepee is connected to. I think women tolerate the nastiest shiz when they like the guy. It's kind of how guys find snort-laughs "cute" on a girl they like, and absolutely annoying and gross as hell on a girl they can't stand. Tolerance, threshholds, and all of that yada...

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No, it really depends on how liberal minded one is about nudity and body parts, and how completely analytical one can be at viewing such things. There are some truly odd looking dicks, and some that are downright gorgeous. I know, people don't usually think dicks look good, but the ones that do have proportions, shape, and texture/skin tone all nicely balanced. Maybe it's the artist in me, and maybe I'm also able to be completely analytical about what I'm viewing, and maybe I'm also liberally minded........ok, I'm all three. lol

Just because I see one doesn't mean I'm going to jump on it, have sex with it, etc. It's just a body part. No one gets weird about hands, or fingers, noses, lips, etc. so why should we do that for breasts, vaginas and penises? I'm part of society that is hell bent on getting rid of outdated, silly and hurtful modes of thinking/being.

i usually tell them my real name is lorena bobbitt. magically, no more dick pics.