What are you REALLY thinking....

Men.....when your getting some are you looking at imperfections or are you enjoying the moment or both? Often wondered this, can you tell me a time when you were really into her and notice something that makes you say WTF? Or something that blows your mind?

Women....same question and how do you feel about someone you are incredibly sexual attracted to but then falls short in size or performance, is that running thru your head or are you just trying to make the best of it?

Random thoughts, humor me....

Well... for me... if I have come this far in the seduction, I have already ruled out any 'imperfections' in the physical sense of the word. So yes... it is just THIS moment that I am thinking of... lost only in 'the SHE and the I'. I will continue to be blind throughout the honeymoon phase. The WTF's come after that at some point.... more having to do with the 'WHY' SHE might be acting a certain way... or the riddles she might create that are without any resolve.

The only time I am looking for the perfect body is in my dreams in my head, Whatever he has if I am already captured is fine by me...Haven't experienced anything small...but have had the where the f*** did that come from a couple of times!!!!

Well I kinda asked about size too, I take the blame. Thanks for y'all's answers.

Posted by brianc213
Well when I am, excuse my french, feeling horny I don't usually look for imperfections I am just in the moment. When I am making love because I am in a romantic mood yes imperfections do become a bit obvious to me. It's as if your eyes are naturally looking for something that will ruin what seems like a perfect moment if that makes sense. Though for fear of hurting the other persons feelings we keep those thoughts bottled in. But yes that's why I look for (in my opinion) someone that fits my criteria of what an attractive woman should look like, that way the likely hood of seeking out imperfections becomes minimal.

I don't think that is REALLY French. 😉

This topic has me lost in lovely thoughts here at work....... mmmm...... but to answer your question as a female...I'm probably a lil more critical when its pure effing. Like flashes between 'oh this is hot' and 'hmm, not keen on that'. Where, when its deeply emotional I'm floating in a whole different space...its otherworldly and everything is perfection...of course I'm talking about early relationship love making, not years down the road stuff...we won't even go there.

Posted by Layna
My bf's ex had 6 toes on one foot.

He's all like, "Please keep your socks on."

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by GemJenn
I was just wondering how people really felt....I have take the obvious size up when I first see a man naked. My Cap I've been dating for 7 months is a skinny sexy white boy that looks like a black man from the waist down lol so no complaints at all! I'm more so looking are they gentle are they in love making mode or I want it now mode which I like both who doesn't but want it to be a great connection with slow kissing and such...

not all black man look that way, they are some that look like a "skinny white boy"( as you just said) .... very stereotypical....

Well good to know wasn't trying to be disrespectful at all, sorry if I came across that way