what in shut-in person

i want to ask what is shut-in person be like? and what should i do if i want to make a relationship with them?

The Gem who treats you like crap? Why on earth would you want to subject yourself to more of that?

Bring a hazmat suit.

A shut-in by choice or by circumstances?

Posted by Koniuchaa
Like a hermit?

Yess but maybe its more worst.. do you know how to getting along with them?

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
The Gem who treats you like crap? Why on earth would you want to subject yourself to more of that?

I dont know i still want him so bad 😢 what i have supposed to do? I cant forget him like a blink of an eye

Posted by Whorpio
Bring a hazmat suit.

What is hazmat suit?

Posted by Deedee86
A shut-in by choice or by circumstances?

I dont know but i think by choice. Do you have any idea to getting closer with them?

I had a friend from university like this, I don’t know what happened exactly but he had to stay inside and if we tried to force him to go out with us like to a bar, he’d get so nervous that he’d be sick. He’d be sick with nerves just at the thought of going on a date.

After university, he went on online dating and after a couple of years found a girl like him, who was scared to go outside too. And eventually they talked and got to know each other and now they go outside together. Kinda sweet when you think about it.

That's right...

blame the introvert/recluse.

Posted by blackphase
You have been making a ton of threads about this guy and looking for anything you can to blame his behaviour for why it's not working out.. I recently saw you say in another thread "he is someone that kind of have an issue like shut-in person" ... Just because someone is a shut in does not mean they have issues.. It's a life style choice.. You've been having tons of issues with this guy, but it's not because he is a shut in..

It's not me blame his self being shut in person. he blaime his self.

Posted by AriesJo
I had a friend from university like this, I don’t know what happened exactly but he had to stay inside and if we tried to force him to go out with us like to a bar, he’d get so nervous that he’d be sick. He’d be sick with nerves just at the thought of going on a date.

After university, he went on online dating and after a couple of years found a girl like him, who was scared to go outside too. And eventually they talked and got to know each other and now they go outside together. Kinda sweet when you think about it.

Thats really sweet story 🙂 i wish i can be like that too with him 🙂

Posted by NINETYNINE
Introverted?

yess he is

You can always try but in my experience, it was a way too mentally aka emotionally exhausting relationship after a year when he often MIA and was a master of making excuses. (especially if he's a Gem guy)

Let's hope he isn't a type of taking all your effort getting close to him for granted.

What if it's shut-in gamer. With anxiety, depression and PTSD?