When you love someone...... (Page 2)

I can.....still doing it. It hurts but if you truly loved them..then you should be able to be happy for them no matter what.

For me...I have no choice! Not only is he my friend he's my boss and I enjoy my job too much to leave it right now (and really can't afford to with the economy as it is)

We are both serious about our jobs and both hold a strong belief that it's just not a good idea to date a co-worker. I also have no idea if he has any romantic feelings towards me. (I think he clearly cares about me but I don't know how far it goes..maybe it's better that way) So even though I want him I have to accept that we are only going to be friends. If I didn't get to see his smile or hear his laugh or just be able to talk to him it would hurt like hell so I will take those little pieces instead of not having him at all!

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I can.....still doing it. It hurts but if you truly loved them..then you should be able to be happy for them no matter what.

ok, and if they truly love you and want you to be happy..... what happens now?

Whose happiness gets to be compromised?

Bling, you were cooler back when you were a scorpio 😄 all this Libra 🙂 🙂 🙂 gives me the creeps.

And to all of those people who said "NO, I CANT" to this thread...

You dont love that person, you only love yourself and the ego boost you get by being with that person, if you truly loved a person you'd think of her/his needs first BEFORE your own selfish ones.

I'm only 19, but I have been in this situation a couple of times.I often feel like whatever is holding the man in my heart from me would soon come out thye further I move along with him. I learned that most of the young guys I've dealt with were very immature. They would always tell me sweet things, and respect me, but wouldn't show me the real love I deserved when we were alone together. I'm wise beyond my years, I'm told all the time, but I don't think the guys in my age group and a little older are ready for me...I also have to be true to myself when choosing what I trully want.

If I love you and you don't love me then please go forth and be happy with whomever but I don't really need you hanging around, reminding me constantly that you don't like me.

I don't really see how that is selfish but happy to have someone point out where I am wrong here.