Sag89
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Once you've had sex a hundred times or more, anything's possible, you begin to lose libido, so you need stronger things, thrills, to get you there. it's not healthy though.
My cap was caught watching porn which he swore he hated. He said it was low brow and what is wrong with men in our culture today. I guess it's what's wrong with him too. He took it a step further and began sex chatting and when I asked if I took off my clothes and let someone master bate would he be cool with it (?) He said if I watched porn our sex life is over. Funny thing is our sex life is over. I moved out the next day. I miss him a lot, but when we get together he refuses to acknowledge how he hurt me. I mean, to be with someone 5 years that claims they find porn degrading and a turn off, and learn they are hooking up with chick on sex date sites is a real blow. And he turned me on in bed so that is a total bummer. However, he was the love of my life (or so i thought) and my favorite guitar player in the world and I am still reckoning with what has gone on. I know one thing for sure.....I need an ego boost. No matter how shallow it may seem, the only thing that is gonna rebuild my confidence after this huge blow to my ego is getting back on the horse....so to speak. It was my x that turned me on to this site. He has been hooking up with chick's here and I figured what's good for the goose....— I figure that considering I learned here that Cap 1's and Libra 2's (me) are completely incompatible, I might see what astrological sign IS a match. Lets see if the universe doesn't do a better job choosing a mate for me than I have. Wouldn't take too much.
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My cap was caught watching porn which he swore he hated. He said it was low brow and what is wrong with men in our culture today. I guess it's what's wrong with him too. He took it a step further and began sex chatting and when I asked if I took off my clothes and let someone master bate would he be cool with it (?) He said if I watched porn our sex life is over. Funny thing is our sex life is over. I moved out the next day. I miss him a lot, but when we get together he refuses to acknowledge how he hurt me. I mean, to be with someone 5 years that claims they find porn degrading and a turn off, and learn they are hooking up with chick on sex date sites is a real blow. And he turned me on in bed so that is a total bummer. However, he was the love of my life (or so i thought) and my favorite guitar player in the world and I am still reckoning with what has gone on. I know one thing for sure.....I need an ego boost. No matter how shallow it may seem, the only thing that is gonna rebuild my confidence after this huge blow to my ego is getting back on the horse....so to speak. It was my x that turned me on to this site. He has been hooking up with chick's here and I figured what's good for the goose....— I figure that considering I learned here that Cap 1's and Libra 2's (me) are completely incompatible, I might see what astrological sign IS a match. Lets see if the universe doesn't do a better job choosing a mate for me than I have. Wouldn't take too much.
I would avoid it at all costs. It's not a good thing to crave, and will completely destroy the one of the good things humans have left. You haven't done the act, only thought about it which is good, but you need to break away from its control. It doesn't want to help or heal you, just hurt and destroy your spirit. It's like torture in your mortal state.
You're taking somthing that should be honored and kept holy then covering it in filth by giving it away to others. You feel a deep intense lust when you think about it, but your spirits are in distress. It's making its way to your short life here on earth, and will change you for the worse.
You're taking somthing that should be honored and kept holy then covering it in filth by giving it away to others. You feel a deep intense lust when you think about it, but your spirits are in distress. It's making its way to your short life here on earth, and will change you for the worse.
I didn't get to burning in eternal Hellfire part or anything.
I'm just saying anything that can take control of you and manipulate your mind, sexual desires, or anything else is bad for you. Anything from a fetish or drugs to simply eating food.
Everyone on this planet just looks at all the other people and tells them "I don't give a fuck what you do, as long as it makes you happy."
But I see the world that mindset has created, and tend to give a fuck.
I'm just saying anything that can take control of you and manipulate your mind, sexual desires, or anything else is bad for you. Anything from a fetish or drugs to simply eating food.
Everyone on this planet just looks at all the other people and tells them "I don't give a fuck what you do, as long as it makes you happy."
But I see the world that mindset has created, and tend to give a fuck.
Posted by Soulincluding self righteousness?
I didn't get to burning in eternal Hellfire part or anything.
I'm just saying anything that can take control of you and manipulate your mind, sexual desires, or anything else is bad for you. Anything from a fetish or drugs to simply eating food.
Everyone on this planet just looks at all the other people and tells them "I don't give a fuck what you do, as long as it makes you happy."
But I see the world that mindset has created, and tend to give a fuck.
Posted by Sag89Bring another chick into the picture and satisfy your curiosity and fantasy.
Is it normal to fantasize about your partnering having sex with someone else? It's the only way I can cum. I like thinking about that when we are having sex more than thinking about us having sex. ( No I would never tell my partner this ) Yes I am attracted to them I guess I just don't turn myself on? Haha
Anyone? 😐 don't judge me...
Posted by Sag89yes, it's normal for people to have certain fantasies in place to reach orgasm. Voyeurism is common.
Is it normal to fantasize about your partnering having sex with someone else?
don't judge me
why do people say, "don't judge me"? How ridiculous. What people think of you has no bearing on who you are, so why would a person be worried about it.
irrational fear ... I guess caused from insecurities
Posted by Rambunctious76How long can a fantasy stay just that until the creator tries to make it a reality? Fantasies make themselves a reality through control over imagination and creativity.
All that OP asked was if her fantasy was normal. She didn't ask if she should persuade her partner to have sex with someone else.
Posted by jeaneYes.Posted by Soulincluding self righteousness?
I didn't get to burning in eternal Hellfire part or anything.
I'm just saying anything that can take control of you and manipulate your mind, sexual desires, or anything else is bad for you. Anything from a fetish or drugs to simply eating food.
Everyone on this planet just looks at all the other people and tells them "I don't give a fuck what you do, as long as it makes you happy."
But I see the world that mindset has created, and tend to give a fuck.click to expand
When the whole world has gone insane those who speak logic will be labeled outcasts.
Posted by Rambunctious76She should have her fantasy carried out to satisfy it. Then maybe no more fantasy.
All that OP asked was if her fantasy was normal. She didn't ask if she should persuade her partner to have sex with someone else.
Posted by Sag89well, who defines whats normal anyway? 🙂 so i wouldnt worry much about whats consdiered ''normal'' or ''abnormal'' 🙂
Is it normal to fantasize about your partnering having sex with someone else? It's the only way I can cum. I like thinking about that when we are having sex more than thinking about us having sex. ( No I would never tell my partner this ) Yes I am attracted to them I guess I just don't turn myself on? Haha
Anyone? 😐 don't judge me...
Posted by Arielle83😄 i like you
No I'm like this too.
I watch porn. I like to watch. I get turned on when chicks think my husband is hot. The thought of him doing it with somone in front of me is erotic and I think of him dominating. It's just a fantasy.
My mind goes all different places, every orgasm.
I mean you aren't going to ask him to do it unless you want to open it up.
When I was 19, I let my bf fuck a girl in front of me. It turned me on so I joined in. I wasn't in love. I think it's a power play that turns me on. I like seeing ppl turned on. Oh well it's just kink and fantasy.
And thanks for all the replies peeps, I know you love these sex talks
Posted by tizianiTttt!
Definitely a power play. I felt intoxicated that they would perform for me like that, like my own private screenings.
Some times were not good or anticlimactic because you could tell they were not into it or not comfortable enough to be themselves.
But the times when they were, and you could see them getting their pleasure out of it - that is the peak of voyeur mountain right there.
I get crazy turned on when I think about other women having sex with my boyfriend because he's like casanova - everyone's best - and so I want that for other women. It comes from a good place. Haha.
You have that Hot Wife fetish. When the guy likes when his girl is desired by other guys. It feeds the ego like Threesome fetish. Its not that big of a deal as long as you Dont act on it. Have her do some roleplaying and explain its just a fantasy.
Posted by Sag89Yep. My ex cheated on me and the woman contacted me. I ended up setting up a date to have drinks with her. OMG...the thought of him with another woman SO turned me on. I couldn't tell him though, because he's a stick in the mud. Mr. Traditional. My current bf and I talk a lot about threesomes and orgies. Usually it's while we're cuddling after sex. Weird right? He's had a few threesomes with women. I've NEVER had a threesome, but mine would have to be with two guys. So far, I've convinced two manly males to let me have my way. I just didn't follow through. I've worn him down from saying no, to maybe...especially if I got him drunk enough. For him, that would be the ULTIMATE expression of trust...in my opinion. If he were to allow another man in the bedroom with us, then I'd truly know that he's capable of putting my happiness first.
Is it normal to fantasize about your partnering having sex with someone else? It's the only way I can cum. I like thinking about that when we are having sex more than thinking about us having sex. ( No I would never tell my partner this ) Yes I am attracted to them I guess I just don't turn myself on? Haha
Anyone? 😐 don't judge me...
Posted by febyPosted by FinbuffI was hoping you would reply. I have so much to show you.Posted by febyExactly! But she'll fit right in, on this site.
Listen what can I tell you....you're a freak. It's best just accept it now rather than fight it.
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Posted by P_AndsYou're so angry! What did that poor snake do to you?
snakes man so many around these parts
I would be thrilled if he included me or fanasized about me but that is not the case. It is his preferred form of sexual gratification and I am left out and lonely. This isn't about being up tight. It's about being left out. Is it just my ego? A bit but it's also my self confidence and an active labido. I have been forbid den to indulge in porn. So I packed up and left and am returning to the ridiculous world of dsting....eventually
I get off on that shit, I'd get off on my bf fucking someone and him watching me get fucked aswell lol
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