Why did I bother?

So, i failed miserably in my attempt to cater to my Taurus. I'm so irritated.

My grandmother was in town from last Wednesday until yesterday. So all of our time was spent at my brothers house. I know this was really stressful for my bull and he did so graciously. 🙂

Well, on Sunday afternoon, we went back to our place, and i couldn't beleive it. A girlfriend of mine from the Army got in touch with me on Facebook. This was over 15 years ago that i have seen or spoken to her. She was there for me through all of the misery of my ex-husband. She drove 4 1/5 hours to pick me up at the airport cuz my ex "forgot". i mean, she was such a great friend.

However, i haven't talked about her to him. She just never came up. SOOO

while we were at home on a break from Grandma, he was playing a video game, i was thinking about her and it brought back a FLOOD of horrible memories of my ex husband. overwhelming me. I go to the living room, and i see my baby playing and know he hasn't had much game tie, so i think.. i have to tell him about her and our history. I almost felt like i was keeping a secret from him and that wasn't a great feeling at all. Last thing i wanted was to be having a conversation with her on the phone since i know she is going to ask what happened, and him hear some things he may not care to hear. So i think to my self, ok, let him play and ask him when he isn't focused on his game, to give me some time to tell him about her. I told him it wasn't anything bad, just history so he can see why she means the world to me, and i have been looking for her, just never talked about her.

So i interupt him and let him know and he's like umm ok. i said seriously nothing crazy just history.

So, we drive 20 min to my bro's house, nothing... drive home.. nothing... next day... on MOnday nothing. Now i get pissed. i didn't say anything just left it alone. he texts me late in the afternoon before going home, "i feel a vibe.. are you ok". (he really scares me with that!) i quickly in text explained that you know.. i was trying to make things easier on you, more convenient instead of interupting you, and you still haven't given the OK.

well this lite a match under his ass! UGH. it wasn't a blow up, but a heated discussion about it.

I don't get it. I try to be nice and i get punched in the gut (not really but you know)

So that ruined Mrs Nice one.. he SOOOO will be interupted without a second thought next time. MEN

LMAO thanks for translating so well castor.

that's pretty much it. I was thoughtful, can't you be in return?

You need to share that with another gf...not many men are going to have the reaction you require and you will be disappointed even more!

Posted by castorandpollux
😄DD We are a handful and them some! hahaha

But it's hard for us to remember that others - esp Earth signs - they're not so fluid in their activity. Jumping from thing to thing and then back again is easy for us but it's really not for them. Maybe if you put it this way to yourself you won't get so frustrated. That's what I've learned to do and it really helps - most of the time lol

You're right castor... UGH i keep forgetting that with him because he has quite a bit of gemini in his charts and so in some alot of cases, he acts more on the lines like me. So i forget that.