A little venus in scorp action....

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newcomers might not get that from this video ... looking at it, I'm thinking, "what a smuck/loser that guy is." (me) Well, there is no question I ask that I don't already know the answer to ... and for some reason she just doesn't have a very good memory when it comes to what she's been up to. Maybe this vid is pittiful, or maybe you guys can find amusement picking out the lies. I'm thinking the title should be: "How a girl acts when she's totally done with you but needs to crash at your place for a while longer."

this is 3min out of 30 ... can't show the really good stuff yet

enjoy:

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so, we did break up this morning again ... lol ... got it all on tape.

I left a message on the other guy's phone to explain how high the stakes are for her and give him a chance to be the one to back away. He just texted me back and seemed ok with the message I left.

I'm trying to get her to start packing this weekend, but she hasn't started yet. I think she's having a (hopefully) final talk with the other guy now.


Oh, well, I've got some fucking awesome footage ... some of it unfortunately is audio only though.
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lol, I had clarity after watching those tapes back. So weird how different your perception of a situation is when you are experiencing it vs. watching from the outside.

I'd almost recomend that everyone who is confused in a relationship just tape themselves interacting with the person they are confused about.

Anyway, she spent the day yestderday looking at places to stay ... but, no freaking packing action going on yet. You guys have any ideas on how to keep the momentum going to actually get her out of my house? Do I just become an annoying asshole all the time? What does it take to get her to actually leave?

I'm too nice to put her on the street when she only has $ 300 to her name. And today she was trying to find a friend to go to that festival with and offering to by one girl drinks for her b-day if she would go .... I'm just thinking, "how is this consistent with you saving enough money to move the fuck out?"

Oh well, I'm just gonna keep filming. The cool thing is that she is used to seeing my cameras around all the time. All I have to do is turn them on. It will be great until she finds the 1st one running ... haha, that will probably cost me a camera, but hopefully she will throw it before she turns it off.

It's funny, this morning she was saving all her text messages with that other dude for her book. I was thinking about telling her that she should do a vlog of her life instead 😉
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...and the 1st day that she met that other guy at a bar, I didn't know what was going on yet, but I knew something was up. I threw all her shit in boxes and stacked it on front porch. my problem is that after I'm done being mad, i keep taking her ass back.

ok, here is me pointing out how badly she lies to me ... sorry, audio only on this clip.

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ok, so for anyone watching these clips, you have to understand that it is really bad for her to hook up with the guy she's in love with. imagine that the other guy is her boss' husband. In reality, it would be even worse than that for her if she hooks up with him.

oh, but it's no problem for the guy to be with her. So, I wanted to call the guy and make sure he understands how bad it really was for her. I did, and he understood and backed off. He actually cared about her more than a chance at her kitty too. She's at the concert now that she was hoping he would meet her at ... blaming me for fucking everything up.

In this clip, i'm just trying to get away from her long enough to call him. but I got the chance to just flat out fuck with her a little and I took it. ffw to the end for that if you don't like the audio only part.

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i gotta say. you worry the fuckk outta me. it starts out with looking through phones, then monitoring phone calls, then following people, who knows how far u will go. most of all, your like the scariest kind of psychopath, you come with a kool-aid smile. do you know your own threshold for pain? have you involved any of your friends or family into your dealings? or do u keep it a secret?

ive been in your shoes where i had to learn my threshold for pain the hard way. dont let this consume you. dont let the game play you dude.
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Hey, I haven't even gone through her phone since we've officially broken up. yes, my best friend here in town knows everything I've been up to ... can't wait to show him some of the video. But no, I don't share with my family ... this is too freaky for them ... just the fact that she is a cheater and I'm still letting her sleep in my bed is TMI for family.

I don't monitor her calls ... she just happens to text a lot, so I can get a pretty clear idea of what's going on from that. BTW, it is my phone ... another recommendation for guys who want to let a girl move in: buy her a nice new phone 1st and save the receipt so you can prove it's yours. that's just being smart if you're freaking paying all the bills.

The "following" thing was only once, and just for fun. Little did I know at the time that she was in fact up to no good again! ...even though she didn't happen to go anywhere that night.

...worst I'm doing is talking smack about her here, but then I'm being all sweet when she texts me. She's really down today and I've been trying to cheer her up.

I did call her guy, he backed away once he knew the whole story. She texted me all last evening how much she hated me, that she wasn't coming home last night ... then two hours later she texted me to leave door open for her ... then crawls in bed, takes my hand, thanks me for protecting her, and says she hates me for it and loves me for it all at the same time. go figure

lol @ kool-aid smile ... thanks, I guess 🙂