After going off on someone

Do you feel bad?

Yes

We have a tendency to say really fucked up stuff when angry. Rather or not that person deserved it, do you feel bad after?

I usually do - not for them, but rather disappointed in myself for stooping there.

Not a sag and it really depends. If the peron tkes it nicely or dignified then yes. otherwise idgaf.

Posted by SuperMissMan
Not a sag and it really depends. If the peron tkes it nicely or dignified then yes. otherwise idgaf.

See this is exactly why I am disappointed when I do go off on someone - even when they deserve it - because I think it's better to let the other person feel like the asshole.

No matter how bad they bait you, it's better to not respond because then they will just feel like an ass later....when you respond with like behavior, they don't feel bad, only you do.

Posted by brianafay

Posted by SuperMissMan
Not a sag and it really depends. If the peron tkes it nicely or dignified then yes. otherwise idgaf.

See this is exactly why I am disappointed when I do go off on someone - even when they deserve it - because I think it's better to let the other person feel like the asshole.

No matter how bad they bait you, it's better to not respond because then they will just feel like an ass later....when you respond with like behavior, they don't feel bad, only you do.

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Lmao like to not look stupid by gettin mad n let them. I have waaaaay too mny experiances were i ended up lookim like a total dumbass wih my mouth.
But at the sme time i cant find peace until i hurt someone who fucks with me big time but thy deserv it at that point.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
I was really bad at just saying shit on the fly when angry when I was younger, but I try to pick and choose my battles now that I'm older so when I get "exorcist" on someone, they really do deserve it.

same. But I still feel bad even then because I am such a savage

Posted by brianafay
Do you feel bad?

Generally, yes. Only because what I say is killer. My words cut deep and the feels last for a long time after I've gone so I really don't want to be pushed to go there. And what I say in the heat of the moment would be quite apt in your current situation so it will just fester around your head and stay with you when you get home, have a cup of tea, take a shit, go to sleep etc.

Last week I told a co-worker a few choice words (she's a cap). For the past year she's been trying to give me hell, so I made my moment and verbally fucked her up. Her time was coming. It was that bad she went outside and smoked two fags back-to-back and did not return back to work. Hold that you dirty bitch.

I do reflect back and feel quite bad and I have had regrets because when I'm angry I can't really account for what I've said. Sometimes (once I've calmed down) I can't really remember word-for-word what was said. It's like the anger takes over and I black out. This part of me I feel is quite dangerous because I simply lose control. Best not make me go there, I say.

No. Ive probably already held back for quite sometime and then ppl keep pushing me.

Posted by Ninjagirl

Posted by brianafay
Do you feel bad?

Generally, yes. Only because what I say is killer. My words cut deep and the feels last for a long time after I've gone so I really don't want to be pushed to go there. And what I say in the heat of the moment would be quite apt in your current situation so it will just fester around your head and stay with you when you get home, have a cup of tea, take a shit, go to sleep etc.

Last week I told a co-worker a few choice words (she's a cap). For the past year she's been trying to give me hell, so I made my moment and verbally fucked her up. Her time was coming. It was that bad she went outside and smoked two fags back-to-back and did not return back to work. Hold that you dirty bitch.

I do reflect back and feel quite bad and I have had regrets because when I'm angry I can't really account for what I've said. Sometimes (once I've calmed down) I can't really remember word-for-word what was said. It's like the anger takes over and I black out. This part of me I feel is quite dangerous because I simply lose control. Best not make me go there, I say.

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Omg you should read my posts about my cap coworker ...bitch has it coming. I would like to think I won't feel bad about that one

Posted by DMV
No. Ive probably already held back for quite sometime and then ppl keep pushing me.

Me too.

Imagine how much diplomacy, coolness and tolerance a Moon in Pisces and year of Rabbit prescribe this Sagittarius additionally. So when I have to hurt someone they are not innocent at all. At that moment of time.

Back to OP: yes, I feel bad then. Cause it means Rabbit/Cat/PiMoon lost its oxygen (=peace/harmony). I feel their pain and it is a lose-lose situation.