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ooooo im having problems with my aries friend. she is so freakin bossey sometimes.. everything has to be done her way. usually i go with the flow but dammit, im gettin tired of someone asking my opinion and just going with their own thing.

se what happen was today is aour gemini friends bday pool party. we brought him an erotic torso cake, her idea. so she did everything and shes then asks me what what i think. when the cake is already done. then she ask me how should we present it. i give her my idea. she decides to do her own thing. ugh so what the hell did u ask me in the first place?

her bf is a taurus and she walks all over him. this relationship is bound for glory because he worships the ground she walks on. i see that kind of relationship rearing its ugly head in our friendship.

b4, a mutual taurus girl friend asked ME to make her a penis cake. aries just invited herself to help out and she ended up doing the cake herself and picking the way she wanted to do the cake. i was annoyed but i let it go.

so now tonight, im not going to the pool party and i havent answered her calls or textss. let her do the whole damn thing herself. she always wants to run the show.

usually im real good about going with the flow. but this time around really irked me. instead of it being a team project, she took control and did it all herself.

im done.
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@DMV. Is this the Aries that was being nice to the Scorp after the b.s. He pulled?

Besides Sags, it's hard for me to deal with female fire signs. I don't do well with bossy chicks. That's why some Scorp females and I can't roll tight.



yeah same girl. ive been rethinking my friendship with her. she also did something last november that i will never forget...
i was having a party and i went upstairs to change, i came down stairs laughing and giggling and i saw her sitting on the scorps lap. it took alot of effort to maintain that same giggly attitude. she was sitting on his lap and stroking his hair. he didnt seem all that impressed. after he noticed that i was downstairs, he quickly removed her from his lap.

i will never forget that. she knew i liked him, so why the hell would she sit on his lap like that.

i like aries an all but you cant trust them around your interests, boyfriend, or husbands (from what ive heard).
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He's my ex BF Leo from 20 years ago lol. But still very nosy, and controlling even though he's my best buddy ever. I've been a little down lately from working too much and it just so happens I had some bruises on my arm from who knows where. He's like you're seeing someone and didn't tell me. I'm like what you see has nothing to do with seeing anyone and it really isn't tour concern. When I initially told him about the Scorp last year, he went onto a tirade about how dumb I was and this guy was no good and blah blah blah. Needless to say I was like, no more discussing that with him. I was bymyself for over three years before the Scorp and I think it rubbed him the wrong way when I started seeing someone. Anyway, thiswhole thing ensued about if we're reallyfriends why can't you tell me. What do you mean I'm judgmental and hard to talk to sometimes and blah blah blah.

He's very hurt about this and for some reason Im feeling very stubborn. I'm not trying to roll over on this as normal. He needs to get off of his high horse and stop playing the perfect martyr role. He's a Leowith a Cancer rising. Yikes. Supersensitive can do no wrong even with 100 flaws. Let you do the tiniest thing and it's WWWIII. I'm sad, but i thinker Newark gothrough this.
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@DMV. Is this the Aries that was being nice to the Scorp after the b.s. He pulled?

Besides Sags, it's hard for me to deal with female fire signs. I don't do well with bossy chicks. That's why some Scorp females and I can't roll tight.



yeah same girl. ive been rethinking my friendship with her. she also did something last november that i will never forget...
i was having a party and i went upstairs to change, i came down stairs laughing and giggling and i saw her sitting on the scorps lap. it took alot of effort to maintain that same giggly attitude. she was sitting on his lap and stroking his hair. he didnt seem all that impressed. after he noticed that i was downstairs, he quickly removed her from his lap.

i will never forget that. she knew i liked him, so why the hell would she sit on his lap like that.

i like aries an all but you cant trust them around your interests, boyfriend, or husbands (from what ive heard).
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Hmph. You have a lot of patience. That's why my female friends are few. I would really blow my stack over that. Seems like she may be in competition with you. I don't like to have people like that close to me.
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i get along with scorp females when they arent preachy, agressive, or bossy.



I Haven't met one that isn't like that yet. One GF of mine actually almost got us into a fight because she wanted to cut a line, and just didn't understand what the big deal was. I was like you're out of your damn mind! I had to grab her and hightail it outta there. Needless to say we didn't roll tight after that. Hehe.
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He's my ex BF Leo from 20 years ago lol. But still very nosy, and controlling even though he's my best buddy ever. I've been a little down lately from working too much and it just so happens I had some bruises on my arm from who knows where. He's like you're seeing someone and didn't tell me. I'm like what you see has nothing to do with seeing anyone and it really isn't tour concern. When I initially told him about the Scorp last year, he went onto a tirade about how dumb I was and this guy was no good and blah blah blah. Needless to say I was like, no more discussing that with him. I was bymyself for over three years before the Scorp and I think it rubbed him the wrong way when I started seeing someone. Anyway, thiswhole thing ensued about if we're reallyfriends why can't you tell me. What do you mean I'm judgmental and hard to talk to sometimes and blah blah blah.

He's very hurt about this and for some reason Im feeling very stubborn. I'm not trying to roll over on this as normal. He needs to get off of his high horse and stop playing the perfect martyr role. He's a Leowith a Cancer rising. Yikes. Supersensitive can do no wrong even with 100 flaws. Let you do the tiniest thing and it's WWWIII. I'm sad, but i thinker Newark gothrough this.



when i put on my facebook that i was in a relatinship, my ex leo was the 1st to comment on it. dude doesnt comment on anything. i could tell he was bothered by it. even though, hes had a gf for quite some time. so i understand your frustrations with your leo ex.

leos like to be adorned and the fact that youve moved on does hurt him. can you blame him?

the leo wont ever get over you or the relationship. even as friends, it will be hard for him to really hear the details even though he says he wants 2. imo, its also a way for him to keep a onnection with you, if u keep talking to him about your current relationship u know??
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@DMV. Is this the Aries that was being nice to the Scorp after the b.s. He pulled?

Besides Sags, it's hard for me to deal with female fire signs. I don't do well with bossy chicks. That's why some Scorp females and I can't roll tight.



yeah same girl. ive been rethinking my friendship with her. she also did something last november that i will never forget...
i was having a party and i went upstairs to change, i came down stairs laughing and giggling and i saw her sitting on the scorps lap. it took alot of effort to maintain that same giggly attitude. she was sitting on his lap and stroking his hair. he didnt seem all that impressed. after he noticed that i was downstairs, he quickly removed her from his lap.

i will never forget that. she knew i liked him, so why the hell would she sit on his lap like that.

i like aries an all but you cant trust them around your interests, boyfriend, or husbands (from what ive heard).



Hmph. You have a lot of patience. That's why my female friends are few. I would really blow my stack over that. Seems like she may be in competition with you. I don't like to have people like that close to me.
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yeah i know. i have a high threshold, but im putting her in timeout right now.

i see the benefits of our friendship, so i put up with alot. the fact that she has a boyfriend is good, less of a chance of me being annoyed.