Sagg Txt me today

So I broke up with him about 5 weeks ago and he texts me today: him: I think about you a lot, too bad huh?

I just replied: that's all I ever wanted, but I also wanted you to show it more.

him 🙂
All About you

I am speechless.

Why would he "show more" when you were dating someone else when you were seeing him too?

It's all about YOU.

It's not all about me, I was trying to make it all about him but he didn't put forth effort so that's when I started dating other people.

sagi/scorp mess *sigh* i still miss my ex scorp. wish we could have stayed friends

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Posted by scorpdiva
It's not all about me, I was trying to make it all about him but he didn't put forth effort so that's when I started dating other people.

lol
Why put effort into someone that's 'pass-around' ?
Is that way too much like common sense or am I missing an emotional compartment to thing here ?
🙂

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IGNORE😱 You don't know the whole situation and don't assume cause when you do you make an Ass out of you, if I was so pass around he would put me on his hoe list and keep it movin wouldn't you think, I might date a lot but I don't go around sleeping with all men for your information and if I did I am 32 yrs old and I do as I please you need to get you a women or date and maybe you wouldn't be on her so much

FUCKING IDIOT..............

Posted by happykitsune
sagi/scorp mess *sigh* i still miss my ex scorp. wish we could have stayed friends

It's going to always be like that you will miss each other, me and that Sagg, he did text me yesterday but we are able to be friends and I am happy because that is all I wanted since we broke up ............

Posted by Sagittarius89
Why would he "show more" when you were dating someone else when you were seeing him too?

It's all about YOU.

When I think about it I was kinda selfish towards the end when I didn't get my way, so you have a point Sagg 89 but at the same time I was only dating others and not getting serious but I felt if he would made his feelings and actions knowed I wouldn't have felt the need to date others which let me break down from some people doesn't always include sex......

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Okay then
'not including sex', mutliple dating always = not a keeper/long term person.
You can't wriggle your way out of such a situation, and one/other/both probably has less self esteem than the other in a teensy weensy liddle way.
🙂

I get your point, That's why at this point I really don't want a relaltionship with anybody at the moment until I realize what I truly want and what will make me happy so to speak. I am content with having male friends that I can go out on dates with with no sex and I have been going good so far, he just text me out the blue and we had a friendly converstaion and nothing more......

Posted by Starfish225
Uhm, I would not waste anymore of his time or mine..

"When I think about it I was kinda selfish towards the end when I didn't get my way"

I tell you what more women need to be more selfish and think about themselves first and they
would not being going through all the drama they do.

"It's going to always be like that you will miss each other,"

I doubt it, meet a man that is good to you and treats you the way you like and deserve
you won't be thanking bout him..

Thanks Starfish, that's what I plan on doing I don't want to force any relationship and I felt like that is what me and him were doing. Right now I am content with making friends, going on some dates, and like you said just waiting for the special someone until then I am cool.

Posted by Starfish225
S😱 You can do as you like bc your grown, but if I were you and what I found out being in this situation
sometime ago. I would stop seeing men altogether, just take some time out and be alone. Deal with my girlfriends
and kids and family. It is a wonderful thing!!! Peace comes to you clarity comes to you. Nothing but positive stuff
hits your plate. And when you do that and finally realize what YOU want and your foreal about it you will draw it to you.

Point taken, I am always hanging with my girls and that's parts of the problem every time we go out I end up meeting someone and I am like here we go again, but at this point like you said above I am focusing on family, work, school and I have only been on a couple of dates with a grade school friends and he hasn't even tried to kiss me so I feel this is kinda okay because it's just a friendship and I don't look at him like that. I however did have a set back with my taurus BD but I have even learned my lesson from that, but you are so right I just need to focus on the very important things and I am thinking about changing my telephone number just to get a fresh start.

Also StarFish225 you sound a lot like my mom, she is a fish too born on 2/28 and we always have long talks about this kinda stuff. Thanks🙂

Posted by happykitsune
sagi/scorp mess *sigh* i still miss my ex scorp. wish we could have stayed friends

DITTO

Posted by Starfish225
S😱 You can do as you like bc your grown, but if I were you and what I found out being in this situation
sometime ago. I would stop seeing men altogether, just take some time out and be alone. Deal with my girlfriends
and kids and family. It is a wonderful thing!!! Peace comes to you clarity comes to you. Nothing but positive stuff
hits your plate. And when you do that and finally realize what YOU want and your foreal about it you will draw it to you.

Wow Starfish, this is so true and great advice for all of us!

Posted by scorpdiva
It's not all about me, I was trying to make it all about him but he didn't put forth effort so that's when I started dating other people.

You did nothing wrong, you are not married, he did not commit to you. Was he distant because perhaps he was seeing other women too? Men think its ok to have 3 women or more at their disposal. But women have to sit and wait for him? NOT!

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I can't stand men sometimes. Don't they get tired of constipating their emotions all of the time? If a mofo wants to have the relationship of his dreams then why can't he be a woman's knight in shining armor? It's just so stupid how they lean back and try to get the woman to chase them. Chivalry is ultra dead! Which is exactly why they end up at their homeboy's house, 10 mofos strong, playing the xbox 360 kinect, because they don't have a woman to call their own. Pathetic.

This was posted on the Taurus board..love it!

Hey Ever, are you a girl's knight in shining armor?

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I can't stand men sometimes. Don't they get tired of constipating their emotions all of the time? If a mofo wants to have the relationship of his dreams then why can't he be a woman's knight in shining armor? It's just so stupid how they lean back and try to get the woman to chase them. Chivalry is ultra dead! Which is exactly why they end up at their homeboy's house, 10 mofos strong, playing the xbox 360 kinect, because they don't have a woman to call their own. Pathetic.

This was posted on the Taurus board..love it!

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I Love it,...........

Thanks for posting this ladySagg🙂

Posted by scorpdiva

So I broke up with him about 5 weeks ago and he texts me today: him: I think about you a lot, too bad huh?

I just replied: that's all I ever wanted, but I also wanted you to show it more.

him 🙂
All About you

I am speechless.

Even he knows how easy you are .... with just a text or two, he renders you speechless, and will likely be hitting it before he wonders off again.

Yes, you were fucking multiple men at once ... if you act like a slut, then you are a slut

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by scorpdiva

So I broke up with him about 5 weeks ago and he texts me today: him: I think about you a lot, too bad huh?

I just replied: that's all I ever wanted, but I also wanted you to show it more.

him 🙂
All About you

I am speechless.

Even he knows how easy you are .... with just a text or two, he renders you speechless, and will likely be hitting it before he wonders off again.

Yes, you were fucking multiple men at once ... if you act like a slut, then you are a slut

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Excuse my french! Mind your business BITCH, I will FUCK Whoever, Whenever and how I please...........

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Boom zing !
Where's your venus, scropdiva ?

My venus in Scorp.

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Boom zing !
Where's your venus, scropdiva ?

My venus in Scorp.

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Oh scorpdiva you got a lot of scorp lol

This is Venus in Scorpio:

To win your heart, there has to be some element of surrender on the part of your mate. You want to merge into an emotional union, and will shy from those that like to keep things light and casual. It's hard for you to forgive, so it's best to stick with someone that isn't going to play games or be untrue (easier said than done, of course). You've got to be with a strong person emotionally, someone that won't easily bend to your will. The sexual side of life is amped up for you, so your partner should also have a healthy libido.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
This is Venus in Scorpio:

To win your heart, there has to be some element of surrender on the part of your mate. You want to merge into an emotional union, and will shy from those that like to keep things light and casual. It's hard for you to forgive, so it's best to stick with someone that isn't going to play games or be untrue (easier said than done, of course). You've got to be with a strong person emotionally, someone that won't easily bend to your will. The sexual side of life is amped up for you, so your partner should also have a healthy libido.

This sounds like me, I need someone who will surrender somewhat but still make sure I know that he is all men and can handle a REAL Relationship. I know I hate to get hurt and have been in the past so normally if I see that the relationship is heading that way I move on to avoid getting hurt and then really hate that person(not be able to forgive)...........

Posted by TheLadySagittarius

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I can't stand men sometimes. Don't they get tired of constipating their emotions all of the time? If a mofo wants to have the relationship of his dreams then why can't he be a woman's knight in shining armor? It's just so stupid how they lean back and try to get the woman to chase them. Chivalry is ultra dead! Which is exactly why they end up at their homeboy's house, 10 mofos strong, playing the xbox 360 kinect, because they don't have a woman to call their own. Pathetic.

This was posted on the Taurus board..love it!

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hahah. yes men have become little girls. asking for money, clothes, etc. the script has totally been flipped.

they DO be at one house with one xbox. grown men in one room with a video game..lame.

@scorpdiva,
the sag just misses you but i would leave well enough alone with him. he is not going to surrender.

hes knows the games, because hes probably played it.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV
@scorpdiva,
the sag just misses you but i would leave well enough alone with him. he is not going to surrender.

No matter how mean this sounds and sorry for making you spit earlier scropdiva but it's really quite simple

multiple anything (dating, WITH or WITHOUT the sex) = not that invested, ever.
Only guys that will try and question this are either just past aging lothario or 18ish and into being fey and expressive in a way that means we don't like them to join in Xbox/Playstation fun.🙂🙂

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I get your point here, it is hard to put effort into one relationship when you are dating many people.

Posted by DMV
hes knows the games, because hes probably played it.

Yes he knows the game, funny thing is he likes playing the game Since he text me that one day he has been constanly texting no phone conversation just texting.... Like you said before DMV he is not going to surrender so it will constanly be a struggle to have this relationship he said he will try to change or to aleast me half way but we will see I am honestly scared to take it even further than our txts right now..

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Seriously, the guys you're dating have no inclination to give the more you're hoping for, if they do they have low self esteem.
Which in turn would make you go with some other guy anyways.
It's another 'have cake and eat it' scenario, even abused people look down their nose at shit like that.
Might not licky boom boom down with my posts but it's honest, direct and to the point.

I would hope they wouldn't, a guy can tell if I am all the way serious and they can tell if I am not, hanging out or just dating is just that and I would hope they would only take it for that, me and the sagg have been knowing other for almost 2yrs and when our relationship first started it was just me and him and no one else. Regardless of what you think with him it is real but towards the end he neglected me in some ways which he knows and he verified by text so that is when I started doing my own thing. So this wasn't our complete relationship me dating others I didn't hang out with others till the end and when I say others I mean a couple of dates with a libra who is more like a friend, and another sagg who I am just friends with also and he lives like 2hrs away from me so maybe you misread my post on the other people I was seeing. Then their was my taurus ex who I was seeing before I met the sagg, so I don't know what you think but I normally date one person but I refuse to get hurt so if I see it going that way yes I will admit I move on with my life. I have made not commitment to no one, I would like to make a comment but I need that surrender you read my venus in scorp.

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Posted by DMV
hes knows the games, because hes probably played it.

Yes he knows the game, funny thing is he likes playing the game Since he text me that one day he has been constanly texting no phone conversation just texting.... Like you said before DMV he is not going to surrender so it will constanly be a struggle to have this relationship he said he will try to change or to aleast me half way but we will see I am honestly scared to take it even further than our txts right now..

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you have the need to control your relationships, the pace, the guy, what happens next. you want a man but you need a man who doesnt ming being told what to do.

this is not this man. the change will only be temporary.

the thing ive learned about relationships is that, people are people. i dont want nobody changing me and i dont want to change anyone else. i want someone to accept me as is, a freakin looney tunes.

i think you need to go for a nice virgo or cap.

i dont think its possbile for saggis and scorps to remain friends after a love affair, the feelings and passion, hatred and betrayal are hard to forget for both sides.

no sequels mama. you shouldnt have to break up with someone to get them to finally do what youve been asking them to do for months.

Posted by DMV

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
hes knows the games, because hes probably played it.

Yes he knows the game, funny thing is he likes playing the game Since he text me that one day he has been constanly texting no phone conversation just texting.... Like you said before DMV he is not going to surrender so it will constanly be a struggle to have this relationship he said he will try to change or to aleast me half way but we will see I am honestly scared to take it even further than our txts right now..

you have the need to control your relationships, the pace, the guy, what happens next. you want a man but you need a man who doesnt ming being told what to do.

this is not this man. the change will only be temporary.

the thing ive learned about relationships is that, people are people. i dont want nobody changing me and i dont want to change anyone else. i want someone to accept me as is, a freakin looney tunes.

i think you need to go for a nice virgo or cap.

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I do get alone well with virgo's and cap's...

Posted by DMV
i dont think its possbile for saggis and scorps to remain friends after a love affair, the feelings and passion, hatred and betrayal are hard to forget for both sides.

no sequels mama. you shouldnt have to break up with someone to get them to finally do what youve been asking them to do for months.

Exactly!

I wish he would have never txt me, he was on my mind a little but I had no urge to contact him.
Like today just an hour he asked what would I like for Mother's Day? I don't feel like responding.

^^^an hour ago,

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't think it's anything to do with star signs, moreso attitudes and expectations.
No one has their cake and eats it, every time.
Something always comes to light.

Right! But that is how most of you men think, you want your cake and eat it too......every time

instead of stringing him along since you know your not 100% invested, just tell him that you just want to be friends. no need for him to be buying gifts and shit.

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't think it's anything to do with star signs, moreso attitudes and expectations.
No one has their cake and eats it, every time.
Something always comes to light.

Right! But that is how most of you men think, you want your cake and eat it too......every time

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women think this way too....ive been guilty of it and so have you...

Posted by DMV
instead of stringing him along since you know your not 100% invested, just tell him that you just want to be friends. no need for him to be buying gifts and shit.

I told him no need for gifts.