saggie123
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Having kids
Posted by saggie123
So my cousin just had a baby...
I'm terrified. I'm terrified of having kids.
I can't imagine myself having a baby. It is like you are free and independent and then life changes, you bring them home and stuck with them forever. I'm almost 30 and do not want kids, can't even think about it!
You all sags tell me I'm not crazy LOL, does anyone else feel the same way? I know we sags are big for freedom...
Sure, you are not alone.......same here.....😉
Prefer keeping freedom above all.......which is a BIG DEAL for Sags.......🙂
Totally feel you on this one
Everyone around me is poppin those suckers out too...vagina baby factories...gross
I am just not ready!
My Taurus friend had her second last month and I went to see her and was holding the baby and she's all "awww Bri you look so cute holding a baby, when you gonna have one?"
I told her get fucking real...take the baby!
lmao she's always trying me like that...she also posted a family picture on facebook with the new baby and I commented that I wanted one...like the copy of the picture...and she goes "a baby, or the picture."
-_- get real bro
& when I'm at the store, or out to eat, and someone's kid is screaming and crying and throwing a tantrum...it's just more validation. I don't need that shit! Noooo thanks
Everyone around me is poppin those suckers out too...vagina baby factories...gross
I am just not ready!
My Taurus friend had her second last month and I went to see her and was holding the baby and she's all "awww Bri you look so cute holding a baby, when you gonna have one?"
I told her get fucking real...take the baby!
lmao she's always trying me like that...she also posted a family picture on facebook with the new baby and I commented that I wanted one...like the copy of the picture...and she goes "a baby, or the picture."
-_- get real bro
& when I'm at the store, or out to eat, and someone's kid is screaming and crying and throwing a tantrum...it's just more validation. I don't need that shit! Noooo thanks
I think I will probably be the only one to disagree. I have wanted kids ever since I can remember. I have wanted that perfect marriage with several kids.
The only thing that actually scares me about pregnancy is 'actually' giving birth and the pain of it. I fear that my partner will stop loving me after the babys born. I fear that I won't be able to love my new born baby cause some mothers have that don't they? lol!
I am ready for the next step in my life now and am happy to give up my freedom! I just cannot wait to have a baby! I think about it more and more everyday!
Roll on baby making!! HA
The only thing that actually scares me about pregnancy is 'actually' giving birth and the pain of it. I fear that my partner will stop loving me after the babys born. I fear that I won't be able to love my new born baby cause some mothers have that don't they? lol!
I am ready for the next step in my life now and am happy to give up my freedom! I just cannot wait to have a baby! I think about it more and more everyday!
Roll on baby making!! HA
Posted by luckystar007Posted by saggie123
So my cousin just had a baby...
Prefer keeping freedom above all.......which is a BIG DEAL for Sags.......🙂click to expand
Also I know it's such a huge deal with Sagis and their freedom but sometimes I really wonder, do I really LOVE my freedom that much? OR have I just maybe never been with anyone whos restricted my freedom. I think I quite like the idea of being on lockdown from my partner, it secretly turns me on, HA! Maybe If I really got with someone who told me that I couldn't do this and that then it might be an issue for me? hmmmm...i dunno....
I've been looking after my nephew for most of this week...he's almost three. I love the boy but honestly it's such hard work and he's not even mine.
My Aries best friend had a little girl 4 months ago. When I see her or a little newborn I get all mega broody but it's all raging hormones. She and my other friends ask when I'm going to pop one out but the whole idea...pregnancy, giving birth, night-time duties, tantrums etc...it really scares me. Realistically I don't see it happening.
But it's strange because I've always been told I'd make a great mum and I've always been good with kids (maybe due to the fact that I get to hand them back at the end of the day).
My Aries best friend had a little girl 4 months ago. When I see her or a little newborn I get all mega broody but it's all raging hormones. She and my other friends ask when I'm going to pop one out but the whole idea...pregnancy, giving birth, night-time duties, tantrums etc...it really scares me. Realistically I don't see it happening.
But it's strange because I've always been told I'd make a great mum and I've always been good with kids (maybe due to the fact that I get to hand them back at the end of the day).
I never wanted kids. But I had a daughter. I was mortified holding her in he hospital. I'd say maybe three days later I gazed into her big brown eyes and fell in love. I generally hate having my freedom restricted. But I don't mind with her. the only time I get annoyed that way is when she goes through my phone or stands over my shoulder when I'm on the computer. Or if she wants to know exactly what I'm doing lol. But besides that, I have no issues. And I think it would be even less if I was with her dad. It's more difficult being single. But that Sag with his Venus in Scorp was one smothering, snooping, clinging dude! Aww hell no! Lmao!
Posted by brianafay
Totally feel you on this one
Everyone around me is poppin those suckers out too...vagina baby factories...gross
I am just not ready!
My Taurus friend had her second last month and I went to see her and was holding the baby and she's all "awww Bri you look so cute holding a baby, when you gonna have one?"
I told her get fucking real...take the baby!
lmao she's always trying me like that...she also posted a family picture on facebook with the new baby and I commented that I wanted one...like the copy of the picture...and she goes "a baby, or the picture."
-_- get real bro
& when I'm at the store, or out to eat, and someone's kid is screaming and crying and throwing a tantrum...it's just more validation. I don't need that shit! Noooo thanks
Haha that's exactly how I feel 🙂 so funny
I think 0-1 is way plenty LOL
i do want kids, a whole mess of em. but im scared of soo much.
Posted by Mebs
It's more difficult being single. But that Sag with his Venus in Scorp was one smothering, snooping, clinging dude! Aww hell no! Lmao!
What this about—————
Sag man with Venus in Scorp is bad type————
So I'm the ONLY one hey? Lol!
Don't get me wrong, I love babies and little kids...they're cute...they say cute shit...but I'm mostly glad they're not mine these days.
I want my own one day. Just not now.
I want my own one day. Just not now.
Posted by Sutekh
I look at kids and am a bit confused, like umm ok what do I do with it?
Do I say hello, wave, dap/pound. Do i make dumb baby noises to talk to it or talk like an adult?
hahahahaha. a pound——?
I LOVE kids and I simply cannot wait to have all four of my kids. I have also named ALL of them and whoever I have them with has NO say whatsoever, MUHAHAHAHA!
Posted by DMVPosted by Sutekh
I look at kids and am a bit confused, like umm ok what do I do with it?
Do I say hello, wave, dap/pound. Do i make dumb baby noises to talk to it or talk like an adult?
hahahahaha. a pound——?click to expand
Yeah I had to lol at that.
I dont know how to/dont want to care about other??s children, I am just focused in mine.
It's actually a relief knowing that some of you aren't going to breed.
Posted by Wynter
It's actually a relief knowing that some of you aren't going to breed.
bwhahahahaha
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by misopretty
Having kids is not for everyone, that's for sure.
If you love sleep, don't have kids.
If you love freedom, don't have kids.
If you love money, don't have kids.
If you love cleanliness and organization, don't have kids.
If you love peace and quiet, don't have kids.
If you love to have your bed to yourself, don't have kids.
If you love "me" time, don't have kids.
If you love to have sex whenever you want, don't have kids.
If you like going to the bathroom by yourself, don't have kids.
If you're not ready to give any of those up yet, don't have kids.
On a side note, If you want to experience the truest, purest form of unconditional love, then raise a child!
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lol
Posted by DMVPosted by Wynter
It's actually a relief knowing that some of you aren't going to breed.
bwhahahahahaclick to expand
LOL
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by Wynter
It's actually a relief knowing that some of you aren't going to breed.
dont worry as much as he tries he will never get dxp pregnant.click to expand
ahahahah
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by everevolvingepithet
Haha, I'd just have to compromise with them, like here's some sweets or your favourite toys if you behave until it's the other half on duty lol.
hmmm so you're suggesting a bribery deal.....
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Phahahaha!!!!!!
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
LOL @ this thread! 😄
It DOES bring up an interesting question, however: How DO some of you- especially the ones in relationships and raising kids- find the time to camp out on dxp ALl DAY LONG?
LOL
Shouldn't you be attending to the needs of your loved ones?
At some point?
O_o
LOL
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by Dominooo
Your logic is just.... ....damn I'm losing braincells.
which is probably why you don't have a book published on how to raise kids.
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lmfao!
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by everevolvingepithet
Yup, kids are cool but sound like a lot of work at times.
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Awwww!!! — 🙂
What a cute little Virgo! 🙂
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm gonna have nightmares
Hehehe 🙂
OF COURSE I want to have kids.
But only with the one my heart belongs to..... (scorpioooooooooooooo yes she said it again, am I going on your nerves? i HOPE so 😄)
I was pregnant... Some of you already know.
I didn't want to do this.. Sometimes I regret it. Because I would love my child more than anything else.
But I want to reach my goals first, so my baby can be proud of his mommy. And I want to be able to take the
responsibility for a kid. I hope I'll have a kid with my ex scorpio someday... He is the only one who made me wanna have kids, because if you love someone so deeply you want to make CHILDREN 😄
Some of you should grow up. Seriously.
But only with the one my heart belongs to..... (scorpioooooooooooooo yes she said it again, am I going on your nerves? i HOPE so 😄)
I was pregnant... Some of you already know.
I didn't want to do this.. Sometimes I regret it. Because I would love my child more than anything else.
But I want to reach my goals first, so my baby can be proud of his mommy. And I want to be able to take the
responsibility for a kid. I hope I'll have a kid with my ex scorpio someday... He is the only one who made me wanna have kids, because if you love someone so deeply you want to make CHILDREN 😄
Some of you should grow up. Seriously.
Posted by MzSagPosted by Ligeia
I do want kids(preferably boys) eventually. I
just have this nagging fear of the state of the
world they are going to incarnate to.
Same here. I could have it my way, I'd have 2-4 BOYS.click to expand
+1 . Hopefully my next one will be a boy ...
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I'm terrified. I'm terrified of having kids.
I can't imagine myself having a baby. It is like you are free and independent and then life changes, you bring them home and stuck with them forever. I'm almost 30 and do not want kids, can't even think about it!
You all sags tell me I'm not crazy LOL, does anyone else feel the same way? I know we sags are big for freedom...