Hey Saggis. What are your ultimate deal breakers?

What drives you crazy and is an absolute "no" for you? My dad is a Sagittarius and I feel like he has none. He lets women act wild!

Cheating... everything else go for it. I personally like a little craziness

The usuals...lying, cheating, etc. Basically someone who doesn't have themselves together...and isn't trying to.

For me Dishonesty (cheating) is at the top of my list.

Nothing turns me off than a man without ambition and being too negative. I can't stand it. I try to be optimistic as much possible so this really turns me off.

Posted by hellosaggy
Cheating... everything else go for it. I personally like a little craziness

Haven't you cheated multiple times? i thought you would be more understanding in that department.

My dad even remarried a woman who left him for another man. He has a Cancer moon. They just divorced a second time.

My other Sag friend stopped dating someone because they got too drunk at a party. He had a DUI himself and couldnt drive.... haha it was Hypocritical. He has an Aries moon.

I read and see such conflicting things.

Lying, possessiveness, and cheating. I think the norm for any sign.

I will put up with A LOT if I am in love though. It's the whole optimistic side of me and me believing in them, my Neptune is also in Sag so I'm helpless with giving people chances 😢

Posted by heliumfiasco
My dad even remarried a woman who left him for another man. He has a Cancer moon. They just divorced a second time.

My other Sag friend stopped dating someone because they got too drunk at a party. He had a DUI himself and couldnt drive.... haha it was Hypocritical. He has an Aries moon.

I read and see such conflicting things.

I feel you.

My uncle is a sag and he had two parallel relationships with kids and all. I thought it was only him because i had a couple flings with sag guys in the past and they didn't seem to behave that way (or so i thought, but after reading the cheating thread in the sag forum, i'm not so sure anymore). Maybe they hid it too well.

Posted by saggurl88
Lying, possessiveness, and cheating. I think the norm for any sign.

I will put up with A LOT if I am in love though. It's the whole optimistic side of me and me believing in them, my Neptune is also in Sag so I'm helpless with giving people chances 😢

My dad has a very similar chart as you. He is my favorite human. However, with women he is hopeless. He falls in LOVE quick. Then all hell breaks loose.

I was thinking of dating a Sag man awhile back. He was so fun. Literally we laughed and talked for hours on 3 dates. We vibed strongly! We made out in my car for 3 hours once... haha we were in our damn 30's. Then he just kind of vanished on me after I made a comment about our hangouts sizzling out. I say shit sporadically, gets me in lots of trouble!

Posted by heliumfiasco

Posted by saggurl88
Lying, possessiveness, and cheating. I think the norm for any sign.

I will put up with A LOT if I am in love though. It's the whole optimistic side of me and me believing in them, my Neptune is also in Sag so I'm helpless with giving people chances 😢

My dad has a very similar chart as you. He is my favorite human. However, with women he is hopeless. He falls in LOVE quick. Then all hell breaks loose.

I was thinking of dating a Sag man awhile back. He was so fun. Literally we laughed and talked for hours on 3 dates. We vibed strongly! We made out in my car for 3 hours once... haha we were in our damn 30's. Then he just kind of vanished on me after I made a comment about our hangouts sizzling out. I say shit sporadically, gets me in lots of trouble!

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Yeah, his feelings must of got hurt so he figured "Ah, whatever. Ok. On to the next!"

If you said then and then didn't contact him when you didn't hear from him, it's easy to just keep moving forward for us.

I tried to contact him by sending a funny picture related to something that happened to us in the bedroom. He just said haha with emojis. So, the next day I asked if he still wanted to hangout. He never replied. He'd comment on my pics and stuff. I was thinking of hitting him up again. Just to bullshit 🙂

Posted by heliumfiasco
I tried to contact him by sending a funny picture related to something that happened to us in the bedroom. He just said haha with emojis. So, the next day I asked if he still wanted to hangout. He never replied. He'd comment on my pics and stuff. I was thinking of hitting him up again. Just to bullshit 🙂

If you didn't mean what you said, you should just be upfront and say that. And say you want to hang out again cause you had fun, he just makes you nervous or something. Make up an excuse to give his bruised ego something to believe. Lol

Sending a random emoji still doesn't mean you liked him lol.

Lying and just being plain ol dumb

Posted by heliumfiasco
What drives you crazy and is an absolute "no" for you? My dad is a Sagittarius and I feel like he has none. He lets women act wild!

Wild can never be boring tho

Any form of dishonesty (lying, cheating, having a hidden agenda), never letting me go out. We sags are very easy going & accepting of others. Seeing others being free & happy makes us happy.