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Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
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Haha!! So i can expect him to ask me to live together soon?? Or maybe something even more 😄
Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
Haha!! So i can expect him to ask me to live together soon?? Or maybe something even more 😄
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Well you never know. He said there just came a time in his life when he decided it was time to give his all to a relationship. He said before that he was too focused on his studies, traveling, freedom lol to settle with someone. Some tried to tie him down, but they were left feeling unfulfilled and ended up leaving him if he just ended it. Which he didn't really get too upset because he knew he wasn't that focused on the relationship. With me he said I never pushed him to be tied down and we just clicked.. More like best friends... There's a different kind of passion between us. I just love it.. It's balanced, no drama because we are both independent and want each other at the same time.
It just depends.. I'd stay with him for a weekend or something and little by little we'd want to spend more time together. At one point I was there basically every day. I decided to go spend a week at home (because I needed my stuff all in one place.. Lol) And he said he missed me too much and wanted me to move in.
Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
Sag and libra are the perfect match.
My sister sag and hubby libra. Been married for almost 30 years.
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Yeah I know you don't like either of us... lol But hey 30 years is a long time!
I know another Libra with a Sag...and the funny thing is she TOLD me to find a Sag! lol (I told her about my past with my ex Taurus..so she suggested a Sag.) Although I told her I would never date (or not date) someone based on their signs.. lol
I didn't mean to though.. I dated and then the one I happen to like the most (that I met through a family friend) ended up being a Sag. That was so weird.
Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
Sag and libra are the perfect match.
My sister sag and hubby libra. Been married for almost 30 years.
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This Is going to contradict this statement but my sag says that this libra girl he was dating is very boring and doesn't talk at all. Extremely quiet and he gets really bored being with her and always on his phone etc.... where with me he's never on his phone ever and always communicate n talk for ages.. n ofcoz do that whole passionate sex thing Venus in Scorpio does... mmmmm
Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.Not one bit..
Half the time we have already committed, they just don't know.. Or understand.
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Lol how so—? how would they know if they don't voice it out somehow.. What is even a commitment to you?
Every time now I tease him about other girls as he's the most popular kind n all girls will just knee down to him he keeps saying things change now and he's not like that anymore n he's very tired of sleeping around now.. I don't know if I trust his words and he says it's entirely up to me to believe him or not..
Posted by Redoctober2000
That's like asking "how long is a piece of string?" .. .Answer: "you don't"....
Horses run free from stable to stable until they find the "perfect" one!!!
Best thing u ever wrote
How do describe a perfect one? I bet as a sag even if they find a perfect one they will still run free coz they can't commit to that perfect one ether imaoooo
This is true!! This sound like Me and I'm a Chinese fire horse.... Always searching for that "perfect" one who only exists in my head!!! Lol
Horses will keep "searching" even till eternity until they find it...
His VIS has nothing to do with it!!! It's restless nature of his sun sign..
My sun and mars are in Taurus but conjunct in ninth house... I'm always on the move... And as a Chinese fire horse... My "love nature" is practically like a sag...
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Wow ! u r not a sag but sound like a sag... haha... It all comes down to being appreciative of what you have.. but if you love someone, that person comes out on top don't they ? Perfection doesn't truly exist there's always going to b someone better out there.. Just have to find the one worth settling for 😉
Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating the that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
Sag and libra are the perfect match.
My sister sag and hubby libra. Been married for almost 30 years.
Yeah I know you don't like either of us... lol But hey 30 years is a long time!
I know another Libra with a Sag...and the funny thing is she TOLD me to find a Sag! lol (I told her about my past with my ex Taurus..so she suggested a Sag.) Although I told her I would never date (or not date) someone based on their signs.. lol
I didn't mean to though.. I dated and then the one I happen to like the most (that I met through a family friend) ended up being a Sag. That was so weird.
Taurus isn't easy. Hard as a brick wall.... They do try your patience.....
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I am a Taurus haha.. Can be like that sometimes but my airy placements are cooling it off.. When I feel like I wanna possess him I just detach and try to remain calm.... No one will ever know I'm slightly jealous or possessive. I hide it extremely well even with him
Posted by hera
Hm.. My sag always says that if i have met him 10 years ago he would have maybe had problems with commiting.. But now, he doesnt.. He always says that it cones with age.. He is not afraid of it.. He keeps repeating the that i gave him reasons to settle down and think of a possible future with him..But its very true what others say: i give him his space, have my own, no pinning down, no telling him what he should or should not do.. We are two seperate ppl who work perfectly together.. And a lot of laughter.. I simply cant say i ever laughed this hard 🙂 but im not sure about emotional side, about that us libras make sags emotionaly weak.. Its the. Other way around when it comes to me.. He made me emotionally weak 🙂))
Holy crap! I think we are living the same life! That's EXACTLY what my Sag said and how I feel about him! Best relationship ever...so far lol
Sag and libra are the perfect match.
My sister sag and hubby libra. Been married for almost 30 years.
Yeah I know you don't like either of us... lol But hey 30 years is a long time!
I know another Libra with a Sag...and the funny thing is she TOLD me to find a Sag! lol (I told her about my past with my ex Taurus..so she suggested a Sag.) Although I told her I would never date (or not date) someone based on their signs.. lol
I didn't mean to though.. I dated and then the one I happen to like the most (that I met through a family friend) ended up being a Sag. That was so weird.
Taurus isn't easy. Hard as a brick wall.... They do try your patience.....
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True.. And I have quite a bit of patience, which is why I was able to stay so long. But some days I would even tell him, "trying to get through to you is like trying to break through a damn brick wall!!" Geez
But he had a lot of wonderful qualities before things got bad as well, which is why I don't swear off any sign. Just because he did certain things, doesn't mean all Taurus will.
My Taurus ex of over 12 years provided a stable base for me to do my thing. He was just always there and undemanding. We broke up because he is still pretty much the same as when I met him 16 years ago. Same great qualities...but same bad qualities too. Saggies need to grow and achieve goals. If their partner doesn't, I don't think it could work out in the long run.
Posted by SunMoonStars
My Taurus ex of over 12 years provided a stable base for me to do my thing. He was just always there and undemanding. We broke up because he is still pretty much the same as when I met him 16 years ago. Same great qualities...but same bad qualities too. Saggies need to grow and achieve goals. If their partner doesn't, I don't think it could work out in the long run.
Glad there's a few working Taurus and sag out there. What r ur placements and his? I'm sorry things didn't work out in the end 😢 yes i know sags need to constantly move forward.. I'm the same which is different for a Taurus. I need to explore and try different things on the time . Must b my moon in Aquarius qualities
Posted by Harukka
I read somewhere that the sag man is the hardest man in the zodiac sign . LolAren't aquas the hardest to tie down?
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No, they're fixed. They eventually bond exclusively. Sag is mutable. It's a little more difficult for that energy to settle. Not saying it isn't possible, just much more of a challenge.
Posted by Redoctober2000
That's like asking "how long is a piece of string?" .. .Answer: "you don't"....
Horses run free from stable to stable until they find the "perfect" one!!!
Best thing u ever wrote
How do describe a perfect one? I bet as a sag even if they find a perfect one they will still run free coz they can't commit to that perfect one ether imaoooo
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Not true. Dont belive the hype
If you have to practice any magical *~secrets and tricks~* to get someone to commit, then whatever "commitment" you manage to nab won't be real and genuine.
Posted by fugu2
If you have to practice any magical *~secrets and tricks~* to get someone to commit, then whatever "commitment" you manage to nab won't be real and genuine.
The realist post ever.. Just be yourself. Don't play their game. You'll eventually get tired of it.
Posted by fugu2
If you have to practice any magical *~secrets and tricks~* to get someone to commit, then whatever "commitment" you manage to nab won't be real and genuine.The realist post ever.. Just be yourself. Don't play their game. You'll eventually get tired of it.
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Word. I'm already tired of the game.. wait what game? .. I think sags play games unconsciously.. I don't really wanna trick no one or play games with him to commit.. if he doesn't see what he has then he can go f himself lol.. nah I really think it's the restless nature of a sag .. I asked about exclusivity before now I don't know if I should mention it again or play the I'm cool with it all card and u noe pretend it doesn't bother me anymore .. I'm not sure where I should go from here.. If I start dating again. , would that be a good move?? It's not to make him jealous , just so maybe he can step up his game and maybe I find a better fish in the sea... 🙂 what do sags think of that?
Posted by fugu2
If you have to practice any magical *~secrets and tricks~* to get someone to commit, then whatever "commitment" you manage to nab won't be real and genuine.
And yes I want him to want to be with me exclusively because he wants to and not because I ask him to... but I might have to wait forever for that to happen with a sag ... he said last he isn't doing it n was only with me but God knows.. it's very hard to trust this sun sign when it comes to loyalty ... even if their Venus in Scorpio.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm kinda chuckling at this thread...it's really not that hard to get us to commit.
So spill the beans and tell us how to make sags commit...... —
Posted by exo
i told him i wanted exclusivity or nothing.i made every visit and encounter worthwhile, worth the wait and experience.
when he started talking serious, i made him work for it. he got his shit together. i became his goal for the future.
and he proposed and now we're married. 🙂
Omg congrats girl!!!
Posted by exo
i told him i wanted exclusivity or nothing.i made every visit and encounter worthwhile, worth the wait and experience.
when he started talking serious, i made him work for it. he got his shit together. i became his goal for the future.
and he proposed and now we're married. 🙂
Omg congrats girl!!!
thank you, bri! 🙂 when are you and your libra getting married? 😄
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The eternal question.
He's a wild animal, I've given up
Posted by exo
i told him i wanted exclusivity or nothing.i made every visit and encounter worthwhile, worth the wait and experience.
when he started talking serious, i made him work for it. he got his shit together. i became his goal for the future.
and he proposed and now we're married. 🙂
Omg congrats girl!!!
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Congrats !!! That's my goal right now it's really all or nothing. I'm actually done.. not sad though, I really think he's the one with regrets honestly. Some sags just too busy checking the grass which they think r greener on the other side.. we shall remain great friends.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Go traveling with him. He might be more likely to commit if you're travel/adventure compatible with him.*shrugs*
We talked about that a few times but his cap moon never relaxes him enough to do that. Known him for almost 3 years n he never had one holiday. He's actually not really a typical sag that I know that's for sure
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Not one bit..
Half the time we have already committed, they just don't know.. Or understand.