I cant stand him..whyy?!

He drives me insane, and yet we??re still hooking up with eachother. Ugh. I swear he pisses me off for no reason just for the simple fact that he knows that he can. Sorry I am coming out of nowhere with all this, but I guess I need to vent.

Its officially been one year of us hooking up. I call him an a** hole, and he calls me sensitive. I hate when he calls me that. We get into this big fight out of nowhere and its like an explosion. Then it just stops and we don't speak for awhile. Then one of us, comes out and says sorry or we just text randomly and within the same night, were hooking up again. My best friend (Capricorn) told me —you two need to just get married already.?? All our arguments are so childish too and yet I don't know why they even happen. We just hook up. Recently I was out with some friends and I was texting him and he just asked who I was with. I told him with some friends and I mentioned some were guys. But then he tells me he wants to hook up. I told him to go find someone (just being kind of playful about it), but I think he was trying to make me jealous by saying he was going to ask someone else. But he never did cuz then he said he wanted to see me. I told him I was already out and I cant just leave my friends for him. I mean why ask me when you know im already busy? So that's when we got into this pointless argument. Then he calls me while im out and argues with me about the fact that WERE ARGUING. Lol. He tells me —oh why do we keep arguing like as if were in a relationship and we go together— Well I wish I knew the answer to that question!

He acts so bipolar with me sometimes, then turns around and tells me im the one being sensitive?? Really? Not only bipolar but he does get possessive too. The other week we were taxting and it was a day or two later after we hooked up and I called him buddy. I always call him buddy or pal, but just being playful and he calls me that back. No big deal. but this time he got alittle weird about it. saying 'Oh im buddy huh'. I don't know what hes trying to do. This isn't the first time this has happened. Before that I stopped speaking to him for a month. He called out of nowhere saying he heard that I was hanging out with this guy and wanted to know if we hooked up. Not only that but he showed up at my house that same night wanting to randomly see me telling me if I wasn't going to come out that he was going to knock on the door and wait until I did??_..yea but im the one

that's being sensitive and in my feelings? lol

Are you Spanish... you sound like you are in love. So much passion for this man... lol

PM

You may have said it but what is his sign ?

Are you Sag or is he? I recognize some of the traits lol.

It's cause you want to get laid.

I tolerated my annoying hookup only because I liked having the option of getting laid.

But I did get tired of that bs and barely talk to the dude anymore. Too many mommy issues...

It sounds like yours is being stupid and possessive. "Omg who are you with?? Who are you talking to? Where are you?" WHO CARES. You aren't his girlfriend, he has no place asking you such things and expecting you to stay virginal status for him.

I think you know the answer to this, you just want validation.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
It's cause you want to get laid.

I tolerated my annoying hookup only because I liked having the option of getting laid.

But I did get tired of that bs and barely talk to the dude anymore. Too many mommy issues...

It sounds like yours is being stupid and possessive. "Omg who are you with?? Who are you talking to? Where are you?" WHO CARES. You aren't his girlfriend, he has no place asking you such things and expecting you to stay virginal status for him.

I think you know the answer to this, you just want validation.

QFT

A few months ago there was this thread on Scorp board and I have forgotten the title. OP issued two such threads to bring the point how Sagittarians give up at 98% .

This is not true for most issues of life, for me. I bring things to an end. I love to finish tasks.

But in a heart affair?
I found my ex unenjoyable. He knew it cause I told him. Several times. Then there come the day when I was off the train. He noticed it and tried to be nice. He showed one of his last hidden cards. It did not help us. My hear has changed.
[btw nice to read: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/the-last-card-in-the-deck-4927933/]<BR>
I've told it already to IWill, in another thread. It is written in astrotexts. Sags like challenges. Not cheap, not too expensive. We give up on toooo expensive challenges. (Path=destination)

@GF, you will waste time with this man. Once you are cold, he may try to be nice and it will be too late. It will be at 98% .

Sags need a friend as lover. Written in astro texts. Power struggle kills the friendship.
Do you want challenge? Or compatibility, partnerships, stability, children, ...?

Posted by DwellingOnMove
A few months ago there was this thread on Scorp board and I have forgotten the title. OP issued two such threads to bring the point how Sagittarians give up at 98% .

This is not true for most issues of life, for me. I bring things to an end. I love to finish tasks.

But in a heart affair?
I found my ex unenjoyable. He knew it cause I told him. Several times. Then there come the day when I was off the train. He noticed it and tried to be nice. He showed one of his last hidden cards. It did not help us. My hear has changed.
[btw nice to read: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/the-last-card-in-the-deck-4927933/]<BR>
I've told it already to IWill, in another thread. It is written in astrotexts. Sags like challenges. Not cheap, not too expensive. We give up on toooo expensive challenges. (Path=destination)

@GF, you will waste time with this man. Once you are cold, he may try to be nice and it will be too late. It will be at 98% .

Sags need a friend as lover. Written in astro texts. Power struggle kills the friendship.
Do you want challenge? Or compatibility, partnerships, stability, children, ...?

Such a wise owl with the galaxy in your eyes 🙂

I love that picture

@GF, you will waste time with this man. Once you are cold, he may try to be nice and it will be too late. It will be at 98% .

this is true, but maybe OP wants to waste time?

Hahahha, wynty, the Zeus... I took it so Nemesis can see it. Just in case she lurks every now and then.

wise? you're good to me.
The thing is it would give my life sense if my experiences could help the young Sags. But not every young one is ready to learn from the book. Sometimes they want to do the same mistake by themselves. All is ok.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
Hahahha, wynty, the Zeus... I took it so Nemesis can see it. Just in case she lurks every now and then.

wise? you're good to me.
The thing is it would give my life sense if my experiences could help the young Sags. But not every young one is ready to learn from the book. Sometimes they want to do the same mistake by themselves. All is ok.

I agree.

Posted by DMV
@GF, you will waste time with this man. Once you are cold, he may try to be nice and it will be too late. It will be at 98% .this is true, but maybe OP wants to waste time?

yeah, that's an option.

also interesting to read:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/how-many-of-you-4992844/ "How many of you.... get turned on when you fight with your SO?"

Posted by YellowSubmarine

Posted by DwellingOnMove
Sags like challenges. Not cheap, not too expensive. We give up on toooo expensive challenges. (Path=destination)

Power struggle kills the friendship.
Do you want challenge? Or compatibility, partnerships, stability, children, ...?

Yeah my Sag called our relationship "too easy" when we were breaking up - once I thought about it, he was right.

I never got angry, I never shouted at him, and sadly, that's actually what he wanted. But the power struggle of me not willing to lose my shit/control eventually took it's toll.

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Yes last bit, personally if SO shows temper in argument or fires up verbally like crazy I'd know he feels thus willing to fight for us! Sorry to hear that though!!!

Posted by DwellingOnMove
Hahahha, wynty, the Zeus... I took it so Nemesis can see it. Just in case she lurks every now and then.

wise? you're good to me.
The thing is it would give my life sense if my experiences could help the young Sags. But not every young one is ready to learn from the book. Sometimes they want to do the same mistake by themselves. All is ok.

ah hah ha..I wish I could remember my lessons learned in youth..or even now

I just keep making the same ones over and over again, such a cat lady 😆

🙂

is this a rebound thing for either of you?

Posted by Wynter

Posted by DwellingOnMove
... experiences could help the young Sags...

....or even now

I just keep making the same ones over and over again...

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o my, if IWill sees this. She is 29 and angry why she does not learn. Should we tell her that is part of the program "Sagittarius"? That there's not even a patch/fix for it? 😕

@MZ
--No, well for me it was..i wasn't over this other Taurus guy so I just hooked up with this one for the hell of it. I waited 7months for the other one so I was in need of some male attention for once. He seemed like that type that didn't want anything serious so he was an easy pick I guess.


Im a sag, hes a Taurus...we are both very prideful and don't show our vulnerable side that easily. Deep down, I get why hes like that cuz of certain things that happened to him. But id never say that to him.

The problem that I always had with him is that what he says and his actions don't really match?

But then he turns it around on me?

Posted by piscesmoon2
Are you Spanish... you sound like you are in love. So much passion for this man... lol

PM

hahahaha sorry im from Miami, maybe that's why.

Posted by GalacticFun89
@MZ
--No, well for me it was..i wasn't over this other Taurus guy so I just hooked up with this one for the hell of it. I waited 7months for the other one so I was in need of some male attention for once. He seemed like that type that didn't want anything serious so he was an easy pick I guess.


Im a sag, hes a Taurus...we are both very prideful and don't show our vulnerable side that easily. Deep down, I get why hes like that cuz of certain things that happened to him. But id never say that to him.

The problem that I always had with him is that what he says and his actions don't really match?

But then he turns it around on me?

this is a rebound relationship pattern...get rid of it...it can go on and on and on ....but nothing good is going to come out of it...

or, at least, take a long break till both of you figure out things and clear up your minds

just my opinion

Taurus guy? Oh gawd

I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a fork.

Posted by DwellingOnMove

Posted by Wynter

Posted by DwellingOnMove
... experiences could help the young Sags...

....or even now

I just keep making the same ones over and over again...

o my, if IWill sees this. She is 29 and angry why she does not learn. Should we tell her that is part of the program "Sagittarius"? That there's not even a patch/fix for it? 😕

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Isn't she bonkers over some Cancer guy? The only thing that relieves the agony of losing a Cancer guy is acquiring another Cancer guy 😆

but, yeah 😢

Posted by Wynter
Taurus guy? Oh gawd

I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a fork.

lmao!

GF89, from personal experience no Taurus for me ever again. Had a way of making things seem my fault all the time as well. Too controlling too bossy I hated the dominating vibe he had. Ditch him I'd say.